How to view our difficulties and setback in life?
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Haiz .... this is the most daunting time for me still
Its been 2 month past... I still didnt get a better job ....now I feeling the crunch on me ...
I just so disappointed ...Just why did I seek Buddha and Bodhisattva for guidance .things never turn well
it is just so freaking disappointment
thing never seems to get better ......
I still havent get a better job
and companies play me out for interview ,and wasted no pay leave on that
alot of sarcastic remark to me during their interview ...
just why must I handle all this
I feel the chanting is getting nowhere .... nothing seems to work -
It's normal to meet setbacks in looking for new job ler. Very often it really depends on the your presentation during the interviews, and the first 6 seconds of impression formed around 80% whether or not you'll be hired. The remaining 20% is on your knowledge on the job and the company.Originally posted by bohiruci:Haiz .... this is the most daunting time for me still
Its been 2 month past... I still didnt get a better job ....now I feeling the crunch on me ...
I just so disappointed ...Just why did I seek Buddha and Bodhisattva for guidance .things never turn well
it is just so freaking disappointment
thing never seems to get better ......
I still havent get a better job
and companies play me out for interview ,and wasted no pay leave on that
alot of sarcastic remark to me during their interview ...
just why must I handle all this
I feel the chanting is getting nowhere .... nothing seems to work
Sometimes, they purposely pose sarcastic remarks to test whether you are able to take stress or not. If you could handle that well, that'll impress them, of course, not telling you to suan them back ler.
Every interview experience will not be wasted, because you have inevitably learnt of different techniques pertaining to different interviewer's personalities. -
The most important thing is to let them feel that you 100% want the job
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stay positive my fren. U're not the only one.
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Merry Meet Brother bohiruci,
Difficulties & Setbacks are norm of society part of this Mundane plane of existence. Alot of expections can result in alot of doubts & disappointments, it just build more barriers for you to reach your desired goal. Its not Buddha & Bodhisattva did not answer to your call & plea just perhaps the time is not right yet. As i have spoken to you, you must chant from your heart without any expectation for the chanting to aid in clearing your obstacles & karmic ties. Having a doubt might as well don't chant. You are not the only one who are suffering. Existence in this Mundane realm are to go through sufferings of life & death with other trials & tasks, by choosing to follow the Buddha path is to embark on a path to salvation to cease all sufferings. Be patient & stay positive, you are never alone in the first place...
Blessed Be,
Oceanos -
Looking at this thread,i sort of realised that i m not e onli one suffering.
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its karma la...do more good deeds
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Learn and move on. -
don't chant.
pray. -
In the first place, chanting should be served as a reminder to the Buddha's Teachings, not praying for worldly material things.
Lord Buddha is against ritualitic practice which many buddhists are making it so.
Life is tough, see problems as challenges to make you a better man.
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I agree with coolbluewater, don't see them as failures but as learning opportunities.. all the best.
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Merry Meet Ah boy,Originally posted by An Eternal Now:I agree with coolbluewater, don't see them as failures but as learning opportunities.. all the best.
You don't agree with me?
Blessed Be,
Oceanos -
Originally posted by OCEANOS:
Yes you too, of course
[b]Merry Meet Ah boy,
You don't agree with me?
Blessed Be,
Oceanos[/b]
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Merry Meet Ah boy,Originally posted by An Eternal Now:Yes you too, of course
Hahaha okie...
Blessed Be,
Oceanos