Darn ! I have great difficulties reading chinese ! Thats why i knew so little about buddhism , as most words are written in chineseOriginally posted by An Eternal Now:The Buddha taught some solutions:
(Book Source: Fa Yu Bing Fen 2nd Series by Ven. Shen Kai)
Therefore to summarise, there is 1) To change perception of females as 'mothers' or 'sisters', 2) To contemplate the impurities and impermanence of the body from head to toe 3) To guard and close our six sense doors, do not give rise to attachment to appearances and discriminative mind/consciousness (which is why mindful awareness is very important)
Other than these, there are some other ways in Buddhism but the above are some of the most commonly mentioned.
You can read Chinese right? Don't understand can ask, I can explain
I have to agree with you that Buddhism has the most scientific approach to truth and reality... it is a very systematic way to experiencing the truths taught by Buddha, and it is relatively free from dogmas (especially the teachings of Buddha but it is inevitable that some level of dogmas slip into Buddhist traditions over thousands of years)...Originally posted by sgquitter:wow, low on the intelligence huh?please explain in greater detail?
In this day and age, humanity is constantly gaining higher levels of intelligence possibly due to better educational background, and other reasons of coz. It is not surprising that people will tend to become more rational in thinking, and i don't see anything wrong or bad in becoming more rational rather than being more superstitious. In fact, i find that it is better to be more rational than rely on very personal 'feelings' or 'impulses', which actually arise from emotional thoughts and can be very unpredictable. Rational people tend to be atheists for the same reason. Rational people tend to score higher in IQ tests, and there is an inverse correlation between being religious and being intelligent - i.e. the more intelligent a person is, the less likely he is religious. It's no wonder that an overwhelming majority of scientists are not religious.
It is quite unlikely that a rational person will reject an idea if the evidence is placed before him. For example, if a person suggests that he can read my mind and he actually is able to do it accurately every time, then no matter how doubtful it sounds, i will seriously consider whatever he has to say.
Did Jesus and Prince Siddartha ever existed? I think they did, although i have no way to be 100% sure, since i can only rely on historical records. Is it very important? I would say not at all.
Whatever happened in the past may seem important to some people, but i'd prefer to think that whatever that is said is much more important - what can we learn from what was left behind? Is what was being said/taught correct?
IMHO, based on what was taught, i would tend to agree more with what the Buddha taught - he appears to be much more wise and understanding than his counterpart.I also agree to a certain extent that some scientific studies seem to be in-line with what the Buddha had taught - although IMHO it was too vague (perhaps not meant to be in detail watever...).
@AEN:A person is enlightened when he has attained insights into the nature of reality... which is Luminous-Emptiness... and this Luminous-Emptiness which is our Buddha Nature is an all-pervading infinity and fills all space... so awakened people describe the dissolving of the sense of separate self into an all pervading infinity. They also describe insights and realisations of the non-duality of subject-object. Empty/emptiness means that all phenomena are dependent co-arising out of conditions (much like the post I wrote regarding non-locality), as well as the 3 dharma seals: Impermanence, Suffering, No-self.. therefore all phenomena are empty of solid, separate existence. Luminous/luminosity means that our Buddha Nature is luminous with lucid cognitive function, or pure awareness -- it is able to reflect all phenomena clearly like a clear mirror... or like light though does not possess any forms can illuminate countless objects. Now, an enlightened person, someone awakened to the ultimate reality, is aware of this (luminous-emptiness reality) in real time.
I would very much like to know more about 'enlightened people' and 'psychics' that you mentioned. How do you distinguish a person as being enlightened? When u said 'enlightened', are they on par with the Buddha?
As for psychics, exactly what abilities do they have? Can you give more details, or better yet more solid evidence?Regarding psychic and supernatural abilities, I must first say that Buddhism discourages the seeking or cultivation of psychic powers.. Supernatural powers in Buddhism should only comes as a side effect of our Buddhist practise.. if we try to seek or develop these supernatural powers before gaining insights and wisdom, they can even lead us astray and deviated from the path of the Dharma as we will become attached to many of the paranormal phenomena and therefore not be able to develop true spiritual wisdom. Therefore it must be emphasised that though non-locality activities may be experienced such as the 5 powers, one may still not necessarily realise the non-locality of our true nature.
Haha that's sad.. hmm when I come home later I'll see how I can explain clearer for you...Originally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:Darn ! I have great difficulties reading chinese ! Thats why i knew so little about buddhism , as most words are written in chinese![]()
Ah thanksOriginally posted by cycle:[quote]Originally posted by An Eternal Now:
[1) The female that is more elder in age should be looked upon as one's Mother or aunt. For the female that is younger in age one should look upon her as one's own sister and for one that is very young in age, one should look upon her as one's.. uh, (sorry I don't know what's thatsomeone can tell me
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Niece. Or as in ones' sibling's or friend's daughter.
Hello...Originally posted by despondent:hello i am back again...juz one qn tis time...
when we tok abt rebirth, is it a one-to-one exchange??? meaning to say one soul can onli be reborn into one soul...1animal to 1 human, 1 human to 1 animal etc...thanx
http://www.dzogchen.org/teachings/talks/dtalk-95may22.html
First, form: Solidity, earth element, shape.
Second, feelings: Sensations. Not just emotional feelings, but also physical sensations and so on. Whatever we feel.
The third skandha is perceptions: Experiences, like thoughts, sights, sounds, and so on. In the second and third skandhas, in feelings and perceptions, liking and not liking arise. That's when the whole problem, the whole duality, the whole push and shove starts. The entire, exhausting treadmill or roller coaster of ups and downs.
The fourth is will or volition: Intending to do things. That's where karma comes in. Liking and not liking arise, then from that devolves reactions. Reactions rather than freedom and proactivity.
Our form feels things, perceives things this way or that way, liking or not liking. Then actions or intentions push or pull, trying to get more, get less, ignore it, or get away from it. Avoidance, denial, greed, demandingness, attachment, and so on, equals dissatisfaction and misery.
And fifth is consciousness, or as Buddhism says, consciousnesses: States of mind.
Sorry.. almost missed this reply.Originally posted by despondent:hello...thanx for replying...can u explain in simpler terms wads the diff btw rebirth n reincarnation? u mean buddhism dun believe animals/humans have souls??? then how does tis rebirth thing work?
I must mention too, that although nobody have an inherent 'souls' (in the ultimate sense), but they are conscious beings. Because of that, we must be compassionate for all beings, and do our part to aleviate their suffering.Originally posted by despondent:hello...thanx for replying...can u explain in simpler terms wads the diff btw rebirth n reincarnation? u mean buddhism dun believe animals/humans have souls??? then how does tis rebirth thing work?
Hi,Originally posted by An Eternal Now:One must take refuge in the Three Treasures/Triple Gems: Buddha, Dharma, Sangha. All Buddhist monasteries/dharma centers do have such taking refuge ceremonies, just as all churches will have baptism taking place from time to time.
There are people who are Buddhist-like in behaviors, but aren't Buddhist. If you like Buddhism, you try to practise Buddhism, but you never "Jie Yuan" or create the affinity with the Triple Gems, strictly speaking you cannot be considered a Buddhist yet, but perhaps a future Buddhist-to-be (must take your opportunity seriously! human life and authentic dharma is hard to come by) There are really alot of benefits in taking refuge in the Triple Gems, and there is really no reasons why one should not take refuge. The Buddha too said that to become his disciple one must take refuge in the Three Treasures.Originally posted by bazi:Hi,
I have read alot of your sharing in this forum and I know that u r very knowledgable abt Buddhism. U r very helpful and patience during ur explaination, this is what i like abt u and it tells me that u r a practician of Buddhism.
I became a buddhist few years back and hv read a lot of books regarding Buddhism. But maybe u want to recosidered what u hv mentioned in the above statement. Infact, i quite disagree with u for this staement. R u telling me that if ones doesn't know what is "Refuge in the 3 treasures" but ones hv been practice buddha teaching for years, is not consider buddhist?? For example, mother Theresia is a chatholic, but what she hv done to the world is outstanding, like the buddha teaching... She doesn't know what is refuge in the 3 treasures. I consider her as buddhist too becos she practise buddha teaching.
What i want to say is that, knowing buddhism is important but practice buddha teaching in life is priority...... Regardless of religion!
But anyway, this is only my 5cents point of view, everything "xui yuan, xui yuan" "kong shi se, se shi kong" Aomituofu......
Someone like Mother Theresa, though she has not attained enlightenment, has accumulated a lot of good karma. Through these good karma, she will attain a virtuous rebirth, possibly and likely in the Celestial/Heaven realms.So the difference between Buddhism and other good people is that there are many great people around the world and are good models, such as Mother Theresa, but only Buddhism offers the path that leads to liberation and Nirvana. Only Buddhism leads to enlightenment.. and that is not by any good works.
However, being reborn is not the same as having transcended the cycle of rebirth in samsara and thereby liberated from all the sufferings in samsara. That's the difference and I ahave briefly explained previously in this thread.
Also, just doing good deeds does not mean she becomes enlightened. To become enlightened you have to practise the Buddhist teachings and become aware of the ultimate truth of reality yourself... Only Buddhism leads to Buddhahood.
So, enlightenment is not by means of any good works. It is by practising the Dharma, practising the 8 fold path, being mindful and aware in all our daily lives, one day you will realise the ultimate truth.

Hi,Originally posted by An Eternal Now:So the difference between Buddhism and other good people is that there are many great people around the world and are good models, such as Mother Theresa, but only Buddhism offers the path that leads to liberation and Nirvana. Only Buddhism leads to enlightenment.. and that is not by any good works.
Originally posted by An Eternal Now:Just to add on, relating to the bold sentence.
Please read:
http://www.jenchen.org.sg/vol4no2c.htm
[b]Taking refuge and morality
By Venerable Shen-Kai
When we have taken refuge we are students of the Buddha. We need to be ethical and moral, and we need to zealously observe the code of morality. In this way, as a human being, our conduct becomes complete and fulfilling. If, as a Buddhist one is ignorant of the principles of morality, then taking refuge does not serve any purpose. When we take refuge, therefore, it is to observe the code of morality.[/b]
Originally posted by bazi:I'm still 17, but of course, I have to deal with work, life, relationship, etc.
Hi,
Just wonder do you have any committment in life? such as, a family, work, have to earn money to feed family etc.....
No doubt buddhism leads us to enlightenment and I would like to be enlighten, but the point is when we r living in such a society and world, we all have commitment and loves one, r u sure we can be enlighten?Of course! First of all you must know the right practise of Buddhism. The Buddha did not teach everyone to leave society into the wilderness to practise. Buddhism is not a 'mountain thing' or a 'forest thing'. Buddhism and Liberation is INSIDE our everyday living, and it is actually very simple. You might be interested to listen to the talk in Diamond Sutra 101 -- that teacher is also very enlightened.
I am not discourage, but being practical in life, what I can practice in buddhism is to be good models, have ethics and good morals, doing lots of good works, helping the needy, thats to me is enlightenment.What kind of enlightenment can you get from being good? Doing good is just doing good, one does not necessarily gain any enlightenment from it.
That is only the very basic of what a Buddhist must practise, because without morality there is no way to develope samadhi and wisdom. With Morality, the development of Samadhi and Wisdom is then possible, and then Liberation and Enlightenment is then possible.Originally posted by bazi:Just to add on, relating to the bold sentence.
It is clear that taking refuge doesn't mean that u r a buddhist, on the other hand, which is my point, not taking refuge doesn't mean that u r not a buddhist. The point is, u must observe the code of morality.....
Aomituofu......
I don't dare to think about the enlightenment buddha has acheived, I am just a ordinary human beings,Let me repeat: every single sentient being's Buddha Nature is already perfect and complete, it has always been right here wherever we are, we just have to awaken to it.
even buddha has to leave his family behind to acheived enlightenment but for me, I can't do it, becos i am respondsible to my family.That is not necessary. There are many Lay practitioners who have attained Enlightenment and Liberation as well. Two of my dharma teachers are lay practitioners, but they too are enlightened.
Unless I become a monk and leave my family behind (without 'qian gua') then maybe i can acheived that. To be frank, buddha have to be unfilial first by leaving his parent behind (i know that filial is no.1 for buddhism) to acheived enlightenment but his ambition/vows to save and enlighten others have superced that and looking into bigger picture.Again, enlightenment is not about leaving home life. Renounciation has four levels, there is outer renounciation (take up robes and be a monk), but to be liberated most of all we must be renounced within. Does not mean sit at home and do nothing, it just means moment to moment we are awakened and liberated.
In life, it depends what you want, is up to individual, as long as u follow buddha teaching, regardless u enlighten or not, ur life will be meaningful!!You must first set the right motivation for practising the Dharma. What is our purpose of practising the dharma? It is NOT to gain worldly benefits or mundane benefits, or just accumulating more blessings and good karma. All these are impermanent! We must know what Buddhism is for. It is definitely not created for the purpose of getting disciples gain more blessings or solve a few worldly problems! More importantly we must know how to overcome the great issue of birth and death, even in the midst of our living. How to be liberated and blissful, awakened/aware.
Aomituofu....
Originally posted by An Eternal Now:Oh, so u r only 17 yrs old..... very impressive u hv such a knowledge of buddhism.
Taking refuge is something very important, it is what makes one TRULY a Buddhist, one must understand this point. Please kindly read thoroughly and understand what the other paragraphs has been trying to stress.
It is the same with learning Buddhism. The entrance to Buddhism is very broad and there are many side entrances. How then can one be considered an authentic practitioner of Buddhism? Thus, a formal ceremony to take refuge is very important. You may have read many books on Buddhism and you may consider yourself a Buddhist. In reality, without taking refuge you have not yet form a cause or basis with the Buddha, the Dharma and the Sangha. Hence, according to Buddhism you are not yet a Buddhist.
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Hi, I think it is very unfortunate if one does not see the true meaning and significance of taking Refuge. It is not just a ceremony. Please seriously read through and understand the previous article. I just cannot stress the importance of taking refuge enough.Originally posted by bazi:Oh, so u r only 17 yrs old..... very impressive u hv such a knowledge of buddhism.
Our discussion is abt "one must take refuge to be a true Buddhist"......
To me, taking refuge is just a ceremony, why must ones treat this ceremony so important? It just like a ROM ceremony, it is not what hv been done during the ceremony, it is how the aftermaths which is most important, it determine how well the couples live together. It applies to the refuge ceremony....
For all out there, to me, all this is just ceremony, most importantly, is u hv all the while remember and practice Buddha teaching, that is the key point, no use u went thru the ceremony but everyday u r throwing ur temper.....
Buddhism is very easy to study and learn, but come to practice it, it is very diff. My sharing is that, don't be too "zhi zhuo" over the ceremony, I know lots of them do not went thru the refuge ceremony but u can still be a Buddhist, as long as "xin zhong you fuo", wherever u go, u r consider a Buddhist, to me.
AEN, nice sharing with you and hope that you have a bright future ahead, u hv a long way to go but i m very sure that u will make it, "jia you". Carry on to share ur knowledge in this forum, i believed lots of them benefit from it. May Buddha bless u and all of u.
Aomitofou......![]()
Just found the latest issue of interviews by Buddhist Geeks with Daniel Ingram (Dharma Dan) and Hokai.Originally posted by An Eternal Now:You must first set the right motivation for practising the Dharma. What is our purpose of practising the dharma? It is NOT to gain worldly benefits or mundane benefits, or just accumulating more blessings and good karma. All these are impermanent! We must know what Buddhism is for. It is definitely not created for the purpose of getting disciples gain more blessings or solve a few worldly problems! More importantly we must know how to overcome the great issue of birth and death, even in the midst of our living. How to be liberated and blissful, awakened/aware.
We should set our scope further --- all Buddhists' ultimate aim in practise is Enlightenment, Liberation, Buddhahood. Is to gain Wisdom and know the Truth.
Otherwise, your life is lived in futile because whatever you gain in life is transient, and even the blessings you accumulated is impermanent and limited. One day you will use up your blessings perhaps in some future lifetime, and you have no wisdom, then there will be even greater sufferings.