Help! An attachment problem
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Recently i just left ITE (I am still yr 1) for poly cos i retake and successful pass my o levels. right now i kinda badly miss sch, i terribly miss all my friends and wat we did. I found it very hard to accept that my ITE life is over even though i knew i hav go. Buddhism have said that nothing is permanent but i couldn't get this msg over into my head. right now i even tot of withdrawing from poly (jus registered) to go back ITE jus to revive and taste the good old days even though it mus be terribly foolish idea! It's quite ironic, when i join first join ITE a year ago, i swear to do well to retake o levels and go poly! When i finally did succeeded i think the opposite way omg...
right now im feeling quite sad and even depressed.. -
well , things dont last forever .
congrats on going to poly !!
move on yeah , you can always keep in contact with ur ite frens , and also get to make even more new friends in poly !
jiayou! -
nothing to do with this religion..but why back out of poly?its fun too u noe..hang around longer..it took my class 2 years to bond..
anyway its a principle in life that u should try ur best and not back out so easily.. -
Yes even though i can still keep contact...but i jus couldn't accept the fact that days will no longer be the same again! I envy those of my classmates who get to stay in ITE for one more year
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Well even if you didnt leave ITE now, lets say you graduate from ITE years later, in the end you will still have to leave ITE right? It is just a period of your life, nothing last forever, move on.
Choose the path which is best for you. Poly and ITE are places where education shld be put in priority. If you can go poly, go for it. And like stellazio said, poly will also be fun mah
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aiyo i understand ur feeling... initially it seems hard to click around with new friends... as time goes by... naturally will de... no worries
Yea it took me months to b really able to communicate with them.. u jus gota b more open... as in more LAME or SOCIALBLE abit.. can liao
don think too much laaa... haha poly its really FUN, not as BAD as u think.. trust me K! -
Ya I agree what he said.. dont look bad.. move on.. Thats wat life's all about isnt itOriginally posted by An Eternal Now:Well even if you didnt leave ITE now, lets say you graduate from ITE years later, in the end you will still have to leave ITE right? It is just a period of your life, nothing last forever, move on.
Choose the path which is best for you. Poly and ITE are places where education shld be put in priority. If you can go poly, go for it. And like stellazio said, poly will also be fun mah
every1 goes thru the same... -
Ask yourself if you really go back to ITE, will things stay the same? What if all your friends graduate and u are still stuck in ITE?
Imagine one day you find yourself gettting older and you start to wonder what you have missed out in life if you didnt go Poly... ur thinkings and the way you feel about things will also change as u grow older....
What do you want to do in life?
Are u afraid of dealing with uncertainity occuring in your Poly life?
Feeling stress dealing with school works etc etc. I think this is very normal.
You just need to take some time to adapt to poly life.
Don't worry too much la.
Enjoy Poly's life la cos you live only once -
Well I agree there are times we feel bad due to a "longer route" we take ,butOriginally posted by Texcoco II:Recently i just left ITE (I am still yr 1) for poly cos i retake and successful pass my o levels. right now i kinda badly miss sch, i terribly miss all my friends and wat we did. I found it very hard to accept that my ITE life is over even though i knew i hav go. Buddhism have said that nothing is permanent but i couldn't get this msg over into my head. right now i even tot of withdrawing from poly (jus registered) to go back ITE jus to revive and taste the good old days even though it mus be terribly foolish idea! It's quite ironic, when i join first join ITE a year ago, i swear to do well to retake o levels and go poly! When i finally did succeeded i think the opposite way omg... right now im feeling quite sad and even depressed..
2 years of ITE is betta than 1st yr in poly where u have no foundation .
I supposed you are in year 2 of Poly rite ?
I also take a longer route to poly , by retaking O level at the sametime study in a pre-u centre .Thats how i lost touch with alot of my friend , well
that doesnt matter ,becos eventually the chance to succeed is there
I do not look down on ITE student, instead I view them as great student who
will impart the basic knowledge of any poly subject and potential top-scorer
My sentiments sincerely,
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no, i jus left ITE last week, waiting to enter polyOriginally posted by bohiruci:Well I agree there are times we feel bad due to a "longer route" we take ,but
2 years of ITE is betta than 1st yr in poly where u have no foundation .
I supposed you are in year 2 of Poly rite ?
I also take a longer route to poly , by retaking O level at the sametime study in a pre-u centre .Thats how i lost touch with alot of my friend , well
that doesnt matter ,becos eventually the chance to succeed is there
I do not look down on ITE student, instead I view them as great student who
will impart the basic knowledge of any poly subject and potential top-scorer
My sentiments sincerely, -
Good times should be short, for then, they will more cherished more. -
may u be happyOriginally posted by Texcoco II:no, i jus left ITE last week, waiting to enter poly
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wait.. is this an attachment problem in the first place?
be adaptive, sooner or later u will have to graduate. u cant stay in ITE forever. sides, poly is pretty fun. u'll like it -
wah, you are wrong you know.
My happiest time in life is when I was in poly.
I think the freedom and fun in poly is much better than in ITE. Go and join some clubs in the poly if you want.
Even if you stay in ITE, the same batch of classmates will leave ITE for their own dream.
In the long run, you should diversify your focus to life outside school. because soon, you will have to miss your life and friends in poly also.
Better get prepared now.