Originally posted by longchen:To understand and experience takes much more than just having an interesting mental pursuit. MUCH MUCH MORE. And sometimes, we even enter into the deepest depth of depression and fear along the path. Are you willing to commit to that?
To be honest, many people on this forum are just interested (in Buddhism) as a mental pursuit... like a form of addiction that distracts from ones' inner sense of suffering (temporarily). Truly awakened persons will not write to another unnecssarily unless there is an affinity. Because they will have known that in most cases, it is a waste of effort.
Sorry if i sounded unpleasant... but this is the truth.
You mean "a lighted lamp don't light another lamp unless there's affinity" ?Originally posted by longchen:To understand and experience takes much more than just having an interesting mental pursuit. MUCH MUCH MORE. And sometimes, we even enter into the deepest depth of depression and fear along the path. Are you willing to commit to that?
To be honest, many people on this forum are just interested (in Buddhism) as a mental pursuit... like a form of addiction that distracts from ones' inner sense of suffering (temporarily). Truly awakened persons will not write to another unnecssarily unless there is an affinity. Because they will have known that in most cases, it is a waste of effort.
Sorry if i sounded unpleasant... but this is the truth.
This in itself is a testimony. Thanks.Originally posted by longchen:To understand and experience takes much more than just having an interesting mental pursuit. MUCH MUCH MORE. And sometimes, we even enter into the deepest depth of depression and fear along the path. Are you willing to commit to that?
To be honest, many people on this forum are just interested (in Buddhism) as a mental pursuit... like a form of addiction that distracts from ones' inner sense of suffering (temporarily). Truly awakened persons will not write to another unnecssarily unless there is an affinity. Because they will have known that in most cases, it is a waste of effort.
Sorry if i sounded unpleasant... but this is the truth.
Originally posted by dragg:do compassion meditation. meditation on loving kindness.
i have a lot of anger inside me.
how do i get rid of it?
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you mean meditate by focusing on a single object.Originally posted by sinweiy:do compassion meditation. meditation on loving kindness.
Buddha give 3 antidotes for the 3 poison of greed, anger n folly. they are discipline of body n mind, leading to stillness and leading to wisdom. discipline of body n mind is the antidote for greed; Stillness/concentration is the antidote for anger; wisdom is the antidote for folly.
8. Right Meditation
Meditation means the gradual process of training the mind to focus on a single object and to remain fixed upon the object without wavering. The constant practice of meditation helps one to develop a calm and concentrated mind and help to prepare one for the attainment of Wisdom and Enlightenment ultimately.
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Meditate on one single theme at a time. Those that he suggested that you meditate on.Originally posted by dragg:you mean meditate by focusing on a single object.
Hi dragg,Originally posted by dragg:i have a lot of anger inside me.
how do i get rid of it?

Originally posted by dragg:make it a 'holy' object better. eg Buddha's image.
you mean meditate by focusing on a single object.
i think meditation need proper guiding in person rather than thru here.Originally posted by sinweiy:make it a 'holy' object better. eg Buddha's image.
some ppl can use breathing. they focus on the breath, nose area.
for myself, i recite Buddha's name, 'Amituofo'.
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Long long time ago, somebody passed me a book on meditation? He was not a Buddhist though.Originally posted by neutral_onliner:i think meditation need proper guiding in person rather than thru here.![]()
Originally posted by neutral_onliner:true. might go astray.
i think meditation need proper guiding in person rather than thru here.![]()
tat's why we have to go to reputable teachers.Where to find them? Well recognised buddhist monastries and dharma center.Tis is something veri 'technical'.Is like learning to swim or drive.U don just jump into a pool or start driving a vehicle after browsing thru an instruction manual or some brief discussion thru forum.we need proper guidingOriginally posted by casino_king:You go to the wrong teacher, you might also go astray... I think here in an anonymous forum is good because any wrong teaching can be corrected or debated. In this way the forum is the teacher! Like wikipedia.org
You always say that... so many times already.... go to attend dharma lesson... go to attend dharma lesson...Originally posted by neutral_onliner:tat's why we have to go to reputable teachers.Where to find them? Well recognised buddhist monastries and dharma center.Tis is something veri 'technical'.Is like learning to swim or drive.U don just jump into a pool or start driving a vehicle after browsing thru an instruction manual or some brief discussion thru forum.we need proper guiding
Just a gentle reminder,the purpose of tis forum is to provide a platform for discussion and exchanging of pointers.Inorder to have a deeper or should i say better understanding/learning of buddhism one should go to attend dharma lesson.![]()
no lah we don teach .anyway we not qualified to teach.we shared with what we know over here.the purpose of tis forum is to provide a platform for discussion and exchanging of pointers.The reason why i tel u to go there becos they r the pro.By being there u have the chance to activtly participates and learnOriginally posted by casino_king:You always say that... so many times already.... go to attend dharma lesson... go to attend dharma lesson...
Teach the people here and then they want they go and practice themselves and if they have problems, they come back here and ask?
How about we ask and you ask the pro and then put his reply here?Originally posted by neutral_onliner:no lah we don teach .anyway we not qualified to teach.we shared with what we know over here.the purpose of tis forum is to provide a platform for discussion and exchanging of pointers.The reason why i tel u to go there becos they r the pro.By being there u have the chance to activtly participates and learn![]()

hi longchen,Originally posted by longchen:To understand and experience takes much more than just having an interesting mental pursuit. MUCH MUCH MORE. And sometimes, we even enter into the deepest depth of depression and fear along the path. Are you willing to commit to that?
To be honest, many people on this forum are just interested (in Buddhism) as a mental pursuit... like a form of addiction that distracts from ones' inner sense of suffering (temporarily). Truly awakened persons will not write to another unnecssarily unless there is an affinity. Because they will have known that in most cases, it is a waste of effort.
Sorry if i sounded unpleasant... but this is the truth.