Originally posted by Hello Kitty:coz u never look at urself.
u oly yaddah yaddah yaddah say ppl.
bt arent u tellin ppl on wat is the "rite ting" to do as well.
lol, but it really is the right thing wat.
can you honestly say that accusing, jeering and kicking someone down when she's gotten into trouble the right thing?
it's not as if you didn't make your fair share of mistakes yourself. and if one day, you yourself get pregnant, would you prefer me to join the crowd to jeer, or to just do what i'm doing?
Originally posted by Fatum:of course .... but I take precautions always .... I am not just preventing the possibility of bringing someone into the world without being ready for it ... but also thinking of the safey of myself and my farkee ....
maybe she can count herself lucky to have caught the stork ..... cos she could have easily caught HIV or something ....
hmm. yeah. haha. the SPG also.. forgot her name, but she's even wilder, forgot her name. but she limits her partners to ang mos.
i can oso tell u dat the rite ting is to bear the consequences, tangible anot, for my own actions.
we tok until here n u stil duno how to mirror ur own self.
y not u rem her in her prayers n stop makin a nuisance of urself here?
Originally posted by Hello Kitty:i can oso tell u dat the rite ting is to bear the consequences, tangible anot, for my own actions.
we tok until here n u stil duno how to mirror ur own self.
y not u rem her in her prayers n stop makin a nuisance of urself here?
because i said that i didn't really care. i'm practical to say that i hardly feel anything since i don't know her.
but i still say that i rather not throw any stones here because i may make the same mistakes too. and for me, i rather have encouragements than condemnation when that happens.
unless you actually prefer condemnations, in that case, i'll have to bear that in mind when you screw up then..
lol.. me a nuisance? too bad? i've got to be me.
this is not la la land.
pls face up 2 reality.
Originally posted by Hello Kitty:this is not la la land.
pls face up 2 reality.
oh i do. it still doesn't make what i'm doing wrong, or unacceptable, as opposed to what you suggest.
i dunno y but accordin 2 wat i read in the papers...
she seems proud of wat she did...
n she also say she will gladly sacrifice her career 4 the baby...
ya rite...
wif out career, who u gonna depend on??? ur parents???
its clearly shes tokin wif out usin her brains...
tokin bout career...
i dun tink she has any...
n i dun tink she will have any in the future...
Originally posted by joker105:i dunno y but accordin 2 wat i read in the papers...
she seems proud of wat she did...
n she also say she will gladly sacrifice her career 4 the baby...
ya rite...
wif out career, who u gonna depend on??? ur parents???
its clearly shes tokin wif out usin her brains...
tokin bout career...
i dun tink she has any...
n i dun tink she will have any in the future...
no idea. guess she'll have to get a proper job.. somehow.
Originally posted by dumbdumb!:no idea. guess she'll have to get a proper job.. somehow.
haha i guess it will b ver hard 4 her 2 get a proper job...
who will employ a person who happy happy open leg 4 ppl n then later take maternity leave...
Originally posted by joker105:
haha i guess it will b ver hard 4 her 2 get a proper job...who will employ a person who happy happy open leg 4 ppl n then later take maternity leave...
lol, wait, isn't the govt pressing for that population growth?
i think it's more likely she will find it hard to find employment because of her tattoos, not so much the happy happy open leg. and i thought she was in a lesbian relationship currently. so confusing haha.
if u leali do, u shud expect to get farked when u screw up.
n not wallowin in self-pityin, tinkin y others arent supportive.
yesh, u may bear in mind dat i'm responsible for my actions.
cmon la ppl.. this is an open society, why we singaporeans still can't adapt to it?
She like to have flings then go ahead man.
no one is stoppin her.
of coz muz have trash like her.
den can differentiate elites like us.
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You peeps ... why condemn her like that ?
Single mom cannot meh ?
She wants good looking kids cannot meh ?
Her first son is sibeh handsome.. now she will have another good looking mix blood kid.
As long as she make sure her children are well taken care of and fully provided for , there's no need to stone her with such harrowing comments mah.
The children becomes a victim because of scornful people like you ok ?
No need to be jealous because her children are better looking than yours. OK ? Good.
Originally posted by jojobeach:You peeps ... why condemn her like that ?
Single mom cannot meh ?
She wants good looking kids cannot meh ?
Her first son is sibeh handsome.. now she will have another good looking mix blood kid.
As long as she make sure her children are well taken care of and fully provided for , there's no need to stone her with such harrowing comments mah.
The children becomes a victim because of scornful people like you ok ?
No need to be jealous because her children are better looking than yours. OK ? Good.
I'm so sorry you don't get the crux of the issue.
Hey wait. I shouldn't be.
Originally posted by Scania L113 lover:I'm so sorry you don't get the crux of the issue.
Hey wait. I shouldn't be.
What crux ?
She is not asking for support from any of you what.
Not like she asking you to donate money to feed her children, yes ?
So ? What 's the blardy big deal ? It's her vagina. not yours.
Society chastise what is deemed unacceptable form of behaviour.
Else very soon folks will think that incest is alright and she is entitled to her form of behaviour because it's her body.
We live in a civilised society, therefore we need to conform to certain standards of behaviour.
Just my few cents worth. *clink clang*
Originally posted by maurizio13:
Society chastise what is deemed unacceptable form of behaviour.
Else very soon folks will think that incest is alright and she is entitled to her form of behaviour because it's her body.
We live in a civilised society, therefore we need to conform to certain standards of behaviour.
Just my few cents worth. *clink clang*
This is not "Civilised"..behavior.. some comments here are plain barbaric. You call such scornful response acceptable ? If such insults are civilised.. then I'd rather live in stone age. Bye bye Asimo.. helloooo.. Flintstone !
If being a single mom is such an abomination.. then why don't we simply outlaw sex until a couple gets officially married ?
actually I think the issue is more that she may not understand the implications on a child who grows up in a single parent family and what repercussions it has on the child.
Unless it is a necessary situation - one reason why it should be avoided is that studies have shown that many children who grow up with only ONE parent during their childhood suffer from that imbalance psychologically that will affect them when they are growing up.
There is a reason why the traditional family unit has 2 parents - one male one female. I have seen so many children from single parent families that grow up as troubled youths. There are many reasons for this: both from the imbalanced parental input, insufficient time for parenting by a single parent who is also the main breadwinner, as well as existing value systems.
These things should be considered, and planned for before any woman decide to have a child on her own because it really isn't just about herself and what she wants.
Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:actually I think the issue is more that she may not understand the implications on a child who grows up in a single parent family and what repercussions it has on the child.
Unless it is a necessary situation - one reason why it should be avoided is that studies have shown that many children who grow up with only ONE parent during their childhood suffer from that imbalance psychologically that will affect them when they are growing up.
There is a reason why the traditional family unit has 2 parents - one male one female. I have seen so many children from single parent families that grow up as troubled youths. There are many reasons for this: both from the imbalanced parental input, insufficient time for parenting by a single parent who is also the main breadwinner, as well as existing value systems.
These things should be considered, and planned for before any woman decide to have a child on her own because it really isn't just about herself and what she wants.
Har.. really ah ? Then CHAM LIAO LOOOORR.. My mom also single mom leh.
My brother and me .. is different lau peh.... how ah ? I go commit suicide ok ? Good.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Har.. really ah ? Then CHAM LIAO LOOOORR.. My mom also single mom leh.
My brother and me .. is different lau peh.... how ah ? I go commit suicide ok ? Good.
That's NOT the issue either.
Originally posted by jojobeach:This is not "Civilised"..behavior.. some comments here are plain barbaric. You call such scornful response acceptable ? If such insults are civilised.. then I'd rather live in stone age. Bye bye Asimo.. helloooo.. Flintstone !
If being a single mom is such an abomination.. then why don't we simply outlaw sex until a couple gets officially married ?
If it's a socially acceptable behaviour conforming to out societal standards, then quite obviously this thread would not have attracted so much criticism. (prima facie)
What is deemed acceptable to you does not mean it's acceptable to every one else in our society.
We are Asians, not some ang mo race.
But due to the impact of tv in our homes, some of us have adopted western values due to the programs we watch (which are mainly western).
I am not here to debate with you what others cannot accept and what you can accept. Frankly, you are entitled to your own opinion(s), but there is
no need to force your opinion on others.
The way I see it, the folks here were just expressing their opinion about the behaviour of Maia Lee, while you are trying to force your opinion on them
saying that this form of behaviour is acceptable. No need for such Net Nazi behaviour.
Have a nice day.
Originally posted by jojobeach:Har.. really ah ? Then CHAM LIAO LOOOORR.. My mom also single mom leh.
My brother and me .. is different lau peh.... how ah ? I go commit suicide ok ? Good.
I suppose your suicide would be vindicative proof of what shrocat said ? ...
Originally posted by maurizio13:
If it's acceptable behaviour conforming to out societal standards, then quite obviously this thread would not have attracted so much criticism.What is deemed acceptable does not mean it's acceptable to every one in our society.
So if 40% of the world population deem it acceptable.. and 60% deem it not acceptable.. so .. does it mean it's acceptable or NOT ?