Can a girl and a guy be best friends ?

• Ah Ma

  9 Jul 04, 13:36

  Do you think:
  
  a girl and a guy go out lunch = couple
  a girl and a guy go out together = couple
  a girl and a guy tok on pone = couple
  
  ???????
  
  
  sometimes ppl tend to mistaken for the above... .wat do u all tink? i tink is normal for a girl and a guy go out lunch / go out together / tok on pone...
  
  poll Results
  
  Can
  1) Yunzz
  2) ilikeflingsm
  3)meowmeow
  4)Neontetra
  Cannot
  
  1) Chunyong
  2)crazyprata
  3)nww16
• ratslen

  9 Jul 04, 13:40

  Originally posted by Ah Ma:

  Do you think:
  
  a girl and a guy go out lunch = couple
  a girl and a guy go out together = couple
  a girl and a guy tok on pone = couple
  
  ???????
  
  
  sometimes ppl tend to mistaken for the above... .wat do u all tink? i tink is normal for a girl and a guy go out lunch / go out together / tok on pone...
  
  

  Rumours spread like wildfire.
  
  Actions speak louder than words, but words can be easily conveyed within the masses.
• yunzhongzi

  9 Jul 04, 13:41

  Can lah.. I believe in platonic relaitonships leh.. Have a lot of "girlfrens" who are older than me one oso leh
• I-like-flings(m)

  9 Jul 04, 13:42

  can can... my ex best fren is a galwhat...she know my ex too then we go out together one....... but.. haha her bf ask her to disown mi.. so.... no longer fren now lor...
• chunyong

  9 Jul 04, 13:42

  bo ko leng....
• Me0w Me0w

  9 Jul 04, 13:44

  Originally posted by Ah Ma:

  Do you think:
  
  a girl and a guy go out lunch = couple
  a girl and a guy go out together = couple
  a girl and a guy tok on pone = couple
  
  ???????
  
  
  sometimes ppl tend to mistaken for the above... .wat do u all tink? i tink is normal for a girl and a guy go out lunch / go out together / tok on pone...
  
  

  of cos can... my friends r mainly guys leh..
• Ah Ma

  9 Jul 04, 13:46

  yalor.......bt y some ppl treat it as rumour...
• crazy_prata

  9 Jul 04, 13:46

  erm... hardly, i used to have a girl-friend, we are coursemate and our relationship is purely classmate and friend, but one fine day, she told me she suggest we go beyond friendship and we end up very embarassing, keeping a distance away, itz not me being heartless, it just that im going after another girl outside the campus
  
  Therefore, guy + girl will never equal to friend, itz either partner or sad though... sex partner
• yunzhongzi

  9 Jul 04, 13:47

  Btw, maybe u guys would also want to provide your personal point of views why u think a guy and a girl can / cannot be best friend??
• Ah Ma

  9 Jul 04, 13:47

  i tink as long as conscience clear....no need to care wat others say
• Me0w Me0w

  9 Jul 04, 13:49

  Originally posted by Ah Ma:

  i tink as long as conscience clear....no need to care wat others say

  x 2
• chunyong

  9 Jul 04, 13:50

  Originally posted by Ah Ma:

  i tink as long as conscience clear....no need to care wat others say

  well, don't and never underestimate the power of the masses, something dat is actually untrue, after being said as true by the masses will be believed as true irregardless whether it is true in the 1st place or not...
• Ah Ma

  9 Jul 04, 13:52

  1) gt once i meet my fren lunch then my colleague saw and tout it was my boyfriend....kaoz....hw come ppl like to tink tat way ahh first impression tink is bf.. fren and fren canot eat lunch together meh..
  
  2).then if gt guy send girl home..neighbours tout is bf......weird no hold hand aso ppl mistaken...............then spread to my mum.....my mum come ask me hw come she dono i got bf my neighbour knows..
  
  3) then if u go out wit a guy ur fren tu tio u....tout is ur bf....wow bo wei gong..
  
  y ahh girl and guy canot do ting together meh
• Ah Ma

  9 Jul 04, 13:53

  ren yan ke wei
• yunzhongzi

  9 Jul 04, 13:55

  Originally posted by Ah Ma:

  ren yan ke wei

  X2
• Ah Ma

  9 Jul 04, 13:56

  and nt to mention if u and tat guy fren always sit together in grp gatherings..... also will kana suan...
• nww16

  9 Jul 04, 13:57

  i dun think can...cos i tend to alway bed my best female frd...
  
  
• yunzhongzi

  9 Jul 04, 13:59

  Think it'll better to do a polling system at the end of this thread in order to tabulate the outcome ar....
• NeonTetra

  9 Jul 04, 14:00

  as long as ppl r alive....mouth will speak
  
  why not? can be best frens too mah...
  
  like for me and weidev....we r brothers....ppl say gay! haha
• Ah Ma

  9 Jul 04, 14:00

  Originally posted by nww16:

  i dun think can...cos i tend to alway bed my best female frd...
  
  

  sory quote msg become edit jus nw
  
  btw wats meanin of always bed?
• Ah Ma

  9 Jul 04, 14:00

  Originally posted by yunzhongzi:

  Think it'll better to do a polling system at the end of this thread in order to tabulate the outcome ar....

  frm the results above...u can see most ppl tink is normal
  
  pai seh is
  4 vs 3
• SGpork

  9 Jul 04, 14:22

  why not..nothing wrong what....
  
  some people like this.. i tio before...
  
  with oppsite sex they say u couple
  
  with same sex..they say i gay ..
  
  .....eh eh.... so how ar...
  
  /me walk alone..
  
  no people say !! good good
• SunRisE

  9 Jul 04, 14:22

  my bf.. and his best friends... (mostly or i can say all.. females)
  
  
• SGpork

  9 Jul 04, 14:23

  Originally posted by Ah Ma:

  i tink as long as conscience clear....no need to care wat others say

  X3
• yunzhongzi

  9 Jul 04, 14:24

  Originally posted by SunRisE:

  my bf.. and his best friends... (mostly or i can say all.. females)
  
  

  till now still dunno u female or male leh...