Well I couldn't quite comprehend what the above is saying but the chinese version explain best of Perfect Mindfulness (zhen nian)Originally posted by bohiruci:Buddhism is not a religion but a way of life looking at things
Like as mention in the Diamond Sutra
"the past mind is ungrasppable , the present mind is ungrasppable and the future mind is ungrasppable"
it means the do not hold to the past , slack at the present and wild hope for the future
Let's remind myself that I am sharing with you my idea otherwise I may get too complicient thinking I giving advice. This is an opinion from a non-working person.Originally posted by bohiruci:wah ,good linyu
well ,can we proceed on
maybe lets say u working and suddenly u have a change of superior from a nice boss
to someone that is difficult , thats makes ur life hard to goes by
how u tackle that ?
okie non-working ,i guess u must have a clear mind in ur opinionsOriginally posted by LinYu:Let's remind myself that I am sharing with you my idea otherwise I may get too complicient thinking I giving advice. This is an opinion from a non-working person.
The one thing that remains unchange is the "processs of changes". therefore it is beyond us that this changes arise. Human tends to be pessimistic and compare with what we had with what we have and produce negative ideas during comparision. We may not know the standard or demand of your new superior and therefore we think that they makes our life difficult. If we are able to meet their standard, then we think that this new superior is good or nice or even better than your previous boss.
All this are our perceived ideas. Even if we will to quit our job because of this unhappiness, there is no guarantee that our new job will not have the same problem. Just be yourself and do your best. I am sure you will be happy. Happiness comes from being contented. If you want to be happy, just learn to be contented with what you have.
So much for the "idea". Probably my reaction would be that I think if I am really unhappy with my work, i will probably quit but i am still schooling so this is yet a problem for me.![]()
i agree with the these views, too complacent from thinking giving advice? Hmm.Originally posted by LinYu:Let's remind myself that I am sharing with you my idea otherwise I may get too complicient thinking I giving advice. This is an opinion from a non-working person.
All this are our perceived ideas. Even if we will to quit our job because of this unhappiness, there is no guarantee that our new job will not have the same problem. Just be yourself and do your best. I am sure you will be happy. Happiness comes from being contented. If you want to be happy, just learn to be contented with what you have.![]()
Yes the mind does seem to be constantly comparing things 'automatically'. What relief it must be for to be free from such and other unecessary 'mind-chatter'.Originally posted by LinYu:The one thing that remains unchange is the "processs of changes". therefore it is beyond us that this changes arise. Human tends to be pessimistic and compare with what we had with what we have and produce negative ideas during comparision. We may not know the standard or demand of your new superior and therefore we think that they makes our life difficult. If we are able to meet their standard, then we think that this new superior is good or nice or even better than your previous boss.
Have heard the advice many times that if obstacles are too great, you have to remember that you can give up, 'let go' too.Originally posted by LinYu:So much for the "idea". Probably my reaction would be that I think if I am really unhappy with my work, i will probably quit but i am still schooling so this is yet a problem for me.
i have thought a lot abt problems that seem 'unsurmountable' and always seem to come to the conclusion, that what i lack is wisdom or energy. So if i wished to be a problem solver, best examples are the buddhas and bodhisattvas, i must seek the wisdom and cultivate energy. More energy=able to seek more wisdom. Logical is it not?Sometime the more energy you have seeking, the further you stray away from wisdom. One should be focus in the practice of Perfect Mindfulness and Perfect Concentration on top of the other six fold path to attain wisdom.
good ,modern use of perfect mindfulnessOriginally posted by LinYu:Sometime the more energy you have seeking, the further you stray away from wisdom. One should be focus in the practice of Perfect Mindfulness and Perfect Concentration on top of the other six fold path to attain wisdom.
As explain above the idea of Perfect Mindfulness I shall attempt to explain Perfect Concentration. Take example: When we play with the magnifying glass under the sun, we can burn a piece of paper by concentrating the sun ray on the piece of paper. similarly if we can concentrate the mind, we can also acheive wisdom thur the practice.![]()
Good.. if we can understand impermanence, there is no existing entity called a "boss" to attached toOriginally posted by LinYu:Let's remind myself that I am sharing with you my idea otherwise I may get too complicient thinking I giving advice. This is an opinion from a non-working person.
The one thing that remains unchange is the "processs of changes". therefore it is beyond us that this changes arise. Human tends to be pessimistic and compare with what we had with what we have and produce negative ideas during comparision. We may not know the standard or demand of your new superior and therefore we think that they makes our life difficult. If we are able to meet their standard, then we think that this new superior is good or nice or even better than your previous boss.
All this are our perceived ideas. Even if we will to quit our job because of this unhappiness, there is no guarantee that our nee yourself and do your best. I am sure you will be happy. Happiness comes from being contented. If you want to be happy, just learn to be contented with what you have.w job will not have the same problem. Just b
So much for the "idea". Probably my reaction would be that I think if I am really unhappy with my work, i will probably quit but i am still schooling so this is yet a problem for me.![]()
Bodhiruci -only the Eternal Now (mindfulness/pure awareness) is true... no 'future boss' and 'previous boss'. even the 'now boss' cannot be grasped. that is trascending relativity
Like as mention in the Diamond Sutra
"the past mind is ungrasppable , the present mind is ungrasppable and the future mind is ungrasppable";
Yes. Truth in itself is simple - it is a form of direct experience. Trying to know conceptually without practising will only lead to grasping and dharma attachments. Sorry if I have termed it in a very 'chim' way. Obviously I do not have my master's skills in teaching dharma in a lively and simple manner!Originally posted by LinYu:Actually I like to the simpler and direct way of understanding Dhamma. They are not complex, direct as if you can understand it by self experience.![]()
Originally posted by soemt:Wisdom in dealing with problems and leading people is also very important, to develope such wisdom we must also be constantly mindful/aware... practising the 8 fold path. Gradually we will gain wisdom. Although solving problems require intellect, Wisdom is not merely a form of intellect
i have thought a lot abt problems that seem 'unsurmountable' and always seem to come to the conclusion, that what i lack is wisdom or energy. So if i wished to be a problem solver, best examples are the buddhas and bodhisattvas, i must seek the wisdom and cultivate energy. More energy=able to seek more wisdom. Logical is it not?
Of course with wisdom i will eventually uncover the value/virtues of generousity, patience, compassion, loving kindness, equaminity, sympathetic joy, morality, determination. And finally when renounciation is adopted, what is referred to as the happy life may commence. Very Happy
SureOriginally posted by bohiruci:i should said ur possess the wisdom , but lets come back ,can we ?
imagine i am ur english teacher i asking ur to write composition on "Modern Buddhist living in the 21st century "
liddat ur sure fail ur compo . please put example into everyday life![]()
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i understand dharma and teaching is important , but if we always at so deep a level ,the question i popped in mind is
can we bring ordinary ppl to understand buddhism ,instead of leaving them in awe ?![]()
haha.. ok i'm going back to mugging.Originally posted by bohiruci:dun get me wrongi was just trying to inject the mind into the present situation
maybe someone who happened to pass by wish to ask question lor
haiz
maybe it is exam period for all school
not much ppl post lor
thats y it is like only a few of us here
If I were to be given this question, I will explain like this.Originally posted by bohiruci:i should said ur possess the wisdom , but lets come back ,can we ?
imagine i am ur english teacher i asking ur to write composition on "Modern Buddhist living in the 21st century "
liddat ur sure fail ur compo . please put example into everyday life![]()
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Originally posted by LinYu:yea, buddhist teachings remain the same, no matter what age we are in.
If I were to be given this question, I will explain like this.
It is not whether we are in the 20th, 21st or 22nd century. The problems still remain the same. [b]GO BACK TO BASIC. The basisis of the Buddha Teaching of 4 Noble Truth and Eight Fold Path and apply them into your everyday life. That is the application of Buddha teaching in whatever time.[/b]