THE INTERVENING YEARS: Returning HomeTHE BUDDHA'S FATHER
Seven years had passed in the Enlightened One's ministry. His renown as a spiritual teacher had spread to His home of Kapilavatthu. The King, now aged, wanted to see his son and have Him give the benefit of His teachings to the people. He invited the Buddha and many monks to return where he would accord Him a royal welcome. On seeing his son, the King observing the Buddha's determination was both proud and yet dejected that his son would never be heir to the throne. The Compassionate One said he knew the King's heart was full of affection and deeply grieved but to let those bonds of affection for a loss son be the ties which embrace with loving-kindness all humanity, receiving in place of a loss son one greater than Siddhattha: he will receive the Buddha, the teacher of Truth, and the peace of Nibbana will enter his heart. Not everyone in His hometown was convinced that He had realized Enlightenment. The texts state that the Buddha performed miracles to convince them, though He rarely permitted such displays. Residing in the forest grove, the Buddha, as usual, went on His almsround for His morning meal. The King confronted the Buddha and told Him how ashamed he was to see his son, born of a royal lineage, begging in the streets. The Buddha explained it was the custom of the Buddha-lineage to do so, and He shared the teachings of Truth with his father. The King reached the first stage of sainthood (Stream-entry) and, eventually, he realized Enlightenment as a lay follower.
The Buddha finally arrives in Kapilavatthu and goes collecting alms in the street. His father sees him and is very annoyed: 'You are descended of kings, it is not our custom to beg.' But the Buddha reminds him: 'You are descended of kings but my descent is of the Buddhas of old.'
King Suddhodana finally understands and invites the Buddha and his retinue of monks to the palace for a meal.
THE BUDDHA'S FOSTER MOTHER
The wives of those who entered the Order of monks also wanted to renounce lay life and become nuns (bhikkhunis). These women requested Queen Maha Pajapati Gotami, whose husband the King had just passed away, to obtain the Buddha's consent to establish an Order of nuns. The Buddha attended His father's funeral and, at that time, He refused His aunt's request. Eventually, she was successful in obtaining His permission. She became a distinguished nun and was foremost in seniority and experience in the Nuns Sangha. She passed away at a very great age. The Buddha Himself visited the cremation site and paid respect to His enlightened foster mother by circumambulating it together with His disciples.
THE BUDDHA'S FORMER WIFE
The Princess Yasodhara was anxious to renounce the world from the time she knew about the Great Renunciation of the Prince. To avoid any flight from the palace, King Suddhodana took steps to intensify security measures. The Princess, while grieving the loss of her husband and a father to their son, gradually became reconciled to His departure. Hearing that her husband had become an ascetic and to honor his austerities, she determined to live the simple life of a celibate renunciate within the palace walls. When the Buddha had greeted all His relatives and friends at His homecoming, He learned that Yasodhara refused to come into His presence. Knowing of her great sorrow, He requested His two chief disciples to accompany Him to her apartments. He told the monks to permit her grief to run its course during the time of reunion. She awaited Him, dressed in a yellow robe, with shorn hair. Her abundance of affection overflowed and she held Him by the feet and wept bitterly. Regaining her composure, the Buddha spoke gently to her, expressing His deep esteem and appreciation of her as His ever-faithful wife, her unfailing devotion to Him, and her great assistance in helping Him win Enlightenment. Princess Yasodhara entered the Nuns Order and later became an enlightened arhat. She predeceased the Buddha.
THE BUDDHA'S SON
Little Prince Rahula, seven years old, was sent by the Princess to ask for his inheritance. The Buddha, knowing of no other "inheritance" as matchless as the Truth, told Rahula He did not have gold and silver to give him, but asked if he were willing to receive spiritual treasures and whether he was strong enough to carry and keep them. Rahula replied with firmness that he was ready to be a novice monk. The Blessed One asked the Venerable Sariputta to ordain him. The King, discovering that now his grandson and a number of young men in the royal family had requested ordination, asked the Buddha only to ordain a minor with the consent of his parents or guardian. The Buddha assented. This rule was expanded to include the spouses of those intending to join the Order of monks and nuns. The Venerable Rahula was known for his humility and his desire for spiritual learning. He shunned any special consideration as the son of the Awakened One, and was noted for his high standard of discipline. Eventually, he realized Enlightenment. The Venerable Rahula predeceased the Buddha.
King Suddhodana brings Yashodara (the Buddha's wife) and their son Rahula to meet the Buddha. It is suggested that Rahula should be given his inheritance. Later , in response to this, the Buddha ordains him as the first novice. The King is not pleased with the loss of yet another heir to the throne and this becomes the basis for the rule that parents' permission is required for ordination.