Hi Kekwei, as the others have suggested, this is a folklore Chinese and Buddhists do not share this belief. It is important to understand the difference between Buddhism and Chinese folks practises and not confuse them. I would like to share with you this article:Originally posted by kekwei:Hello,
In Chinese custom believed that the dead can received paper money, paper
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Volume 5 no 1
Feature
Ullambana Dharma - not Festival of Hungry Ghosts
By Venerable Shen-Kai
According to a popular Chinese superstition, ghosts are released from hell in the 7th month of the Chinese calendar for a one-month break in the human world. In order to appease them, animals are slaughtered and offered to these 'hungry ghosts', together with other food. Big feasts and other festivities are held during this month and the most 'auspicious day' is the 15th day of the month. It is so widespread that this yearly affair is dubbed the Month or Festival of the Hungry Ghosts. What is this all about?
Among the chief disciples of the Buddha was one named Maudgalyayana. He had immense supernatural powers: Deva-foot ubiquity which made it possible for him to appear at any place at will, the divine sight of Deva-eye to have unlimited vision of all things, large and small, near and distant; Deva-ear to hear all sounds regardless of the distance. Furthermore, he had the ability to read and understand whatever was in a person's mind. He also had the ability to see clearly the events that occurred in a person's many past lives aeons ago. Thus, Maudgalyayana is considered to be a Maha-Bodhisattva who is foremost in supernatural powers.
One day, his Deva-eye saw that his deceased mother had transmigrated to the realm of the hungry ghost. Her stomach was enlarged and she had tiny limbs. Her throat was as small as the eye of a needle, and as a result, it was impossible for her to eat any food or even to swallow a drop of water. Maudgalyayana could not bear the sight of his mother in such an extreme state of suffering. He immediately filled his alms bowl with food and with the immense power that he possessed, he sent it to his mother. However, she could not have the food because each time it turned into charcoal before she could put it in her mouth. It hurt Maudgalyayana to see what was happening and because of his strong emotion for his mother, it hindered his ability to see the karma that she had committed in her past lives. He went to Buddha for advice. The Buddha closed his eyes and entered into pure contemplation. With great compassion and gentleness, he said: "Maudgalyayana, your mother did not believe in the retributions arising from the law of cause and effect. She committed many evil deeds. She dishonoured the Buddha and insulted the Sangha [1], had no respect for the Three Treasures (Buddha, Dharma and Sangha), was greedy, filled with hatred, ignorant and arrogant. She was a wicked person who committed many evils, and she teased others giving them no peace. Therefore, she is suffering such a bitter consequence. Even though you are her son and your filial piety touches the heavens, these are still not able to save a person who had committed such serious evil karma." On hearing this, Maudgalyayana wept in pain.
Notes
1. Sangha
The corporate assembly of at least 3 monks; in general the term has come to mean a monk, or monks.
2. Bodhi
From budh; knowledge, understanding; perfect wisdom; the illuminated or enlightened mind.
The Buddha continued to console him, "It is impossible to rely solely on your own effort to save your mother from the realm of the hungry ghost. The only way is to use the combined merits of the Sangha. The 15th day of the 7th month of each year is designated "Buddha's Joy Day". This is the last day of the Sangha's summer retreat, and because of the purity with which the Sangha observed the precepts and practised cultivation, many attain the Bodhi [2]. The merits that they accumulate are immense beyond imagination, and the Buddha is most delighted. If you make an offering to these Sangha during this time, you can liberate your deceased parents and relatives from the suffering of the three evil realms (realms of animal, hungry ghost and hell) through their immense merits. If the parents are still living, then they shall be blessed with good health, happiness and a life of abundance. This is the truly marvellous method of giving salvation to the deceased." Maudgalyayana was delighted to hear this, and carried out the Buddha's advice accordingly. Thus, on the 15th of the 7th month after the offering to the Sangha, Maudgalyayana's mother was liberated from the suffering of the realm of the hungry ghost.
To give offering to the Sangha in this way is called the 'Ullambana' method. After Maudgalyayana received the benefits from this Dharma, he was very grateful to the Buddha and praised the merits of the Three Treasures. He advised people to promote the 'Ullambana Dharma'. This day, the 15th of the 7th month, can also be considered an occasion to express our gratitude and filial piety to our parents and ancestors. Unfortunately, the passage of time saw a gradual erosion in its understanding and purpose, so much so that this special occasion is not performed in accordance to the Dharma. Today, this auspicious celebration has become a day of widespread slaughter of animals to be used as offering to the hungry ghosts. The original act of performing offerings to the Sangha has become a day for feasting and making offerings to the hungry ghosts, often referred to as 'to invite the good brothers to a feast'. These practices are not only against the compassion of the Buddha, but also a let down to Maudgalyayana who had advised the world to be filial and to perform good deeds.
When we refrain from killing and protect all lives, we actually accumulate the merit of longevity and good health. It is meaningless to kill other living beings and offer them to the ghost, because they cannot benefit from these at all. Instead, those who kill shall have to repay for their action by suffering endlessly in hell. Unless we put an end to all forms of killing, the world forever shall not have peace. If the tradition of offering to the ghosts and the deceased on this day cannot be changed, the least we could do is to replace the slaughter and offer of meat with vegetarian food, flowers or fruits. It does not matter if we are not able to make offerings to the Sangha on this day, but at least we could invite them to chant the sutra for the purpose of liberating the deceased. In this way, it benefits both the living and the deceased.
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Originally posted by Spirit of Fire:Buddhism views the idea that our lives end with death as a serious delusion. It sees everything in the universe, everything that happens, as part of a vast living web of interconnection. The vibrant energy we call life that flows through the universe has no beginning & no end. Life is a continuous, dynamic process of change. Why then should human life be the one exception? Why should our existence be an arbitary, one-shot deal, disconnected from the universal rhythms of life?
We now know that stars & galaxies are born, live out their natural span, & die. What applies to the vast realities of the universe applies equally to the miniature relams of our bodies. From a purely physical perspective, our boides are composed of the same materials & chemical compounds as the distant galaxies. In this sense, we're quite literally children of the stars.
The human body consists of some 60 trillion individual cells, & life is the vital force that harmonises the infinitely complex functioning of this mind-boggling number of individual cells. Each moment, untold numbers of cells are dying & being replaced by the birth of new cells. At this level, we experience daily cycles of birth & death.
On a very practical level, death is necessary. If people lived forever, they would eventually start to long for death. Without death, we would face a whole new array of problems - from overpopulation to people having to live forever in age bodies. Death makes room for renewal & regeneration.
Death should therefore be appreciated, like life, as a blessing. Buddhism views death as a period of rest, like sleep, by which life regains energy & prepares for new cycles of living. Thus there's no reason to fear death, to hate or seek to banish it from our minds.
Death doesn't discriminate; it strips us of everything. Fame, wealth & power are all useless in the unadorned reality of the final moments of life. When the time comes, we'll have only ourselves to rely on. This is a solemn confrontation that we must face armed with only our raw humanity, the actual accord of what we have done, how we've chosen to live our lives, asking, "Had I live true to myself? What have I contributed to the world? What are my satisfactions of regrets?"
To die well, one must have lived well. For those who lived true to their convictions, who have worked to bring happiness to others, death can come as a comforting rest, like the well-earned sleep that follows a day of enjoyable exertion.
An awareness of death enables us to live each day - each moment - filled with appreciation for the unique opportunity we've to create something of our time on Earth. In order to enjoy true happiness, we should live each moment as if it were our last. Today will never return. We may speak of the past or of the future, but the only reality we've is that of this present instant. And confronting the reality of death actually enables us to bring unlimited creativity, courage & joy into each instant of our lives.
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can i come visit you from the nether world?Originally posted by MobyDog:After you leave for the nether world... please remember to post here .. to let us know.
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indeed this is chinese custom not buddhist customOriginally posted by ceecookie:oh btw talking abt chinese custom for ppl die hor, when my fren sit in the same table during recess time i like to put his chopstick to the "offering" position for ghosts when he's away buying the drink![]()
actually it's buddhist custom rather isent it?Originally posted by neutral_onliner:indeed this is chinese custom not buddhist custom![]()
Chinese folks tradition. Associated with modern day taoism rather than buddhism. No, we don't offer things to deities and gods like them. We dont worship deities and gods.Originally posted by ceecookie:actually it's buddhist custom rather isent it?
i asked my christian fren he say he dont believe, so it cant be chinese custom?
moselm =Originally posted by LinYu:compare burning paper doors, paper cars, paper house etc to burning real people, building moselm etc, the former is more compassionate.![]()
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As a buddhist i don't believe in such thing. Imagine you burn car the dead receive car, you burn bike they receive bike? Burn paper BMW they get paper BMW or real BMW? If you are rich enough to burn real BMW will they get real or paper BMW?Originally posted by kekwei:Hello,
In Chinese custom believed that the dead can received paper money, paper
clothes and etc burned to them.
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kekwei
Yes, you are right. One has to use one's common sense on these stuff.Originally posted by grandeur:As a buddhist i don't believe in such thing. Imagine you burn car the dead receive car, you burn bike they receive bike? Burn paper BMW they get paper BMW or real BMW? If you are rich enough to burn real BMW will they get real or paper BMW?
“Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it. Do not believe in anything simply because it is spoken and rumored by many. Do not believe in anything simply because it is found written in your religious books. Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers and elders. Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations. But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and benefit of one and all, then accept it and live up to it.”
quoted by buddha
When one dies, one inherit good and bad kamma and that determines where your next life is reborn.Originally posted by kekwei:Hello,
In Chinese custom believed that the dead can received paper money, paper
clothes and etc burned to them.
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well, cant blame you on being ignorant on buddhism and the chinese customs and practises.Originally posted by ceecookie:actually it's buddhist custom rather isent it?
i asked my christian fren he say he dont believe, so it cant be chinese custom?
Hi ceecookie,Originally posted by ceecookie:oh btw talking abt chinese custom for ppl die hor, when my fren sit in the same table during recess time i like to put his chopstick to the "offering" position for ghosts when he's away buying the drink![]()
yea...tho i usually mix both togetherOriginally posted by neutral_onliner:Hi ceecookie,
do u noe wat buddhism is all abt?![]()
It is impossible to mix something totally different... those who do are due to their ignorance and not knowing what both of them are.. I suggest you do read more and find out what Buddhism is.Originally posted by ceecookie:yea...tho i usually mix both together
If I never remember wrongly, this was confused with Taoism. Taoism has more elaborate practices, while Buddhism is more simple.Originally posted by kekwei:Hello,
In Chinese custom believed that the dead can received paper money, paper
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