Will u let ur loved one knows if u got incurable illnesses?

• extremex

  6 Oct 04, 16:11

  as above, will u keep from them so as nt to let them worry & sad & as long as u can enjoy ur remaining time with them , u r aready v satisfied....or will u tell them u gt illness ?
• Estee

  6 Oct 04, 16:12

  dilemma.
• laurence82

  6 Oct 04, 16:13

  is there somethin extremex not telling me?
• Kenashi

  6 Oct 04, 16:40

  tell them loh, share joys n sorrow mah
  but this is not likely to happen to me since I don't go for physical examination.
• BaByBoY

  6 Oct 04, 16:42

  Originally posted by Estee:

  dilemma.

  x 2
  
  but still they end up knowing
  maybe a bit later...
  much later..
• huiz

  6 Oct 04, 16:51

  there is another alternative, often shown in tv dramas.....tat is to make ur partner break up wif u, & u one person suffer & die alone rather two ppl suffer together....this one is sure a very sad way to die
• extremex

  7 Oct 04, 10:31

  Originally posted by Estee:

  dilemma.

  but wat will you do?
• extremex

  7 Oct 04, 10:31

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  is there somethin extremex not telling me?

  
  
  no lar.. just a qn so i posted to see wat views you all hav
• extremex

  7 Oct 04, 10:32

  Originally posted by Kenashi:

  tell them loh, share joys n sorrow mah
  but this is not likely to happen to me since I don't go for physical examination.

  not necessarily need physical examination ma...
  
  its like.. suddenly u fainted.. then go hosp..
  and doc tell you got xxxx and gonna die...
  
  you gonna keep it from ur family n loved ones?
• extremex

  7 Oct 04, 10:33

  Originally posted by BaByBoY:

  x 2
  
  but still they end up knowing
  maybe a bit later...
  much later..

  so u wun tell?
• extremex

  7 Oct 04, 10:33

  Originally posted by huiz:

  there is another alternative, often shown in tv dramas.....tat is to make ur partner break up wif u, & u one person suffer & die alone rather two ppl suffer together....this one is sure a very sad way to die

  will you wanna rather be happy the last few days or sad?
• SGpork

  7 Oct 04, 10:34

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  is there somethin extremex not telling me?

  lol
• SGpork

  7 Oct 04, 10:35

  Originally posted by huiz:

  there is another alternative, often shown in tv dramas.....tat is to make ur partner break up wif u, & u one person suffer & die alone rather two ppl suffer together....this one is sure a very sad way to die

  yeah..tv drama always got .....
• SGpork

  7 Oct 04, 10:36

  depends...maybe..maybe not..when i kanna liao then i post here again k ?
  
• weidev

  7 Oct 04, 10:41

  i will nt tell..
• SGpork

  7 Oct 04, 10:46

  Originally posted by weidev:

  i will nt tell..

  not even 1 ?
• OrneryBoy

  7 Oct 04, 10:48

  I would choose to tell because life is more than good / bad happenings..
  
  
• extremex

  7 Oct 04, 12:02

  Originally posted by SGpork:

  not even 1 ?

  tell no one is best mah...
  maybe 1 or 2 lor..
  but tell them keep quiet...
  
  but let them fulfil ur remaining wishes when u die lor
• laurence82

  7 Oct 04, 12:03

  Originally posted by extremex:

  
  
  no lar.. just a qn so i posted to see wat views you all hav

  phew.....
• extremex

  7 Oct 04, 12:03

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  phew.....

  
• laurence82

  7 Oct 04, 12:07

  Ahem
  
  "oh baby baby baby, oh baby baby, wo jue bu neng shi qu ni, ni shou xin ni sheng ying, hai zan ling wo de xin li zhen neng wang ji, oh xiang ni xiang shi hu xi.."
  
  
• yunzhongzi

  7 Oct 04, 12:10

  Originally posted by SGpork:

  depends...maybe..maybe not..when i kanna liao then i post here again k ?
  

  U mean when u kena made into kuey chap???
• extremex

  7 Oct 04, 12:14

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  Ahem
  
  "oh baby baby baby, oh baby baby, wo jue bu neng shi qu ni, ni shou xin ni sheng ying, hai zan ling wo de xin li zhen neng wang ji, oh xiang ni xiang shi hu xi.."
  
  

  
• extremex

  7 Oct 04, 12:15

  Originally posted by yunzhongzi:

  U mean when u kena made into kuey chap???

  dun keep saying u wanna eat him lar..
  hahahaa
  at least, let him reproduce first. then got more food..
  
  this called plan for the future!
• womanie

  7 Oct 04, 12:16

  this is such a difficult question to answer!
  
  it's like, tell or don't tell also... ah can't find a word to describe...
  
  i don't know what i would do... but i guess i would let them know... at least the impact on my loved ones is not that great compared to what they would experience when i'm suddenly gone...
  
  just spend the remaining time happily with them and treasure whatever that's left i can only hope that they won't be too sad...