Originally posted by paperflower:talking about bad marriages..... my best friend is really in a more terrible state than me... sigh...... i wish i could help but this type of thing is really her choice eventually.
its really sickening to know that she actually had to cry to beg her hubby to ml with her! so sad! and the worst had happened lately.... her hubby came back in the morning and told her all his stories the night before that he went to karaoke, had fun sqeezing them and later checked into hotel 81 and even showed her "see the lovebite on my neck the hostess gave me last night"daymmmm!
she was weeping away when she told me that and i was likeshocked
angry and she just said, "never mind what to do... i chose him to be my hubby. as long as he doesn't come back with anything else is ok. moreover, who would still want me besides my younger hubby..." when she said those, i was like
oh my GOD! i ended up crying with her
not for me...*sadded*Originally posted by littlestream:waiting patiently for cammy to make her *peeps* appearance.![]()
*peeps in too ......Originally posted by stellazio:*peeps in*..Anybody home?![]()
The way you worded that question, it's as if the lady did something to trigger the man to act that way. I totally disagree, because the lady can be totally blameless, but the man still chooses to act that way.Originally posted by subarugal:![]()
Another jerk in the block.. but what actually spark off the crude treatment ?![]()
er, i dont think she meant the lady is at fault...Originally posted by Rhonda:The way you worded that question, it's as if the lady did something to trigger the man to act that way. I totally disagree, because the lady can be totally blameless, but the man still chooses to act that way.
His actions aren't necessarily a reaction to something she did.
And even if she did something, nothing can justify his behaviour like that.
That's why one must really choose carefully before marriage.To marry a cad like that guy is really heartbreaking!
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Lust in your eye?Originally posted by the Bear:i dunno about other men..
but i would that i will be able to look at my girl with love in my heart and lust in my eye
So, what was meant?Originally posted by laurence82:er, i dont think she meant the lady is at fault...![]()
*omigod !!! ... cougars ! .....Originally posted by littlestream:Over here, they are call "cougars" Older women with younger men. There's even a book on it. I have one such friend.
She is Canadian, real hot. Tall, sexy, very adventurous. Has a flying licence, fly here, fly there. Involve in search and rescue. Runs her own business. Bartender, part time. Hangs out with firefighters. Really cool. I've known her for about five years already. In fact, she taught me to play pool. Wow, when she walks into the pool pub, all heads turned.
*me run away*Originally posted by Fatum:*omigod !!! ... cougars ! .....
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they are the main predators of innocent young boys here .....
I suspected that.Originally posted by Rhonda:Sorry, folks... I fell asleep just now.Went to watch the ending of "Kiss the Girls" and then, promptly fell asleep thereafter!
Woke up intermittently but was too tired to budge!
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Hey Fatum:Originally posted by Fatum:*omigod !!! ... cougars ! .....
cringes ...... COUGARS !!!!! ........![]()
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they are the main predators of innocent young boys here .....
No need to be sad. You will find your match.Originally posted by laurence82:not for me...*sadded*![]()
sigh.....Originally posted by littlestream:No need to be sad. You will find your match.See? stellazio finally got one.
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I fall asleep so easily, it would be handy to have a guy to 'shou hou' me and take care of me tenderly!Originally posted by littlestream:I suspected that.Then I went to work on two files. Came back and I was like "wah, Rhonda still awake ah?"
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Originally posted by Rhonda:I fall asleep so easily, it would be handy to have a guy to 'shou hou' me and take care of me tenderly!![]()
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Sounds like someone here makes the grade leh.Originally posted by Rhonda:OK, I tell you what's better than a man!
It's a man, with a mischievous twinkle in his eyes, and an iPamper in one hand, walking towards you!![]()
Love me tender, love me sweet, all my dreams fulfilled?Originally posted by Rhonda:I fall asleep so easily, it would be handy to have a guy to 'shou hou' me and take care of me tenderly!![]()
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