Can a girl and a guy be best friends ?

• BaByBoY

  11 Jul 04, 22:17

  Originally posted by edLow:

  hmm, i once fall in love with my best female frd. But thing just didnt managed to work out btwn us and now we as good as strangers

  this is sad
• BaByBoY

  11 Jul 04, 22:17

  Originally posted by Misogynist:

  I dunno if you can call her my bez fren but the problem is that when i'm with her, i feel blessed..Somehow i can pour my problems to her..We were together once, but i guess u can call us frens..
  
  The problem is that i feel like reconciliating with her but i'm trying to push that away cuz i'm afraid of the rejection again..I'm trying to have minimal contact with her but somehow we just find our way to make contact..
  
  So I guess it's really possible for a platonic r/s provided both parties exercise control and view the "dates" as a kind of catching up..

  this is sad too
  
  so my conclusion is NO
• Misogynist

  11 Jul 04, 22:40

  Yepz..Pretty sad but what to do? Who ask me to fall for her?
• SunRisE

  12 Jul 04, 01:15

  Originally posted by edLow:

  u a human ah?
  
  isnt sunrise a scenery term?
  
  

  heehehhee..
• SunRisE

  12 Jul 04, 01:15

  Originally posted by SGpork:

  haha....n u have a tiger,donkey,bear as friend am i right???

  i got many many friends.. hehehee.. pooh my best friend~
• SunRisE

  12 Jul 04, 01:16

  Originally posted by SGpork:

  got meh..winnie the pooh got bunny de? not sure wor...
  
  

  the rabbit lor..
  
  and more more.. the owl.. the kangaroo... and who else??
  
• weidev

  12 Jul 04, 07:22

  possibility...
• Yggr

  16 Jul 04, 20:08

  its possible...but thats after the guy/gal is engaged etc. will ppl of the opposite sex just be frens with them...
• pipi & poot-poot

  16 Jul 04, 20:41

  Pipi dun beliv in truly platonic r/s btwin boy & ger....
  
  Jus nev saw it happen b4...
  
  
• Di'no'saw

  25 Jul 04, 23:04

  Di'no' just hope tt dose who say yes r not cheating themselves.......
  It rily nid a lot o self control to maintain tt........
  but for Di'no' it's an open argurment....though I wld say no.....
• extremex

  25 Jul 04, 23:27

  i think that a guy and girl be bez friends is possible..
  but usually always end up being together...
  unless its very clear its friends status only..
  
  erm.. i got 2 times.. frenz.. then becum gd frenz... and declare ourselves bez frenz.. and then *poof* thats it.. bf-gf liao..
  
  =.=!
• DXuan

  25 Jul 04, 23:49

  Cannot My ex gf slept with her so called 'platonic best friend'
• extremex

  26 Jul 04, 01:02

  Originally posted by DXuan:

  Cannot My ex gf slept with her so called 'platonic best friend'

  
  these things are uncontrollable..~
  but most probably pple will say 'we wun' 'we wun' and in the end still will..
  becum bf-gf i mean..
• Axelheat755

  26 Jul 04, 12:30

  i say can
• pipi & poot-poot

  26 Jul 04, 12:32

  Originally posted by Di'no'saw:

  Di'no' just hope tt dose who say yes r not cheating themselves.......
  It rily nid a lot o self control to maintain tt........
  but for Di'no' it's an open argurment....though I wld say no.....

  Dinosaw diam diam la !!
  
  U'r suppose 2 b extinct remember ??
  
  
• extremex

  26 Jul 04, 12:32

  Originally posted by Axelheat755:

  i say can

  experienced it yet?
  if haven, wait till you experience it haha~
  but i also can... cos my bez fren tat time is a girl and she already has a bf..
• Axelheat755

  26 Jul 04, 12:40

  Originally posted by extremex:

  experienced it yet?
  if haven, wait till you experience it haha~
  but i also can... cos my bez fren tat time is a girl and she already has a bf..

  i say can ... but the gal say cannot... she no want
• DXuan

  26 Jul 04, 12:46

  Originally posted by extremex:

  
  these things are uncontrollable..~
  but most probably pple will say 'we wun' 'we wun' and in the end still will..
  becum bf-gf i mean..

  Haha then control comes into play loh. Discipline at least. Knowing what you really want ma. Don't today me tomorrow him, continuing this stint for a few months. Wah heart pain I tell you
• ditzy

  26 Jul 04, 12:46

  Of course can lah.
• Ah Ma

  26 Jul 04, 12:58

  a girl n a guy can be best friends wat...if canot then does tat mean guys dn have girl de best friendS?or girls dn hav girl de best friends?even after they married or gt gf/bf?
  
  blur. btw wat is platonic relationship?
• pipi & poot-poot

  26 Jul 04, 13:00

  Originally posted by Ah Ma:

  a girl n a guy can be best friends wat...if canot then does tat mean guys dn have girl de best friendS?or girls dn hav girl de best friends?even after they married or gt gf/bf?
  
  blur. btw wat is platonic relationship?

  
  
  Aiya Ah Ma dun so confuse la....
  
  Jus agree wif Pipi....Pipi say u jus nod ur head & agree....
  
  So simple nia....
  
  
• Axelheat755

  26 Jul 04, 13:01

  Originally posted by Ah Ma:

  blur. btw wat is platonic relationship?

  friend friend relationship... no sex involved
• Ah Ma

  26 Jul 04, 13:02

  Originally posted by pipi & poot-poot:

  
  
  Aiya Ah Ma dun so confuse la....
  
  Jus agree wif Pipi....Pipi say u jus nod ur head & agree....
  
  So simple nia....
  
  

  u tink i dog ahhh nabeiz turtle...y nt u agree wit ah ma
  
  i say Pipi is tai jian...
  
  pipi nod head
  pipi is gay
  
  pi pi nod head
• Ah Ma

  26 Jul 04, 13:07

  Originally posted by Axelheat755:

  friend friend relationship... no sex involved

  icic...then alot mah..alot of ppl fren fren
• pipi & poot-poot

  26 Jul 04, 13:08

  Originally posted by Ah Ma:

  u tink i dog ahhh nabeiz turtle...y nt u agree wit ah ma
  
  i say Pipi is tai jian...
  
  pipi nod head
  pipi is gay
  
  pi pi nod head