Originally posted by sinweiy:There is a difference between judging and making a suggestion for you to consider. I will be judging if I go further than simply pointing something out to you. The correct respond from you is not... do not judge. The correct respond from you is: "What is he trying to say? Is there any truth in what he said?" That is looking inward.
if we all can sever the judging mind that's the root of all problem, all will be well.
even bible know this concept:
[b]“Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye? Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye? Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye.” - Matthew 7:1-5
ps: look inward, and enlightenment is near.
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how the world is going to progress if all the scientist and philosophers ....progress is one thing, we also need to look at the characteristic and moral side of a person.
Originally posted by casino_king:same goes for us to u.
The correct respond from you is: "What is he trying to say? Is there any truth in what he said?" That is looking inward.
Thusness told me... some people lack the 'touch' (touch of pure presence?) otherwise it will set that person on a spiritual journey. And anyway he cannot foresee an end to the ongoing chatterOriginally posted by longchen:Spiritual truth is so elusive because of some factors...
1. Using the wrong mode of seeking.
What do i mean by this. Firstly we try to relate and uncover spiritual reality with our own thinking faculty. This will lead us to nowhere because spiritual reality is what is encapsulating our limited thinking faculty. Spiritual reality is in a way 'beyond' the thinking mode assigned by a personality/self.
No offence, but most people are doing this precisely. As such believers can ONLY believe and NOT experience. To experience ... we must first MEDITATE... and train the thinking mind.
2. We think we know it all.
When we think we know it all, the thought of 'we know it all' will block us from knowing anything deeply. Why is that so?...because a 'know-it-all' thinks he/she knows it all and will not seek to know deeply and therefore will not go deep enough...
Not directed at anyone... just a sharing of my thoughts...![]()
Originally posted by simplified:one group see/believe only wat he sees.
one group see/follow wats on the teaching.
one group see/pray only with a statue to feel the presence of 'god'.
are there differences among them?
no.
but are they in the wrong by seein with 'naked eyes'?
no.
for its juz a passin phrase.
when all are on the boat(not enlightened) ..does it matter which gp ocupy a bigger space?
when all are in the 'not enlightened' state...y find 'fault' in others where one dun even noe wats 'right or wrong'.
with 'fate' ..a guy meet a ger
with 'love'...they fantasize their future.
can others see the future between the two?
can science prove their future?
no.
in the end,
they built their own future
they live in all after.
can others experience the love they hav for one other?
can others enjoy the happy moment they hav btwen them?
no.
2 man went fishin
days and nites of time wasting
one man leave in the end
one man stay till the end
but wats the result for the man who stay..
do u have the ans?
do i hav the ans"
no
only tat guy has the final ans.
what is reality
what is fantasy
no one knows exactly
unless one went thru it personally
then they will kill their own curosity.
mind is boundless
but it has to be spiritually grounded
for it to b 'formidable'
but how to be spiritually grounded?
this is spiritual path.
thank you
Originally posted by neutral_onliner:What happened to neutral_onliner? He said that he will help me along in understanding buddhism? I like his step by step way.
ok..mr CASINO since i'm 'free' till late afternoon why not i help u along in understanding buddhism.Well when learning everything we have to start from basic .why don we start from the basic ?
this is what i think tooOriginally posted by neutral_onliner:u huh...learn abit here learn abit there(wf no guidance )then form them thru ur not so correct understanding and now become 'rojok' knowledge
dear all, kind of think of it. actually thereÂ’s another deeper meaning to "thou shalt not judge", if we can see not the moon pointing finger, but the moon itself. then it's not conventionally about judging or suggesting, but about cause and effect. can even use the word suggest to replace judge.
There is a difference between judging and making a suggestion for you to consider.
nice quote of sogyal rinpocheOriginally posted by geforce:One great master in the nineteenth century had a disciple who was very
thick-headed. The master had taught him again and again, trying to introduce
him to the nature of his mind. Still he did not get it. Finally, the master
became furious and told him: “Look, I want you to carry this bag full of
barley up to the top of that mountain over there. But you mustnÂ’t stop and
rest. Just keep on going until you reach the top.”
The disciple was a simple man, but he had unshakable devotion and trust in
his master, and he did exactly as he had been told. The bag was heavy and it
took him a long time.
At last, when he reached the top, he dropped the bag. He slumped to the
ground, overcome with exhaustion, but deeply relaxed. All his resistance had
dissolved, and with it his ordinary mind. At that instant, he suddenly
realized the nature of his mind. He ran back down the mountain, and, against
all convention, burst into his masterÂ’s room.
“I think I’ve got it now . . . I’ve really got it!”
His master smiled at him knowingly. “So you had an interesting climb up the
mountain, did you?”
Sogyal Rinpoche
You seem to have a lot of trust in your own feelings, why is that?Originally posted by surfer188:Ok guys I just came back from Jerusalem 2hrs ago. I walk the "Via Dolorosa, Way of Sorrow" or "Way of the Cross". This is the path where Jesus's last walk with the cross. Total 14 stations. From Jesus is condemned till Jesus is placed in the tomb.
If got chance I would like to visit Hindus Holy place. Heard they have a few millions of Gods to pray. To me seems like too many??
Cool!!Originally posted by surfer188:Ok guys I just came back from Jerusalem 2hrs ago. I walk the "Via Dolorosa, Way of Sorrow" or "Way of the Cross". This is the path where Jesus's last walk with the cross. Total 14 stations. From Jesus is condemned till Jesus is placed in the tomb.
How to cease craving or lessen attachment for sensual pleasure?Originally posted by neutral_onliner:hmm... let put it this way People who desire to own many things can never be fully satisfied too. Like children in a toy shop, they crave for all the attractive things they see around them. But like children too, they soon become dissatisfied with what they already have and desire for more. Sometimes, they can hardly eat or sleep until they get what they want. Yet when they succeeded in getting what they want, they may still find their happiness short-lived. Many will be too worried for the safety and condition of their new possessions to enjoy it. Then when the object they possess eventually breaks into pieces and has to be thrown away, they will suffer its loss even more.
so u see When we have obtained something that we desire, we may want more and more of it and so greed arises.It like filling the " black hole" .It never enough.We thought that by having all these things will give everlasting happiness.It never happen.
take for another example A very poor, underprivileged person might think that it would be wonderful to have a car or a television set and, should he acquire them, would at first feel very happy and satisfied. Now, if such happiness were permanent, as long as he had the car and the TV set he would remain happy. But he does not; his happiness goes away. After a few months he wants another kind of car; if he has the money, he will buy a better television set. The old things, the same objects that once gave him much satisfaction, now cause dissatisfaction.
so u see what we really need is not that much however what we want is never enough.
There are many ways... one way is by contemplation of the body..Originally posted by Isis:How to cease craving or lessen attachment for sensual pleasure?
icic how do u do there?Originally posted by An Eternal Now:There are many ways... one way is by contemplation of the body..
The books by Ajahn Maha Boowa got mention.Originally posted by Isis:icic how do u do there?
Not just me trust my own feelings a lot. I have few close friends trust my views/feelings for projected up to 3 years. Believe it or not up to you. When one is silence, informations is always there. I stress I don't have "abilities". It's normal senses. Like sometimes you may have experiance that you did something before & you are very sure of it. Like women senses the sincerity of a man. Some people call it instinct, some call it six-sense. Just is type of senses only.Originally posted by casino_king:You seem to have a lot of trust in your own feelings, why is that?
edited to add: Before you visit Hindu temples, just remember that all the Gods you see are just aspects, manifestations of one God.
I know what you mean but for discussion sake, do you think that the essence of Buddhism is this? To develop this ability? What about reasoning? What about analysis? Is this a replacement for "logic?" A shortcut? A lazy person's wasy or avoiding hard thinking?Originally posted by surfer188:Not just me trust my own feelings a lot. I have few close friends trust my views/feelings for projected up to 3 years. Believe it or not up to you. When one is silence, informations is always there. I stress I don't have "abilities". It's normal senses. Like sometimes you may have experiance that you did something before & you are very sure of it. Like women senses the sincerity of a man. Some people call it instinct, some call it six-sense. Just is type of senses only.
Originally posted by casino_king:might want to analysis our past ancestor chinese expression saying "the more clever one is the more careless they are." and "being smart for one moment, but deluded for one life." or hokkien expression: "father heaven favour fool." or Christian(?) : is easier for 'fool' to enter the heaven's gate than a smart person, as the smart person will analysis the gate first, before entering. something like that.
What about reasoning? What about analysis? Is this a replacement for "logic?" A shortcut? A lazy person's wasy or avoiding hard thinking?
Like I said, I know what you mean but I am asking you these questions for discussion sake.[/b]
Do you think that there is a very fine line between depending on "intuition" and fantasy/delusion? How do you tell the difference?Originally posted by sinweiy:might want to analysis our past ancestor chinese expression saying "the more clever one is the more careless they are." and "being smart for one moment, but deluded for one life." or hokkien expression: "father heaven favour fool." or Christian(?) : is easier for 'fool' to enter the heaven's gate than a smart person, as the smart person will analysis the gate first, before entering. something like that.
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Originally posted by casino_king:even what we think is 'real' if prime to the max, become delusion also. it's natural law of polarity. ie bad if prime to the max become good. good if prime to the max become bad. Buddha was enlightened because of the Middle Way.
Do you think that there is a very fine line between depending on "intuition" and fantasy/delusion? How do you tell the difference?