Maia Lee is pregnant
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oh ok.. dont fight la.. shes a slut or not ,why need to argue with each other.. she should know it the best that if she really wanna make it, she should play safe.. Its her problem in her life alone. Let her handle her own problem. I'll read her blog at stomp and see myself
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guys.. imagine how will guys think of maia's furure daughter if she even has one... they would be like.. " wow ur mum is maia.. can we have sex?" ...
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Originally posted by elementalangel:
guys.. imagine how will guys think of maia's furure daughter if she even has one... they would be like.. " wow ur mum is maia.. can we have sex?" ...
i'm actually imagining the scenario where maia's future daughter walks down the street and having people sniggering and talking behind her back and hearing snide remarks about her mum being a slut and the whore of babylon.
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Originally posted by Zarks:
oh ok..
dont fight la.. shes a slut or not ,why need to argue with each other.. she should know it the best that if she really wanna make it, she should play safe..
Its her problem in her life alone. Let her handle her own problem. I’ll read her blog at stomp and see myselflol, well i'm not really fighting, i'm just unhappy with the so called "elitists". and i try to be pro-humanity.
of course, it would help if i'm acknowledged that what i said makes a good point.
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yea, the child will have a hard life.. When the child is small. ppl will talk behind her especially at school when the child grows up, ppl will still talk bout the mom behind at office.. sure is hard life.. and the child will never know the father. all of these is bcuz of irresponsible mother.. damn ..
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
nothing wrong if you choose to live by that quote. but you can't have double standard and choose who it applies to right?
oh, it's ok to let others live the way they live, if all they're doing is pointing fingers and passing degrading remarks.
but it's not ok, if someone sleeps around, clubs alot, get drunk all the time and being a totally inept mother.
it just don't work out.
oh, have i muttered a word of badness towards her?
Perhaps you are mistaken. Like i said above, "seriously, i do not care about her". And you may ask, why am i posting. Perhaps i just thought i would attempt to explain you and some others why the general unfavourable criticisms against her. Have i muttered a word of badness towards her?
My intention here is not like yours. You have been going around slamming others for being judgemental and hypocritical, while perhaps you are the greatest hypocrite around for judging everyone else for judging?
I shant decide or comment. You be your own judge. I stick to my belief, live and let live.
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no. i am slamming others for writing people like them off as trash not even worth spitting on. i'm slamming others for assuming that they're never going to change, and they're forever going to be "sluts" and "whores". i'm slamming others for assuming that they're never going to make that mistake that the people they pointed at made.
how does that make me a hypocrite, seeing that a hypocrite says one thing and does another. i would be a hypocrite if i sing a different tune and start writing people off as trash.
ah, i thought you agreed with everyone else.
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ah.. misunderstanding.. aha...
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Originally posted by Zarks:
ah.. misunderstanding.. aha…
not really la. it doesn't matter now. my point's made
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
ah, i thought you agreed with everyone else.
ah, i dont care, seriously. i just hope the best for her and her child/(ren).Yes, everyone makes mistake. i've made my fair share of mistakes in my life too (though not in this way). But i seriously hope our future generation(s) will not be so proud of prenancy outta a wedlock, as i have seen quite a fair bit of such news (including shotgun marriages among the local celebrities) quite often lately. I really hope our future generation(s) will take marriage, sex and children very seriously and responsibly.
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Originally posted by blu_sky:
ah, i dont care, seriously. i just hope the best for her and her child/(ren).Yes, everyone makes mistake. i've made my fair share of mistakes in my life too (though not in this way). But i seriously hope our future generation(s) will not be so proud of prenancy outta a wedlock, as i have seen quite a fair bit of such news (including shotgun marriages among the local celebrities) quite often lately. I really hope our future generation(s) will take marriage, sex and children very seriously and responsibly.
and this. i agree with you.
and the reason why i fight so hard here, is because i know people who made such mistakes but they've changed but yet they still bear that critisizm from the general public. but thankfully, they're so strong inside, and they've raised beautiful kids.
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by seeing the changes since old age till now.. i dont think this is gonna be better in any way.Does education helps in this? i think its hard.. even if anyone is provided with the best education and morale. Anyone can change into something no matter what. Let us be old and see what will this change lol
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i seriously dun tink any 1 would wanna marry maia nxt time.. maybe they could all be good friends
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
lol, they win meh? the way i see it, they only appear hypocritical and shallow, thinking that they're better than those who made mistakes, but not wise enough to know that they might fall into it the same way.
no temptation has seized you except what is common to man.
we're all subjected to the same temptations in life, and potentially we could all fall, so i rather not point an ugly finger then a few years later get someone pregnant when i lose control. not only will i feel as shitty as the victim i previously pointed a finger at, but i will bear the burden of being a hypocrite, for pointing the finger first.
now, saying that, i definitely don't agree with everything maia said. and i do agree that she should really start thinking like a mum and not as a 16 year old teenager. but i'm more disagreeable with the general comments and finger wagging and pointing and conceited opinions on people who messed up their lives and thus written off as society's trash and hopeless.
if such actions actually do work to prevent unwanted pregnancy, sure! why not! i'll be the first to go out to the streets and start critisizing at every pregnant teenager and calling her a slut and how she love to happy happy open leg. i'll even recommend it to every teenage pregnancy hotline.
but the fact is that they don't. they only serve to entrap the victims in hopelessness and low esteem. and with that low esteem, they're forced to repeat the same mistakes again and again.
"after all, i'm a slut wat, everyone said i'm a slut, who cares if i make an effort to change? who cares if i get pregnant again, everyone expects that of me isn't it?" - would be their mindset.
and the key to victory is breaking out of that mindset which is the prison of the soul.
and that's the same for drug addicts, gangsters, students doing badly in school because they can't seem to study well..
it's not these people who disgust me. rather, it's those so-called "elitists" who put me off. "elitists" who think that they're the creme ala creme but yet can't type a decent sentence without that ah-lian style of spelling.
U r pointing fingers at a certain purring one.
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Originally posted by elementalangel:
i seriously dun tink any 1 would wanna marry maia nxt time.. maybe they could all be good friends
Me too, i believe many wil take advantages of her kindness to good friend. -
Originally posted by Ferret:
U r pointing fingers at a certain purring one.
and i used words she described herself with. she was uncalled for la.
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
and i used words she described herself with.
my poor meow meow
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Originally posted by Ferret:
my poor meow meow
well, she came at me with claws unsheathed. i tried being decent already.
anyway, she better hope she really is more morally uptight than whoever she feels isn't "elite". it would really really suck if she suddenly got pregnant out of wedlock.
and i can't say i'll feel any compassion if it happens either. since apparently she don't need or want any, and prefers to bear all consequences by herself
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
well, she came at me with claws unsheathed. i tried being decent already.
anyway, she better hope she really is more morally uptight than whoever she feels isn't "elite". it would really really suck if she suddenly got pregnant out of wedlock.
and i can't say i'll feel any compassion if it happens either. since apparently she don't need or want any, and prefers to bear all consequences by herself
Not sure who is the 'she' you are referring to, but i think even if any forumner is pregnant outta weddlock, you are not likely to know cos none of us is likely to have an interview published in the newspapers with the mightier-than-thou attitude that it is a big deal and very proud & responsible act to give birth again outside a wedlock.Seriously, if she had not have the holier-than-thou attitude, i doubt many people will be 'condemning' her that much.
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
well, she came at me with claws unsheathed. i tried being decent already.
anyway, she better hope she really is more morally uptight than whoever she feels isn't "elite". it would really really suck if she suddenly got pregnant out of wedlock.
and i can't say i'll feel any compassion if it happens either. since apparently she don't need or want any, and prefers to bear all consequences by herself
keke
If thats so, then did maia herself ask for any help in defending herself ?
my meow meow aint moral uptight, just look at the way she behaves ard virgin xdds....
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Originally posted by Ferret:
keke
If thats so, then did maia herself ask for any help in defending herself ?
my meow meow aint moral uptight, just look at the way she behaves ard virgin xdds....
no. didn't mean i didn't find it infurating anyway.
shrugs.
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Originally posted by blu_sky:
Not sure who is the 'she' you are referring to, but i think even if any forumner is pregnant outta weddlock, you are not likely to know cos none of us is likely to have an interview published in the newspapers with the mightier-than-thou attitude that it is a big deal and very proud & responsible act to give birth again outside a wedlock.Seriously, if she had not have the mightier-than-thou attitude, i doubt many people will be 'condemning' her that much.
edison chen didn't have the mightier than thou attitude. but... tada!
and it's not "condemning". it's condemning.
diff meaning.well, i'm not sure that even if she did not have that attitude, it would really change anything.
ok, let's assume that people actually hate her because of her attitude. so that would just mean that they're barking up the wrong tree isn't it. since they're hounding her because of her pregnancy, but actually it's a mask because they're angry with her attitude. so why don't they just attack her for the attitude, instead of barking about the pregnancy? it's so.... it's not hypocrisy, but it's so.... i don't have the word.
angelina jolie got pregnant too right? i don't see them raving that she's a slut. and i don't see them raving about maia's attitude until she got pregnant. it's just so... illogical
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
no. didn't mean i didn't find it infurating anyway.
shrugs.
yes she can get that way at times.
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
edison chen didn't have the mightier than thou attitude. but... tada!
and it's not "condemning". it's condemning.
diff meaning
edison chen had the mightier than thou attitude (sure he thinks he is damn gd in woo-ing women)! though not the holier than thou attitude.Well, with regards to edison chen, that was a really entertaining piece of news revealing what some individuals the entertainment industry really are, aint it? well, it sure entertained and kept me occupied for a while.
Like i said, live and let live. If they want to condemn, let them be. I dont condemn edison chen, but i really find him stupid. how would he even think that it is safe to bring his laptop (containing so many porn pics of so many stars) for repair? REally stupid guy.
Well, but im sure he is gifted in other ways! He is capable of making so many stars stripped and posed in front of the camera for him! Really lucky guy!