I must be really old
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Yeah, I guess it depends on whether you xian de shen or not. The deeper you are in a relationship, the longer it will take for you to heal.Originally posted by subarugal:Can i add some words... heh..
picking up the pieces and glue up is easy but the flaw is in the heart.
Takes time to heal, some take shorter time frame then others..
Keeping a lookout not really. A i am a believer of let nature takes its own course.
As for retirement home..
/ sorry sir the home is full.. come again next year..
Sadly, a lot of times, couples are often mismatched - there'll inevitably be one who'll love the other more than the other loves him/her. This imbalance seems to be pretty common. I know I sound cynical, but this conclusion is based on observation.
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correct.. xian de tai shen.. very difficult to heal up fast.Originally posted by Rhonda:Yeah, I guess it depends on whether you xian de shen or not. The deeper you are in a relationship, the longer it will take for you to heal.
Sadly, a lot of times, couples are often mismatched - there'll inevitably be one who'll love the other more than the other loves him/her. This imbalance seems to be pretty common. I know I sound cynical, but this conclusion is based on observation.
At times some couples nt mismatch just meeting at the wrong place n time.
well i notice the unbalance in emotional giving in a relationship too. But so long both love each other i don't mind being the one giving in more feelings..
so long he is worth my committment.
Love so near yet so far
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+1Originally posted by Rhonda:See, now you're talking crap again!
Aiyah... you know you're welcome here mah! If it makes you feel better, we can unanimously vote for you to be Club 30's Official Crappy Thread-Starter! -
Rhonda and Subarugal, you gals are still very young, I've no doubt cupid will find you again, maybe even for many more times than you think. Sometimes it takes a couple of unsuccessful r/s with the frogs/toads (or scum of the earthOriginally posted by Rhonda:Lately, I look around at the married / attached folks in my life, and pray to God that He hasn't forgotten about me!
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I also miss knowing that someone out there cares deeply for me and that we can share a meal together after a long day at work, and take a walk together or cuddle together afterwards, and tell each other about our day. I miss having someone being involved in my life, having someone listen to me with interest as I talk, not having dismissive words like, 'You think too much' / 'You are too sensitive', etc thrown my way when I ventilate.
There's no one to talk to these days. 
I have so much to say, but it's all constipated inside! 
) for us to recognise the 'prince' in our midst. Some of my gf and I finally met our significant other in our late-20s or 30s - so don't fret yet. In the meantime, enjoy meeting people, going out with friends and have fun before you get tied down. -
Wanda, I'm not THAT young! I lie about my real age all the time!
In group outings, I'm easily to recognise - look for the one with the Pinocchio nose!
Well, I do have fun in my life. It's just that on and off, I'll feel a li'l pensive. It's part of the ebb and flow of life, I guess.
And Bear is right - working rotating shifts does make one prone to mood swings cause your natural circadian rhythm is all messed up. Actually, come to think of it, what rhythm?
Yesterday, I had lunch with two new colleagues at a canteen in my workplace and there were folks at one end of our long table discussing discharge plans for their matriarch. It ended up with raised voices, accusations, strong words, etc. One of my colleagues then turned to us and said, 'Be thankful you aren't married - you'll inherit your spouse's family problems as well once you do!'
I guess the onus is on ourselves to create a little piece of heaven wherever we are. Easier said than done though, because the grass will always be greener on the other side!
Ah well, I guess I'll just have to remind myself that I'm no cow, so greener pastures or not, it ain't gonna affect me, baby! -
well it helps to rem tat the grass is greener cos it had more manure....Originally posted by Rhonda:Ah well, I guess I'll just have to remind myself that I'm no cow, so greener pastures or not, it ain't gonna affect me, baby!
human are like dat one lah.... no partner, scare lonely... got partner, want freedom.... "human heart not satisfied, snake swallow elephant" [cantonese saying] -
Love is overrated. You can't miss what you never had. Grow some balls. Get over'em.Originally posted by Wanda:Reading the Agony Aunt forum, is it just me or does anyone feel that most of the post are quite self-indulgent? I mean, these guys (seems to be usually the guys) are only in their 20s, and they get rejected by a gal whom they hardly know and it makes them wanna die and never want to be in love anymore. I can understand if they feel very hurt after a break-up, provided they were indeed in a real deep relationship. But looking at some of the common cases, I just feel they are so childish. I mean, there are much bigger problems in the world. Maybe I am really old, and so out of touch with the 20s.