First time love problem here.......
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i'm experiencing the so called love at first sight syndrome. It all started when i met this gal called Esther in China Black......
My ex sec sch fren intro her to me as she is accompanying her galfrens.
She is err well lian on the outside but womanly & nice on the inside. Her smile is ravishingly beautiful & captivates my eyes. She talks most of the time with me as her frens talking wif their steads. Until one time when i want to ask her no. when we went off. But err this extra......
burly guy just came out to her & look coldly & sternly at the rest of us & err that truns me off.
The problem is that this is my first time that i've been in love with someone for the last 20 years. Juz that i'm shy & quite reserved & when want to ask for her no., my timidness kept on prowling on me until then it is too late. I ask my frens for her no. but they all dun have.
Sign can't get the silly mistake i make out of my head.......
Every time i dream of her is that song song for a while but think back again i feel like banging my head on the wall for screwing things up.
Any kind souls pls give me tips & advices to further improve my relationship wif her. -
so u still have anyways of contacting her? or u lost contact with her? if u still have contact to her, by all means contact her, ask her out and express urself to her... draw urself close to her, let her know ur feelings...
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I feel very depressed over this need immediate action........
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I dun have her contact no. so how?Originally posted by shifeng:so u still have anyways of contacting her? or u lost contact with her? if u still have contact to her, by all means contact her, ask her out and express urself to her... draw urself close to her, let her know ur feelings... -
ask your ex. sec sch friend lorOriginally posted by larrenV2.003:I dun have her contact no. so how? 
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Yea u r damn rite.this time i'm not going to buaya, i'm going into a serious relationship for NOW.......Originally posted by sgboy2004: -
call ur ex sec sch fren for esther's contact.Originally posted by larrenV2.003:I dun have her contact no. so how? -
Originally posted by sgboy2004:ask your ex. sec sch friend lor
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please read my first post on top. They also dun have her contact no.! -
Ask already but they also dun have........Originally posted by weeeeeee.....:call ur ex sec sch fren for esther's contact. -
Priority is to get her phone number.
Pull favours and get your friends to organise a group outing that includes her... then make sure you get her number at all cost ! -
ur frens leh? ask them... those whom came out tat time with u... ask them to come out again, and call tat girl again...Originally posted by larrenV2.003:I dun have her contact no. so how?
u see, if u dun make an effort (or shd i say timidness?) to get her number, and now make urself suffer... its sort of like "u deserve" it.. if u get her number, at least u wont feel so depress right?
mayb ask those frens whether can come out again ba... as in ask tat girl out.. -
or go to chinablack again to look for her?Originally posted by shifeng:ur frens leh? ask them... those whom came out tat time with u... ask them to come out again, and call tat girl again...
u see, if u dun make an effort (or shd i say timidness?) to get her number, and now make urself suffer... its sort of like "u deserve" it.. if u get her number, at least u wont feel so depress right?
mayb ask those frens whether can come out again ba... as in ask tat girl out.. -
It won't happen so again............Originally posted by epImetheus:or go to chinablack again to look for her?
it is not very often i see them. -
If i manage to get her wat should i do?
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har? u ask us? u shd ask urself... do wat u want to do... to get or not to get is ur decision...Originally posted by larrenV2.003:If i manage to get her wat should i do?
if u do not want to do anything, or dun dare to do, then well... all i can say is u derserve to feel this way...
hope u will find her soon
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Originally posted by larrenV2.003:Yea u r damn rite.this time i'm not going to buaya, i'm going into a serious relationship for NOW....... How many times must men learn.
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Sheesh. I should have gone there with you. At least can be advisor liao.Originally posted by larrenV2.003:If i manage to get her wat should i do? -
Yup i understand liao......but wat i mean is that wat to say to her when i see her inperson.....cuz u know speaking from your heart between a virtual & the real person is of a different feeling & scenario.Originally posted by shifeng:har? u ask us? u shd ask urself... do wat u want to do... to get or not to get is ur decision...
if u do not want to do anything, or dun dare to do, then well... all i can say is u derserve to feel this way...
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No u got it wrong i buaya in forum but not in real life......Originally posted by M©+square: How many times must men learn. -
Hoho......fate makes it in such a way that u won't get to see any happenings.Originally posted by M©+square:Sheesh. I should have gone there with you. At least can be advisor liao. -
of course not asking u to be more direct.. this kind of thing have to be slow and plan carefully... u sure she is single? scarely later she got bf 1... then big disappointment for u...Originally posted by larrenV2.003:Yup i understand liao......but wat i mean is that wat to say to her when i see her inperson.....cuz u know speaking from your heart between a virtual & the real person is of a different feeling & scenario. -
That is one obsticle i have to experience man.........Originally posted by shifeng:of course not asking u to be more direct.. this kind of thing have to be slow and plan carefully... u sure she is single? scarely later she got bf 1... then big disappointment for u...
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I'm not even talking about being a buaya here.Originally posted by larrenV2.003:No u got it wrong i buaya in forum but not in real life......
You don't get my meaning.
How many times must men learn that the first time is always an illusion that brings long term obsession... Not LOVE. -
wow lau so easy...INTRODUCE TO ME LAr..i help u cow her...lol...
u like so anxious.....teach u lar...nex time u see her...u try go and kiss her..if she give u few slaps..means she dn like u, if serious mayb kana police molest case...even more serious may kana cane.... if she kiss u back...then gong xi fa cai liao lor