Maia Lee is pregnant
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Originally posted by Ferret:
yes she can get that way at times.
that's why people like them piss me more than the "lower class" of people.
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
that's why people like them piss me more than the "lower class" of people.
keke dont judge my meow meow by its fur...
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Originally posted by blu_sky:
edison chen had the mightier than thou attitude (sure he thinks he is damn gd in woo-ing women)! though not the holier than thou attitude.Well, with regards to edison chen, that was a really entertaining piece of news revealing what some individuals the entertainment industry really are, aint it? well, it sure entertained and kept me occupied for a while.
Like i said, live and let live. If they want to condemn, let them be. I dont condemn edison chen, but i really find him stupid. how would he even think that it is safe to bring his laptop (containing so many porn pics of so many stars) for repair? REally stupid guy.
Well, but im sure he is gifted in other ways! He is capable of making so many stars stripped and posed in front of the camera for him! Really lucky guy!
he's a movie star, he's good looking, and he's got money leh..
i think you're refering to maia's comment about her at least not aborting her babies right. it sounded more like a self consoling statement than a "holier than thou" thing to me.
nah.. i can't have that live and let live mentality. it just isn't me.
and i left my boot marks in the edison thread too.
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
well, i'm not sure that even if she did not have that attitude, it would really change anything.
ok, let's assume that people actually hate her because of her attitude. so that would just mean that they're barking up the wrong tree isn't it. since they're hounding her because of her pregnancy, but actually it's a mask because they're angry with her attitude. so why don't they just attack her for the attitude, instead of barking about the pregnancy? it's so.... it's not hypocrisy, but it's so.... i don't have the word.
angelina jolie got pregnant too right? i don't see them raving that she's a slut. and i don't see them raving about maia's attitude until she got pregnant. it's just so... illogical
i understand what you mean when you said "since they're hounding her because of her pregnancy, but actually it's a mask because they're angry with her attitude. so why don't they just attack her for the attitude, instead of barking about the pregnancy? it's so.... it's not hypocrisy, but it's so.... i don't have the word." Perhaps, like you, they cant find right word to condemn her attitude too? i dunno and i shall not presume.For me, i will think that such publicity about her pregnancy sends a signal to the society. We know that the young picks up things fast and they usually learn from celebrities. If such behaviour is not condemned by the public, the young will think "oh, that is normal", and that will become a norm for our society. If that happens one day, it would be disastrous. I cant imagine my unmarried daughter coming back to me saying indignantly "im pregnant and no, im not getting married. oh, whats wrong with getting pregnant? giving birth when i m not married? thats the norm of the society! and everyone is doing it!"
If that day comes and everyone does this, it will be disastrous. Thus, as much as we should not condemn anyone, we need to teach the young the right way.
And no, please do not compare with angelina jolie, cos we are chinese!
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Originally posted by Ferret:
keke dont judge my meow meow by its fur...
i'll re-access her for myself if i ever meet her in real life. maybe she's just so gung ho behind the computer, as you said, but really sweet in real life. who knows? but i think a person's real personality shows when they're behind the veil of anonymonity.
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Originally posted by blu_sky:
i understand what you mean when you said "since they're hounding her because of her pregnancy, but actually it's a mask because they're angry with her attitude. so why don't they just attack her for the attitude, instead of barking about the pregnancy? it's so.... it's not hypocrisy, but it's so.... i don't have the word." Perhaps, like you, they cant find right word to condemn her attitude too? i dunno and i shall not presume.For me, i will think that such publicity about her pregnancy sends a signal to the society. We know that the young picks up things fast and they usually learn from celebrities. If such behaviour is not condemned by the public, the young will think "oh, that is normal", and that will become a norm for our society. If that happens one day, it would be disastrous. I cant imagine my unmarried daughter coming back to me saying indignantly "im pregnant and no, im not getting married. oh, whats wrong with getting pregnant? thats the norm of the society!"
If that day comes and everyone does this, it will be disastrous. Thus, as much as we should not condemn anyone, we need to teach the young the right way.
haha i don't know. i think getting married in a loveless relationship might be even worse than singlehandedly raising the kid. i said b4, anyone can be a father, but it takes a really special someone to be a dad.
like my friends.. the mum's a single mum, and the husband is from marraige. the child isn't his, but he loves the kid like his very own. takes the family to zoo thousands of time, dance with the kid in church during worship, takes them out for meals, does homework with the kid... and cheering when the kid could count to 10 on her own.
he may not be the father, but he's definitely the dad.
i think it might be better that way sometimes, than to force a marraige then the father don't fulfil his duty of love to the kid.
anyway i agree with you. the family structure is very important for a healthy society.
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
i'll re-access her for myself if i ever meet her in real life. maybe she's just so gung ho behind the computer, as you said, but really sweet in real life. who knows? but i think a person's real personality shows when they're behind the veil of anonymonity.
assess.
All access to meow meow is restricted to me only.
Nah. There are lots who faked behind screens too.
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can pm or not ? sien la
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Originally posted by Ferret:
assess.
All access to meow meow is restricted to me only.
Nah. There are lots who faked behind screens too.
LOL. DEFINITELY not interested in accesing her. but yeah. i'll re-assess her next time.
anyway, that's not the point.
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funny leh, how come no sex protection huh? not 1st child or 1st time having sex leh... got pill got plastic.. etc...
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Originally posted by Zarks:
can pm or not ? sien la
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
LOL. DEFINITELY not interested in accesing her. but yeah. i'll re-assess her next time.
anyway, that's not the point.
she can be quite nice, especially if u r a xdd.
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yalo yalo
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why need to marry when u can juz be good frens wif ......... MAIA......kekekekee....
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Originally posted by Ferret:
she can be quite nice, especially if u r a xdd.
so? everyone's nice to kids wat. it doesn't give her additional points. i so totally hate being attacked by people i didn't provoke. and especially when i didn't do anything wrong.
nothing irks me more than getting clawed for doing something right.
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
so? everyone's nice to kids wat. it doesn't give her additional points. i so totally hate being attacked by people i didn't provoke. and especially when i didn't do anything wrong.
nothing irks me more than getting clawed for doing something right.
Not me... i am mean to xdds
U no rikes kitties ?
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
haha i don't know. i think getting married in a loveless relationship might be even worse than singlehandedly raising the kid. i said b4, anyone can be a father, but it takes a really special someone to be a dad.
like my friends.. the mum's a single mum, and the husband is from marraige. the child isn't his, but he loves the kid like his very own. takes the family to zoo thousands of time, dance with the kid in church during worship, takes them out for meals, does homework with the kid... and cheering when the kid could count to 10 on her own.
he may not be the father, but he's definitely the dad.
i think it might be better that way sometimes, than to force a marraige then the father don't fulfil his duty of love to the kid.
anyway i agree with you. the family structure is very important for a healthy society.
Marriage is not just about love, it is about responsibility and commitment too. Yes, i do agree that it is pretty meaningless to stay in a loveless marriage, but before one calls it quit, he has to consider all factors including the children's and spouse's welfare and feelings.
Our feeling is not the only thing important in this world. We need to be mindful of the welfare and feelings of our love ones too.
We digressed.
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Originally posted by Ferret:
Not me... i am mean to xdds
U no rikes kitties ?
no. i'm a dog person.
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Originally posted by blu_sky:
Marriage is not just about love, it is about responsibility and commitment too. Yes, i do agree that it is pretty meaningless to stay in a loveless marriage, but before one calls it quit, he has to consider all factors including the children's and spouse's welfare and feelings.
Our feeling is not the only thing important in this world. We need to be mindful of the welfare and feelings of our love ones too.
We digressed.
oh i so agree. but i'm not talking about married couples, after the flame died, then just happily divorce.
i'm talking about forcing a marraige because of an unplanned pregnancy, especially if it is from a one night stand or something.
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
oh i so agree. but i'm not talking about married couples, after the flame died, then just happily divorce.
i'm talking about forcing a marraige because of an unplanned pregnancy, especially if it is from a one night stand or something.
talking bout forced marriage. this happens to my collegue.. pregnant b4 married. Ended up sending invitation card and map without names to my email. damn it. is it a trend now ?? damn it. -
Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
oh i so agree. but i'm not talking about married couples, after the flame died, then just happily divorce.
i'm talking about forcing a marraige because of an unplanned pregnancy, especially if it is from a one night stand or something.
Of course i agree that no one should be forced into a marriage. Of course one should only marry if he/she is willing to love and honor the other party. Thus one should really abstain from ONS and sex with people whom they dont love, rite? -
Originally posted by blu_sky:
Of course i agree that no one should be forced into a marriage. Of course one should only marry if he/she is willing to love and honor the other party. Thus one should really abstain from ONS and sex with people whom they dont love, rite?
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Originally posted by blu_sky:
Of course i agree that no one should be forced into a marriage. Of course one should only marry if he/she is willing to love and honor the other party. Thus one should really abstain from ONS and sex with people whom they dont love, rite?haha you suggested differently before. i'm just too lazy to go find lor!
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
haha you suggested differently before. i'm just too lazy to go find lor!
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Originally posted by blu_sky:
im sure i never suggested ONS!no la, but you got say smth abt if next time ur daughter comes back pregnant, you will make sure she gets married or you'll break that guy's hip with your walking stick or something