I'm on neither side but what I'd like to say is that hey thanks AEN for sharing Lama Surya Das'. His teachings are immaculate and I enjoyed every session of his on whatever topics discussed. He's so real. He expediently uses the right analogy and words to teach and benefit alot of people whom have listened and learned under his guidance.
"The Tibetan Book of Living & Dying" by Sogyal Rinpoche is incredible.
Recommended book to read and contemplate on.