Will u let ur loved one knows if u got incurable illnesses?
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wow...Originally posted by womanie:this is such a difficult question to answer!
it's like, tell or don't tell also... ah can't find a word to describe...
i don't know what i would do... but i guess i would let them know... at least the impact on my loved ones is not that great compared to what they would experience when i'm suddenly gone...
just spend the remaining time happily with them and treasure whatever that's left
i can only hope that they won't be too sad...
yeah dun tell them first.. and let them feel SO HARD PAIN in the end ah
so bad woman
haha
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Anyone watch the Jap drama show, where Kyoko Fukada got AIDS, and Takeshi Kaneshiro is the main actor?
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you got the wrong idea la... read my post carefully... i said i would tell them!Originally posted by extremex:wow...
yeah dun tell them first.. and let them feel SO HARD PAIN in the end ah
so bad woman
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simi show is that?Originally posted by laurence82:Anyone watch the Jap drama show, where Kyoko Fukada got AIDS, and Takeshi Kaneshiro is the main actor? -
oopsOriginally posted by womanie:you got the wrong idea la... read my post carefully... i said i would tell them!
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a drama serial lah, very popular during the early years of jap craze..Originally posted by extremex:simi show is that?
i was in jc2, so u were in sec two, or somewhere there... -
god give me some more time! yeah is a nice show!watched 7 times everytime watch willOriginally posted by laurence82:a drama serial lah, very popular during the early years of jap craze..
i was in jc2, so u were in sec two, or somewhere there...
one. the soundtrack wish to wish by sens is damn nice..
Kamisama mou sukoshi dake
Aired on 7th July 1998
by Fuji TV
Duration
12 episodes
Average Rating
22.52% (Finale Rating - 28.3%)
Theme Songs
I For You [Luna Sea]
In The Sky [Kudo Shizuka]
Kirara [Kudo Shizuka]
Wishes [SENS]
Cast
Kaneshiro Takeshi as Ishikawa Keigo
Fukada Kyoko as Kano Masaki
Nakama Yukie as Kaoru
Miyazawa Rie as Risa (Keigo's ex-wife)
Kato Haruhiko as Hibino Isamu
Yazawa Shin as Asami
Storyline
"God! Please Give Me More Time" is a very touching Japanese drama series. A realistic drama on Japanese TV that takes HIV and teenage girls who have sex to make money to a new perspective. Known as the drama that launched the career of Fukada Kyoko and the drama that jumpstarted Kaneshiro Takeshi's Japanese career, "Kamisama, mou sukoshi dake" is a very good and dark drama.
As its title suggests, it is a story about desperation for longevity. Kyoko Fukada is excellent as an aimless Tokyo high school girl, who in love with a long-haired and pensive music producer portrayed by Takeshi Kaneshiro. She admires him so much that she engages in a night of prostitution just to get the money to attend one of his concerts. After the concert, she manages to meet Kaneshiro and spend the night with him. Three months later she learns she is HIV-positive. What makes the tale more tragic is that her liaison with her idol has turned her life around. She has given up hanging around Ikebukuro in favor of her studies. She has goals and dreams now and Kaneshiro, back from a three-month world tour, is still interested in her. The desperate lovers call upon God to give them more time together.....
Review
this was my first ever drama that i watched and i have never regretted my choice. the story was very dark and showed how people's perspective is changed the moment after learning they are HIV positive. throughout this drama, you will see kyoko character trying to focus on her life ambitions instead of her disease and her relationship with kaneshiro character was simply heartwrenching. they really made the show look very real and coupled with excellent instrumental music makes it even better while watching it. I highly recommend watching it but it's very sad! -
me wont tell. will make my loved 1 hate me at least hate me better than feel sad for me.dn wish to leave sadly. sorry
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Probably not....
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Originally posted by Ah Ma: me wont tell. will make my loved 1 hate me at least hate me better than feel sad for me.dn wish to leave sadly. sorry
dun cry lar ah ma...
but the impact on them might be bigger... and they might regret not doing things they wanna do to you be4 you go...
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then i guess....Originally posted by extremex:tell no one is best mah...
maybe 1 or 2 lor..
but tell them keep quiet...
but let them fulfil ur remaining wishes when u die lor
the 1 or 2..
or maybe 1... will be 82 to know ???
nono..dont misunderstand..me
me no curse u..
just a joke..between u n 82 -
nopeOriginally posted by laurence82:Anyone watch the Jap drama show, where Kyoko Fukada got AIDS, and Takeshi Kaneshiro is the main actor?
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no lah...Originally posted by yunzhongzi:U mean when u kena made into kuey chap??? 
when i kanna kuey chap...where can post here liao...haha
/point at topic.. incurable illness lah -
wat 82?Originally posted by SGpork:then i guess....
the 1 or 2..
or maybe 1... will be 82 to know ??? nono..dont misunderstand..me
me no curse u..
just a joke..between u n 82 -
err, guess guess?Originally posted by extremex:wat 82?
btw, i dont understand porkie post... -
this was wat i actually will do in the past...
as i was nt exactly on gd terms with my family, i wouldn't let them noe. i will make full use of my remaining time and go somewhere ulu to die.
now...
i will still not let my family noe... nt cos i am still nt on gd terms but i dun wanna them to be sad till i die... i will die quietly. like tat, they will onli be sad for a shorter period of time. -
Hmm, just attended a funeral of my friend's father, who passed away due to cancer
well, after this incident, i feel i wil tell them as soon as possible
main reasons are that we all can spend more time together cherish the last days..i mean, the shock and lost feeling that will come if suddenly i pass away will be crushing...more time wouldnt be wasted, and many issues to resolve b4 death...
another reason is that on day of funeral, my family members and friends wont cry so much, after if all put effort in the last few days to spend the last few days in a more fruitful ways, like spending time together do stuff we all want to do as family, as friends..
anyway, my friend spent the last few days with her father enjoying dinner and doing stuff they all want to do together as family..when he passed away, my friend was more peaceful and willing to let go..
in anyway, of course like many of us, we may have frustrations or worsening relationship with our family members..but doesnt mean all wont care..
i seriously dont like the behaviour of my family members, but i dont think this will overcome my desire to have long lasting relationship with them..i mean i cant take them for granted..not even for short term..who noes what will happen the next day.. -
i would tell my loved one if it is incurable but not life threatening. only right to let him know of potential future complications mah....
but if incurable and life threatening (like going to die liao), i would not tell. i would spend the rest of my days with all that i love, doing watever i can for them to make them happy. when the inevitable comes, i'll leave a video note, smile, say "don't cry, thank you for being part of my life, treasure wat u have, i love you and we'll meet again i promise... " -
yeah nice song... i got the song in my hp le... very touching ... nice to play it wen u r sad...Originally posted by Ah Ma:god give me some more time! yeah is a nice show!watched 7 times everytime watch will one. the soundtrack wish to wish by sens is damn nice..
Kamisama mou sukoshi dake
Aired on 7th July 1998
by Fuji TV
Duration
12 episodes
Average Rating
22.52% (Finale Rating - 28.3%)
Theme Songs
I For You [Luna Sea]
In The Sky [Kudo Shizuka]
Kirara [Kudo Shizuka]
Wishes [SENS]
Cast
Kaneshiro Takeshi as Ishikawa Keigo
Fukada Kyoko as Kano Masaki
Nakama Yukie as Kaoru
Miyazawa Rie as Risa (Keigo's ex-wife)
Kato Haruhiko as Hibino Isamu
Yazawa Shin as Asami -
where got shorter... maybe they would blame themselves for the rest of their lives for not being able to spend ur remaining days with u happily... or resolve any conflicts before u go... it'll probably, inevitably leave them a scar in their hearts...Originally posted by weidev:this was wat i actually will do in the past...
as i was nt exactly on gd terms with my family, i wouldn't let them noe. i will make full use of my remaining time and go somewhere ulu to die.
now...
i will still not let my family noe... nt cos i am still nt on gd terms but i dun wanna them to be sad till i die... i will die quietly. like tat, they will onli be sad for a shorter period of time.
the impact of having a closed/loved one gone suddenly is unthinkable
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you ahOriginally posted by laurence82:err, guess guess?
btw, i dont understand porkie post... -
but depart without bidding goodbye and without giving others a chance to say wat they hav to say to you is 'selfish' eh...Originally posted by weidev:this was wat i actually will do in the past...
as i was nt exactly on gd terms with my family, i wouldn't let them noe. i will make full use of my remaining time and go somewhere ulu to die.
now...
i will still not let my family noe... nt cos i am still nt on gd terms but i dun wanna them to be sad till i die... i will die quietly. like tat, they will onli be sad for a shorter period of time.
those unable to convey wat they wanna say or do, will regret it the rest of their lives... -
haha..but very sry..Originally posted by extremex:dun keep saying u wanna eat him lar..
hahahaa
at least, let him reproduce first. then got more food..
this called plan for the future!
its proven for years...
no matter how much i eat..i will be the same -
u understand hor ?Originally posted by extremex:you ah