Dear friends, what are your thoughts and experiences on this subject? Do you treat spirituality as an escape?Originally posted by An Eternal Now:This is by our forummer, Longchen:
Dear Friends,
If you want to experience non-duality, you must completely let go. That means you must not argue with yourself and you must not run away from any sensation, thoughts or feeling that is being felt at that moment.
You must not give yourself excuse to be not what you are at that moment. You must not reason yourself away from the situation that you are in at that particular moment.
If this persist long enough, something 'magical' will be percieved...
Yes that's perfectly fine... books have much wisdom and will be helpful... as long as we aren't looking for an escape.Originally posted by mahawarrior:When I'm in shit, I'll pick up my favorite book ('opening the door to your heart' by ajan bhramn) to look for solutions to the shit, or even on how i can change my mindset to deal with the situation.
so it's not an escape for me. it's just another method of solving one's problem.
Getting away from mundane and seeking peacefulness doesn't mean that you are running away from problems, but rather, learning how to face it and deal with it with a calmer mind, when you are ready, so that outcomes will be positive. It's like recharging battery, without energy, you'll be helpless in desperate situations.Originally posted by An Eternal Now:Hello... just now I had a thought of wanting to find some peace... and so I was just about to pick up some spiritual, dharma books to read in hope that I can get 'peace'. Then suddenly I become conscious of this unconscious momentum of 'seeking peace' and thought to myself... wait a minute... why am I running from what I am experiencing right now? If what I am experiencing right now is shit that's what is appearing right now... that is the reality at that moment... it is shit and it can't be otherwise. That shit is just as holy as anything else... Instead of running away from it which just increases the momentum of the negativity, the aversion and suffering, and as a result being a tremendous waste of energy, why not FEEL and BE whatever our experience is at that moment -- that is reality. As it is often said... just as light itself lights up everything... everything that consciousness touches gets transmuted into consciousness.
Spirituality is not escaping from yourself to some free lalaland, but it is about facing yourself and whatever is arising at that moment... it is not an escape. That's why not everyone is into real spirituality. They're after some mundane benefits, or some inner peace, or whatever, but they are not interested in reality. It's not exactly for the faint hearted either... there has to be fearlessness to face reality as it is... to become enlightened to the timeless reality.
Interestingly I just quoted this from Longchen days ago:
Dear friends, what are your thoughts and experiences on this subject? Do you treat spirituality as an escape?
This is definitely too.Originally posted by bohiruci:AEN , I feel you should do some social work to realise the teachings of Buddha Dharma
as in the 6 paramita , you are only perfecting the wisdom paramita , which is not enuff
try to go to the street see a hungry roaming kitten , give it some food .
thats where your compassion grows
look at those without a full set of hands , imperfect looks .reflect upon thus ."I am indeed lucky to be born with a full set of body .I want them to be well and happy ."![]()
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Dear friends, what are your thoughts and experiences on this subject? Do you treat spirituality as an escape?i posted a topic on esangha:
Excellent ....do share more of itOriginally posted by sinweiy:i posted a topic on esangha:
http://www.lioncity.net/buddhism/index.php?showtopic=38838&st=0
i'm thinking of the mind of leaving/renunciation "chu li xin"(mind of leaving "samsara") vs bodhi-mind.
http://vip.6to23.com/HCRKP/jtym/jtym067.htm
it states that generating the mind of leaving/renunciation is good for beginners(hinayanist) and should be treated as a foundation.
generally, the primary reason for generating the mind of renunciation is hoping to "escape" the suffering of samsara.
however we need to have the right idea of renunciation. some people only wish to go to enjoy in heavenly realms in their next life. or to get away from the 3 evil realms. such mind of 'leaving' is not enough.
after knowing that we cannot find true happiness in the 6 samsaric realms, we generated the mind of renunciation.
from mahayana's point of view, we go further into generating the bodhi mind which is the essence of Buddhahood.
there are 2 kind of bodhi-mind. relative bodhi is to attain Buddhahood in order to help sentient beings and the absolute bodhi that involve the true understanding of sunyata/emptiness.
in order to have a right view in our practice, both relative bodhi and absolute bodhi should be Equally important.
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I agree with you that peacefulness/calmness is important when facing situations. That's why I'm not knocking calmness, and I do emphasize the importance of sitting meditation, chanting, etc.Originally posted by coolbluewater:Getting away from mundane and seeking peacefulness doesn't mean that you are running away from problems, but rather, learning how to face it and deal with it with a calmer mind, when you are ready, so that outcomes will be positive. It's like recharging battery, without energy, you'll be helpless in desperate situations.
I think an aspiration is good... in fact there needs to be the willingness and effort to practise to be enlightened, if you have no aspiration then it's highly unlikely you will reach liberation.Originally posted by sinweiy:i posted a topic on esangha:
http://www.lioncity.net/buddhism/index.php?showtopic=38838&st=0
i'm thinking of the mind of leaving/renunciation "chu li xin"(mind of leaving "samsara") vs bodhi-mind.
http://vip.6to23.com/HCRKP/jtym/jtym067.htm
it states that generating the mind of leaving/renunciation is good for beginners(hinayanist) and should be treated as a foundation.
generally, the primary reason for generating the mind of renunciation is hoping to "escape" the suffering of samsara.
however we need to have the right idea of renunciation. some people only wish to go to enjoy in heavenly realms in their next life. or to get away from the 3 evil realms. such mind of 'leaving' is not enough.
after knowing that we cannot find true happiness in the 6 samsaric realms, we generated the mind of renunciation.
from mahayana's point of view, we go further into generating the bodhi mind which is the essence of Buddhahood.
there are 2 kind of bodhi-mind. relative bodhi is to attain Buddhahood in order to help sentient beings and the absolute bodhi that involve the true understanding of sunyata/emptiness.
in order to have a right view in our practice, both relative bodhi and absolute bodhi should be Equally important.
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'Chu li xin' just means one no longer craves samsaric pleasures, fulfillment in samsara, and he lets go of all craving, aversion, and all the samsaric thing... so that instead of being in a state of constantly seeking, he can penetrate every moment of arising and not run away from it.Originally posted by An Eternal Now:
http://www.buddhistgeeks.com/2007/03/05/buddhist-geeks-9-enlightened-teachers/
...The Buddha addressed it well, particularly in a series of Suttas in the Middle Length Discourses, #131-135, titled “One Fortunate Attachment” and variations on that title, and makes similar points in a great many other places.
I quote from the poem that is repeated in those suttas, using the translation of Bhikkhus Ñanamoli and Bodhi, which I highly recommend:“Let not a person revive the past
Or on the future build his hopes;
For the past has been left behind
And the future has not been reached.
Instead, with insight let him see
Each presently arisen state;
Let him know that and be sure of it,
Invincibly, unshakeably.
today the effort must be made;
Tomorrow Death may come, who knows?
No bargain with mortality
Can keep him and his hordes away,
But one who dwells thus ardently,
relentlessly, by day, by night -
It is he, the Peaceful Sage has said,
Who has one fortunate attachment.”
The problem with goal oriented effort in insight meditation arises only when it is effort to get to something that is not here, rather than realizing that what must be understood is right here. There is absolutely no conceptual or practical conflict with trying to be with reality as it is and know it deeply...
Yes indeed, compassion must complement wisdom, wisdom must complement compassion... thank you for pointing out something very important.Originally posted by bohiruci:AEN , I feel you should do some social work to realise the teachings of Buddha Dharma
as in the 6 paramita , you are only perfecting the wisdom paramita , which is not enuff
try to go to the street see a hungry roaming kitten , give it some food .
thats where your compassion grows
look at those without a full set of hands , imperfect looks .reflect upon thus ."I am indeed lucky to be born with a full set of body .I want them to be well and happy ."![]()
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Originally posted by bohiruci:That's right, and fundamentally as Buddha taught -- the fundamental problem of Suffering.
Dear AEN ,
Spirituality is to let us see the solution to our everyday problem
You may wonder why I look fine and not ugly need to seek spiritualityYeah, I think everyone will eventually reach certain stage having gone through much sufferings where he questions his old patterns of samsaric existence and wonders if that's really the way to be.
Since young , several life misfortune struck me and made me ponder the purpose of life
With Buddhism , its a strength for me to carry on in this frustrating world ,where sometimes alot of ones happiness cannot be fulfilledThat's right.. Buddhism gives the practitioners strength to carry on in the world.. it has to do with how 'willing' the practitioner is to face reality as it is moment to moment, neither running away from what is at this very moment, or to become attached in seeking something else in the future, thus taking the moment as a means to an end.
when I see materialism is basically incessant wanting and no peace of mind
spirituality is to regain our inner strength to find solutions to problems in life![]()
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with Sincerity,
Bohiruci
Originally posted by An Eternal Now:To elaborate on this point, I want to share something Thusness shared with me some days ago:
an instructed disciple clearly discerns with awareness that all eight worldly winds are transient - changing moment to moment, and is Dukkha (suffering). He discerns with awareness whatever arises as it is
Hi,Originally posted by sinweiy:i posted a topic on esangha:
http://www.lioncity.net/buddhism/index.php?showtopic=38838&st=0
i'm thinking of the mind of leaving/renunciation "chu li xin"(mind of leaving "samsara") vs bodhi-mind.
http://vip.6to23.com/HCRKP/jtym/jtym067.htm
it states that generating the mind of leaving/renunciation is good for beginners(hinayanist) and should be treated as a foundation.
generally, the primary reason for generating the mind of renunciation is hoping to "escape" the suffering of samsara.
however we need to have the right idea of renunciation. some people only wish to go to enjoy in heavenly realms in their next life. or to get away from the 3 evil realms. such mind of 'leaving' is not enough.
after knowing that we cannot find true happiness in the 6 samsaric realms, we generated the mind of renunciation.
from mahayana's point of view, we go further into generating the bodhi mind which is the essence of Buddhahood.
there are 2 kind of bodhi-mind. relative bodhi is to attain Buddhahood in order to help sentient beings and the absolute bodhi that involve the true understanding of sunyata/emptiness.
in order to have a right view in our practice, both relative bodhi and absolute bodhi should be Equally important.
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I dun think losing interest is exactly the same as the generating the mind of renunciation. You could still enjoy activities like shopping, but just that you don't hold any attachment/craving to it. That's renunciation (please correct me if I'm wrong).Originally posted by Isis:Hi,
I am not so sure whether have i been generating the mind of renunciation.
But i have lose alot of interests in things that i used to enjoy that is bgr, shopping and many other things. Am i doing it right?
cos i know all this are impermance and for this i will feel sad. Thus i don't see the need to maintain long term good relationships and let things come as it is.
Originally posted by Isis:my experience is in the beginning it's like this. later on, it would have to be manifested into bodhi-mind.
Hi,
I am not so sure whether have i been generating the mind of renunciation.
But i have lose alot of interests in things that i used to enjoy that is bgr, shopping and many other things. Am i doing it right?
cos i know all this are impermance and for this i will feel sad. Thus i don't see the need to maintain long term good relationships and let things come as it is.
true ,Dharma is about letting go of the attachment to the worldly view and work towards an clear concept in this chaotic worldOriginally posted by sinweiy:my experience is in the beginning it's like this. later on, it would have to be manifested into bodhi-mind.
give u a famous simile: a person asked Monk Budai, what's Dharma all about?
Monk Budai put His bag down onto the floor. i see said the person. then what? Monk Budai took the bag up and walk away.
It signify your understanding that everything is not permenent and that it's forever changing, hence you see things as they are and let go...laymen term , loss interest within. but what does it mean by taking up the bag?
It mean Fa men wu liang, si yuan xue, learn endless "dharma". (one of the bodhisattvas universe vow). "dharma" here can in deeper sense mean anything or whatever. eg: fengshui.
The root of the vow is to help endless sentient beings. "loss interest within" is a form of ending our vexation and afflictions.
if you do shopping etc, you do not do it for "self", you do it for "others". your mentality should be thinking of helping others understand the meaning of dharma.
in another way, you do according with "yuan" and flow with the "yuan" (conditions). time to eat u eat, time to sleep, u sleep..per se.
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I think your mind is 'maturing' out of it... no longer so obsessed with them. But still doesn't mean you can't enjoy them... there has to be balance.Originally posted by Isis:Hi,
I am not so sure whether have i been generating the mind of renunciation.
But i have lose alot of interests in things that i used to enjoy that is bgr, shopping and many other things. Am i doing it right?
cos i know all this are impermance and for this i will feel sad. Thus i don't see the need to maintain long term good relationships and let things come as it is.
Letting go worldly views, yes... but not exactly towards a clearer 'concept'... cos truth isn't a concept.Originally posted by bohiruci:true ,Dharma is about letting go of the attachment to the worldly view and work towards an clear concept in this chaotic world
Why do you say so?Originally posted by Omniknight:you know what i realise, buddhism is like "settle your problems first before you come to me", thats how buddhism will start teaching u how to be enlightened
Well back to the topic.. sometime, i'm not even sure what i am feeling sometime.. Even if it is a piece of sh!tty feeling. Feeling will disappear as soon as it comes. The context of the feelings will changed frequently, from bad to so bad blah blah blah.Originally posted by An Eternal Now:Hello... just now I had a thought of wanting to find some peace... and so I was just about to pick up some spiritual, dharma books to read in hope that I can get 'peace'. Then suddenly I become conscious of this unconscious momentum of 'seeking peace' and thought to myself... wait a minute... why am I running from what I am experiencing right now? If what I am experiencing right now is shit that's what is appearing right now... that is the reality at that moment... it is shit and it can't be otherwise. That shit is just as holy as anything else... Instead of running away from it which just increases the momentum of the negativity, the aversion and suffering, and as a result being a tremendous waste of energy, why not FEEL and BE whatever our experience is at that moment -- that is reality. As it is often said... just as light itself lights up everything... everything that consciousness touches gets transmuted into consciousness.
Spirituality is not escaping from yourself to some free lalaland, but it is about facing yourself and whatever is arising at that moment... it is not an escape. That's why not everyone is into real spirituality. They're after some mundane benefits, or some inner peace, or whatever, but they are not interested in reality. It's not exactly for the faint hearted either... there has to be fearlessness to face reality as it is... to become enlightened to the timeless reality.
Interestingly I just quoted this from Longchen days ago:
Dear friends, what are your thoughts and experiences on this subject? Do you treat spirituality as an escape?