Night Owl Chatterboxes - Part XVI
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i await the day where a dude waxing lyrical over the curves of some woman, drolling over her and all that, is not flamed and condemned as being some perverse lechery
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Feeling a bit ornery tonight, Bear?Originally posted by the Bear:a lot of people say that.. saying "it was in jest"
my point being: jest or not, don't do it...
if you do, you have to accept the guys being "terrible", you gotta accept their "mysogynistic" ways, you gotta accept all that.. because you accepted the opposite...
if you cannot accept that from the men, do not even think about jesting about these things..
so.. is the "gag" worth the price?
sadly, there is a double standard... if you are willing to accept what is to your advantage without accepting what is to your disadvantage, what credibility is there left?
so, that "jest" is that serious... unfortunately..
don't let people accuse you and use the double standards you "jest" about against you...
because as a dude, i've seen both sides and have taken hits from both sides without as much as lifting my finger against anyone.. because ultimately, a 6' man who looks like a bear, vs any woman, i'm wrong... even when i'm right, i'm wrong in everyone's eyes...
and you know it will happen.. because "she's a girl and i'm just a dude"
alas...
Live. Let live. Take everything with a grain (or two) of salt. And grow some thicker skin.
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Yes!!Originally posted by Meia Gisborn:Rhonda must be 'loosening up' in the excitement and anticipation of her impending departure. I see absolutely nothing wrong with that.
On top of that, I'm trying to destress myself by being a bit larger than life and having a bit of harmless fun talking nonsense because stuff has happened at work and wheels have been set in motion.
Bear you're really too harsh and judgemental. Give me a break! Do you think I'll change overnight just like that?
Use your good sense and judgement, and also, recall what you already know of me to see if it's really possible for me to go all awry like that? Or, have you even been listening to my opinions when I talk? 
OK, you don't have to answer the last question... kinda obvious already! -
Originally posted by laurence82:Thank you dear
Yesh, i can hear the thunder rumbling again
Anytime, i think its going to snow soon. -
Yes! Yes!! Yes!!!Originally posted by laurence82:A bottle of Choya will be nice
A bottle (BIG one!) of CHOYA for CNY... and a bottle for Valentine's Day... then one each for National Day, Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year's Eve and New Year's! -
Oh great!!! The new Singapore Idol has Jacinta onto the judging panel! She's soooo qualified to be one of the judges!
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i plead with innocence..Originally posted by Rhonda:Biangz... that picture sure speaks a thousand words! It tells us that you're obscene and vulgar! 
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which judge was kicked out?the curly hair dude or the female?Originally posted by Rhonda:Oh great!!! The new Singapore Idol has Jacinta onto the judging panel! She's soooo qualified to be one of the judges! -
Douglas Oliverio is no longer on the judging panel because 'his schedule is too tight'.Originally posted by stellazio:which judge was kicked out?the curly hair dude or the female?
So, it's gonna be Dick Lee, Florence Lian, Kenneth and Jacinta.
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fret not,the day is coming.society thinks that 95% of the male population are pervertic and the remaining 5% are gays..Originally posted by the Bear:i await the day where a dude waxing lyrical over the curves of some woman, drolling over her and all that, is not flamed and condemned as being some perverse lechery
so they'll just accept it as a common day practice.. -
Stellazio: What did the poor penguin do to deserve that?
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i think thats a excuse..alot of people were petitioning for his head to be rolled off the casting slip..Originally posted by Rhonda:Douglas Oliverio is no longer on the judging panel because 'his schedule is too tight'.
So, it's gonna be Dick Lee, Florence Lian, Kenneth and Jacinta. -
hmm, cleaning my cage
and my hammie lay snugly in the small cage on my table trying to catch some winks -
Good, cause he made a complete ass of himself in the last season with his contradictory comments on Sly before and after the finals, which btw was also a complete joke.Originally posted by Rhonda:Douglas Oliverio is no longer on the judging panel because 'his schedule is too tight'.
So, it's gonna be Dick Lee, Florence Lian, Kenneth and Jacinta. -
they always say:to understand females,you need to think like a female..Originally posted by Kuali Baba:Stellazio: What did the poor penguin do to deserve that? -
what joke did he make on sly?Originally posted by av98m:Good, cause he made a complete ass of himself in the last season with his contradictory comments on Sly before and after the finals, which btw was also a complete joke.
"saying he's better den bon jovi"? -
During the final he complimented sly. After the final he said sly sucked.Originally posted by stellazio:what joke did he make on sly?
"saying he's better den bon jovi"? -
My Chinchilla loves the cold weather.Originally posted by laurence82:hmm, cleaning my cage
and my hammie lay snugly in the small cage on my table trying to catch some winks -
during work you're a diff person,after work you're also a diff person..Originally posted by av98m:During the final he complimented sly. After the final he said sly sucked. -
One thing abt chincilla is that they are quite big, so i didnt attempt to have them as petsOriginally posted by av98m:My Chinchilla loves the cold weather. -
You've got a Chinchilla?! Whoa!!!Originally posted by av98m:My Chinchilla loves the cold weather.
fennymouse has a couple who gave birth to two babies. Gee, haven't seen her nor talked to her for ages liao! I think we've both been busy.
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Actually, they're not THAT huge. Hmm... like a rabbit? That's not large at all, considering some folks actually keep big dogs like Huskies in their flats!Originally posted by laurence82:One thing abt chincilla is that they are quite big, so i didnt attempt to have them as pets -
Your hammie is smart, mah! It knows that this kinda weather is best for sleeping!Originally posted by laurence82:hmm, cleaning my cage
and my hammie lay snugly in the small cage on my table trying to catch some winks -
CSI Miami Update: Horation Caine's brother, Raymond Caine, is alive and not dead as previously believed! Horatio must be so disappointed! He had the hots for his brother's wife, played by Sofia Milos, hot latino woman with a very nice upstairs and an equally nice downstairs!
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Smaller than rabbits. Mine is quite fat though. Good diet.Originally posted by Rhonda:Actually, they're not THAT huge. Hmm... like a rabbit? That's not large at all, considering some folks actually keep big dogs like Huskies in their flats!