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  • dragon_stone
    Originally posted by An Eternal Now:

    I posted this before regarding the notion of a Creator:

    First of all Buddhism does not accept the Judeo-Christian or other theistic religions' idea that there is a personal Creator, means the Old Testament kind of God that has a personality of its own.. and you can actually meet him up for coffee Mr. Green. If there is a personal Creator it brings a lot of questions into mind. Therefore, Albert Einstein said,

    "Buddhism has the characteristics of what would be expected in a cosmic religion for the future: it transcends a personal God, avoids dogmas and theology; it covers both the natural & spiritual, and it is based on a religious sense aspiring from the experience of all things, natural and spiritual, as a meaningful unity"

    and..

    “If there is any religion that would cope with modern scientific needs it would be Buddhism.”

    Regarding the question of Personal God in Buddhism,

    Therefore in Buddhism, the question of God is irrelevant and not given importance. Instead, like a scientist, the Buddha encouraged the Buddhist practitioners to find out for themselves the truths that the Buddha said, to put it to test, and to see for ourselves, and to get enlightened. Buddhism does not encourage any blind belief and dogmas (see Kalama Sutra), and also encourages analytical questioning -- whether this teaching actually helps us.

    There are countless enlightened persons from Buddha's times till today, some of them even posting in this forum (not me), who have awakened to the ultimate reality and seen for themselves the truths that the Buddha taught. Beliefs in divine etc are not important and irrelevant in Buddhism, Buddhism being a man-centered (means having great love and compassion for all sentient being, as well as to practise for one's own spiritual development) rather than God-centered teaching, which is a reason why it is the only religion that does not have a history of having fought religious wars, --

     

    "In reality, the universe works by the law of Karma and he has no control over the system of karma."

    Hey, I like this phrase and thanks for the reply. I will read up more of these pages...

    you know, it is hard not to believe in a creator (for some religions) but sciencists should not play god in a sense?  

    It is not good to go against nature, like cloning of Dolly the goat. She grown old too fast and died...

    Diverting of sounthern rivers water to the north in China, cause untold naural diasters...etc...

  • JitKiat

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  • dragon_stone

    practise what you preach?

  • Phaze
    Originally posted by dragon_stone:

    if science can explained everything, then who would believed in the creator? looks like science is beginning to explain a lot of things...example; clonings, artificial insemination, genetic modified foods and plants etc...so scary sometimes...

    There are still people who believe the world is flat despite the scientific evidence.

    There are people who deny evolution.

    There are people to believe that if you use a vibrating belt, it can jiggle away your fats.

    People will believe anything.

  • dragon_stone
    Originally posted by An Eternal Now:

    Genetically modified foods and plants are also fine, though what side effects we do not know. But so far there has not been any cases as far as I know of negative effects from GM food.

    It seems only the Theistic, Judeo-Christian religions that believe in a personal Creator have problems with that. Buddhism as a non-theistic teaching has no problems, and would welcome such developments as long as they bring more benefits than harm.

    GM Food; see link http://www.channelnewsasia.com/stories/health/view/331620/1/.html

    and its getting more scary by the day...

  • Beyond Religion
    Originally posted by dragon_stone:

    GM Food; see link http://www.channelnewsasia.com/stories/health/view/331620/1/.html

    and its getting more scary by the day...


    What about this is scary? Pigs turning flourescent or using pigs to breed organ?

  • dragon_stone
    Originally posted by Beyond Religion:


    What about this is scary? Pigs turning flourescent or using pigs to breed organ?

    we are tampering with nature and making pigs flourescent so much so that they could not sleep biggrin.png (just joking)

    But seriously, this is in experimental stage, wonder what would effect to the pigs with the modified genes. Pigs are breed as in the food chain.

    Can they still be considered as food? 

    Will they have any effect on human (after consumption)?

    Can the modified pigs[say; before slaughter] live as normal (eating, walking etc...)?

  • Beyond Religion
    Originally posted by dragon_stone:

    we are tampering with nature and making pigs flourescent so much so that they could not sleep biggrin.png (just joking)

    But seriously, this is in experimental stage, wonder what would effect to the pigs with the modified genes. Pigs are breed as in the food chain.

    Can they still be considered as food? 

    Will they have any effect on human (after consumption)?

    Can the modified pigs[say; before slaughter] live as normal (eating, walking etc...)?

    If the relevant scientific research progress well, no pigs (or other animals for that matter) will ever have to die in order for humans to eat meat.....

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/In_vitro_meat

    As a Buddhist, I have no problems tampering nature as long as that is beneficial to all beings. 

  • dragon_stone
    Originally posted by Beyond Religion:

    If the relevant scientific research progress well, no pigs (or other animals for that matter) will ever have to die in order for humans to eat meat.....

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/In_vitro_meat

    As a Buddhist, I have no problems tampering nature as long as that is beneficial to all beings. 

    here is an interesting link http://www.i-sis.org.uk/index.php about GM food which we all should be aware of.

    Sg food authorities are not going to labelled GM food when it is on sale at supermarkets or over the counters. We have not understand the effects, if any, of these foods at the present moments. There could be risks...

  • Beyond Religion
    Originally posted by dragon_stone:

    here is an interesting link http://www.i-sis.org.uk/index.php about GM food which we all should be aware of.

    Sg food authorities are not going to labelled GM food when it is on sale at supermarkets or over the counters. We have not understand the effects, if any, of these foods at the present moments. There could be risks...


    As with any new invention, there most certainly will be risks. When the aircraft was first invented, it is a filmsy deathtrap made of canvas and wood, but thanks to the relentlessness of the inventors, you and I can zip around the globe today with contemptuous ease.

    Again, if scienists back then took the attitude that it is against nature (or God's will) to fly, we will not be living in the world we know today. As a matter of fact, if all of mankind took this belief, we still would be living in medieval times (where non believers like me will be strung up and burnt at the stake icon_mrgreen.gif and with the God-loving crowd jeering on)

    The important thing is that the mere possibility of risks should not preclude us from undertaking a scientific research for the betterment of all beings, and to perfect the technique and also striving to eliminate any risks inherent in any new invention.

  • Herzog_Zwei
    Originally posted by Beyond Religion:


    As with any new invention, there most certainly will be risks. When the aircraft was first invented, it is a filmsy deathtrap made of canvas and wood, but thanks to the relentlessness of the inventors, you and I can zip around the globe today with contemptuous ease.

    Again, if scienists back then took the attitude that it is against nature (or God's will) to fly, we will not be living in the world we know today. As a matter of fact, if all of mankind took this belief, we still would be living in medieval times (where non believers like me will be strung up and burnt at the stake icon_mrgreen.gif and with the God-loving crowd jeering on)

    The important thing is that the mere possibility of risks should not preclude us from undertaking a scientific research for the betterment of all beings, and to perfect the technique and also striving to eliminate any risks inherent in any new invention.


    Yeah, since when did the christian message of believe or die get to Asia untill the end of Qing dynasty?

  • Catholicuser

    Hi to all,

    First of all, I'm a catholic..

    I can understand some of you going thru with all the awkardness discussing christianity or being"preached" by yr relatives or friends who in their newly found religion.or being christians for a very long time. . This is so when are very enthusiatic or zealously want to share with you. While it is ok to share with.anyone as we are called to "witness" our faith to others, we have to be sensitive to others..

    By being sensitive.. means witnessing at the right time and the right place.. It also means do it with gentleness, love and care.. in short a "holistic approach"

    Thru our actions i.e being caring, and displaying a "christian" attitude towards our neighbours, i.e our friends, relative, colleagues, etc.. they may come to know that our religion is a religion of love and compassion for the others.. No forcing.. or whatever, just some enouragement, or an "occasional" push. If one is not receptive to it.. we have to leave it there.. cause we know that time to convert him or her is not there as yet.. We will pray till he is ready.. to be converted. No point pushing or rushing as it may hurt the other person feelings..

    For eg.. a non catholic study in a catholic school.. may not convert till he starts working or later stage in life.. He may remember all the prayers taught in school and who knows start praying  to know Christ..

    There are some who convert to catholicism cause their prayers has been answered.. eg non christians who go to novena church to ask Mother Mary to pray for thier petitions and got answered and became curious abt the faith and got converted subsequently..

    As for me,, i would rather show by my examples to others and an "occasional" talk on christ.. if they are interested we will proceed form there..

    Catholics are known for its tolerance towards other people's faith. and many people r aware of it.. as a result many people have respect for us .. a true fact..

    Thanks for bring out all your grievances and we are better aware of it..

    God bless all of you!

     

    "Once a catholic, always a catholic"

     

     

     

     

  • sanath

    "Once a catholic, always a catholic"

    Not really true since there are quite a number of catholics converting outside to other religions (Buddhism included) as well.

    By the way, all christians are also catholics, since in the Apostle creed (which is also used in most of the other traditional groups like the anglicans, lutherans, methodists etc) it states "I believe in the Holy Catholic church, the communion of saints etc", BUT it's whether they are ROMAN catholics or not.

  • sanath

    I apologise if i seem quite harsh towards catholics. I have nothing against catholics per se, as my own mother is one, and having being brought up a semi-catholic anglican. But i am quite offended when some catholics, especially the younger ones, think that they are tolerant compared to other christians, when that was not really the case until Vatican 2 when the catholic church became more tolerant of other christians and other faiths.

    However, even up to now, non-catholic christians cannot take holy communion with roman catholics, and the roman catholic still has some issues in history it needs to address, such as forced conversions of native americans, persection of jews, the inquisitions and the crusades.

  • Isis
    Originally posted by Catholicuser:

    Hi to all,

    First of all, I'm a catholic..

    I can understand some of you going thru with all the awkardness discussing christianity or being"preached" by yr relatives or friends who in their newly found religion.or being christians for a very long time. . This is so when are very enthusiatic or zealously want to share with you. While it is ok to share with.anyone as we are called to "witness" our faith to others, we have to be sensitive to others..

    By being sensitive.. means witnessing at the right time and the right place.. It also means do it with gentleness, love and care.. in short a "holistic approach"

    Thru our actions i.e being caring, and displaying a "christian" attitude towards our neighbours, i.e our friends, relative, colleagues, etc.. they may come to know that our religion is a religion of love and compassion for the others.. No forcing.. or whatever, just some enouragement, or an "occasional" push. If one is not receptive to it.. we have to leave it there.. cause we know that time to convert him or her is not there as yet.. We will pray till he is ready.. to be converted. No point pushing or rushing as it may hurt the other person feelings..

    For eg.. a non catholic study in a catholic school.. may not convert till he starts working or later stage in life.. He may remember all the prayers taught in school and who knows start praying  to know Christ..

    There are some who convert to catholicism cause their prayers has been answered.. eg non christians who go to novena church to ask Mother Mary to pray for thier petitions and got answered and became curious abt the faith and got converted subsequently..

    As for me,, i would rather show by my examples to others and an "occasional" talk on christ.. if they are interested we will proceed form there..

    Catholics are known for its tolerance towards other people's faith. and many people r aware of it.. as a result many people have respect for us .. a true fact..

    Thanks for bring out all your grievances and we are better aware of it..

    God bless all of you!

     

    "Once a catholic, always a catholic"

     

     

     

     

    Hey just wonder why Catholic is given this sweet white piece of thing to be put onto mouth by the priest?

  • Beyond Religion
    Originally posted by sanath:

    I apologise if i seem quite harsh towards catholics. I have nothing against catholics per se, as my own mother is one, and having being brought up a semi-catholic anglican. But i am quite offended when some catholics, especially the younger ones, think that they are tolerant compared to other christians, when that was not really the case until Vatican 2 when the catholic church became more tolerant of other christians and other faiths.

    However, even up to now, non-catholic christians cannot take holy communion with roman catholics, and the roman catholic still has some issues in history it needs to address, such as forced conversions of native americans, persection of jews, the inquisitions and the crusades.

    I think at the end of the day, no monotheistic religions can ever claim that they are tolerant of other faiths. All such religions have their share of participation in religious wars, persecution and forced conversion.

    Having said that, and on a matter of degree, monotheistic religions are much more tolerant than they were in the past. However, that is only because of the secularisation of governments in countries in which these religions are practised widely. The ironic part is that we (the nonbelievers) are spared the intolerance of the prevailing religions (preaching love and peace) by secular intervention.

  • Catholicuser

    hi isis,

     

    the little white piece is holy communion.. not a sweet..

     

    It is the body of christ.. it is only meant for baptized catholic. and he or she must not be in the state of serious sin.. If he is, he must go to confess his sins to a priest, who has been given the authority to forgive the sins.. then he can go to receive holy communion..

     

    hope that helps

     

    God Bless!!

     

    forever catholic

     

     

  • Catholicuser

    hi sanath,

    no pro.. so are u a catholic?? .. since your mum is a catholic.. ..IMy apology if any catholic offended anyone here..

    catholic are more tolerant towards people of other religion.. However, that doe not mean we just let it be.. We are also call to "witness" our faith to non believers.. But catholics tend to show it thru actions.. i.e caring.. loving etc..

    As for holy communion.. Since the other church is not in communion with rome, they cannot receive holy communion..

     

    hope that helps

     

  • sanath

    No, i am not, i converted to Buddhism when i was a teenager because i could not accept the teachings of either the catholic or the anglican churches, and the schism that caused my confusion in the first place.

  • JitKiat

    I respect any person who practises what he preaches, it does not matter whether he is a Buddhist or Christian or Muslim. 

    言行一致

    �实质��形�

  • rokkie

    it does not matter for a buddhism to go to church,u can go to church ,reversebly,u can invite ur uncle to temple.As heart sutra teach ,void is not form ,form is not void.It does not matter that u wear suit or buddhist cassock.it's what u really believe matters.really buddhist should have "�争" heart.As long as u r a good-hearted man ,u will be treated well by buddha.

     

    share for the rest "generate ur heart without dwelling anywhere"

  • Herzog_Zwei
    Originally posted by dragon_stone:

    "In reality, the universe works by the law of Karma and he has no control over the system of karma."

    Hey, I like this phrase and thanks for the reply. I will read up more of these pages...

    you know, it is hard not to believe in a creator (for some religions) but sciencists should not play god in a sense?  

    It is not good to go against nature, like cloning of Dolly the goat. She grown old too fast and died...

    Diverting of sounthern rivers water to the north in China, cause untold naural diasters...etc...


    If man never played God, then you should not survived your last bout of whatever bacteria infection. Go figure what should be done.