Club 30's "Kill the Boredom Demon" Jive Pad, 20th Edition
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Work is like zzzzOriginally posted by jetta:How's the work day looking so far? I'm starving. Waiting for hubby to get home with dinner. Phoned in my order to the Chinese restuarant by the old place since Hubby's in that area. Starving man! Going to eat in front of the tv. Lots of good shows tonight.
going with my colleague to look at Jade tomorrow -
After so much discussion, chit chats & talking with my sister.
Here's what I was planning for last year and which I held back.
Sell my flat, go over to another country or something, attend a skill training course and apply for PR there.
Now....it seems. I would be doing that as planned.
It doesnt serve to be caring, making provisions and providing any safety net for my mother anymore. My siblings are all well and able to handle themself. They dont need me.
Mother isnt making her son do her bidding while I am here to provide. And sis strongly recommend me to go ahead as planned when things fell apart last year. I procastinated kinda long enough.
Tomorrow, I fly back Singapore, make my police report against my mother or at least regards to the mailbox break in.
Get a buyer for the flat, fly out to Phuket for as long as possible, fly back to finalise the transaction and then fly out this time to somewhere else. There is no point staying in Singapore. There is no one who needs me physically in Singapore.
Life has to go on. -
woah ..........................Originally posted by viciouskitty74:After so much discussion, chit chats & talking with my sister.
Here's what I was planning for last year and which I held back.
Sell my flat, go over to another country or something, attend a skill training course and apply for PR there.
Now....it seems. I would be doing that as planned.
It doesnt serve to be caring, making provisions and providing any safety net for my mother anymore. My siblings are all well and able to handle themself. They dont need me.
Mother isnt making her son do her bidding while I am here to provide. And sis strongly recommend me to go ahead as planned when things fell apart last year. I procastinated kinda long enough.
Tomorrow, I fly back Singapore, make my police report against my mother or at least regards to the mailbox break in.
Get a buyer for the flat, fly out to Phuket for as long as possible, fly back to finalise the transaction and then fly out this time to somewhere else. There is no point staying in Singapore. There is no one who needs me physically in Singapore.
Life has to go on.
what mailbox break in ? ....
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WoahOriginally posted by viciouskitty74:After so much discussion, chit chats & talking with my sister.
Here's what I was planning for last year and which I held back.
Sell my flat, go over to another country or something, attend a skill training course and apply for PR there.
Now....it seems. I would be doing that as planned.
It doesnt serve to be caring, making provisions and providing any safety net for my mother anymore. My siblings are all well and able to handle themself. They dont need me.
Mother isnt making her son do her bidding while I am here to provide. And sis strongly recommend me to go ahead as planned when things fell apart last year. I procastinated kinda long enough.
Tomorrow, I fly back Singapore, make my police report against my mother or at least regards to the mailbox break in.
Get a buyer for the flat, fly out to Phuket for as long as possible, fly back to finalise the transaction and then fly out this time to somewhere else. There is no point staying in Singapore. There is no one who needs me physically in Singapore.
Life has to go on.
Well I guess sometimes a fresh start is nice -
not always ... some ghosts have to be exorcised head on ......
running away will not make it go away ... -
sometimes, i wish i could fly away...
sometimes... -
No hubby, no bf, no car, no ability to buy a private apartment, no job, no children, no commitments, no more academic breakthru to achieve.
Whats there for me in Singapore?
The longer I stay, the longer my mother is gonna drag her heels and keeps on harrassing me so as to keep her prodigal son burden free.
I was a dumping ground. I was the one that will say: Okay, I will help. Okay I will take the crap and swallowed it lock stock and barrel.
So she can look like the oh so capable mother she really isnt?
So that I am the only one, with the ability or the necessity to pay off her debts. Or her sole excuse to borrow monies from others so as to give to her son and appears like she is sooooo capable and gracious?
What? I may most likely end up a single stay in the background sister that only family members will tolerate because I provide?
No. I choose to be in the background doing support. I chose. But I cant be there forever to catch anyone falling. Who was there to catch me? Who can catch me if i fall?
Mother is the only reason I procastinated. Its about time I set my mother free. -
Dam....i certainly need a Hello Kitty dildo out of its box.
NOW! -
fly, kitty, fly
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Fly and don't look back. Cut all ties. Your "familiy" can go to hell.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Dam....i certainly need a Hello Kitty dildo out of its box.
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How old is yr brother -
i've seen people who are older than me, still sponging off their parents or grandparents...
it's not a pretty sight...
worse, they give off a facade of "success" but wherever they go, they leave a mess behind..
if their "source" disappears, i wonder what will happen to them? go look for another to leech off? who knows? -
Me? I am no source.
I am the pathetic excuse for all those dramas my mother cook up.
What can I do? I am a mere lowly 'O'level clerk with my pittance salary and is a deserted unwanted wife with Tomboy activities and looks.
Only thing I had. a small little old 3rm HDB flat and that, I am now going to give up so that I can go be some 'slauts that gives monies to my bf.'
Dam....dildo....i need a dildo......... -
looking at how you are writing, you will be successful wherever you go
don't forget us when you are yah?
maybe one day, we go look for you when we travel...
actually... phuket is a great place to set up shop... it's nice
i still think.. maybe one day i retire to a place like Samui... build a pub.. and maybe, one day, even open it to the public -
Cant write lah.....
I cant stand drama! Not after going thru 32 years of it!
I want peace....think....flowing river.....pattering raindrops....dew on leaves.....and me with my hello kitty dildo..... -
I have relatives who are doing that.Originally posted by the Bear:i've seen people who are older than me, still sponging off their parents or grandparents...
it's not a pretty sight...
worse, they give off a facade of "success" but wherever they go, they leave a mess behind..
if their "source" disappears, i wonder what will happen to them? go look for another to leech off? who knows? -
that's what they say.. about writing.. your writing here is way above a lot of others' here!
and hey.. one day, you may not need the evil cat thingy.. it's the romantic in me talking
and i do know the pain of being left too... but still looking..
fly... fly!! -
I hereby confess.
I am nothing, I have nothing and no one is sponging off me.
I was actively sponging off others though....Like this trip in USA....its sponged off a lot of goodwill from families and friends. -
I hope you can get everything you wish for...............and hopefully better company than the dildoOriginally posted by viciouskitty74:Cant write lah.....
I cant stand drama! Not after going thru 32 years of it!
I want peace....think....flowing river.....pattering raindrops....dew on leaves.....and me with my hello kitty dildo..... -
hey.. wherever you go, we visit, we may sponge off you for a while too
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Awwwwww........u are soooo sweet.Originally posted by the Bear:that's what they say.. about writing.. your writing here is way above a lot of others' here!
and hey.. one day, you may not need the evil cat thingy.. it's the romantic in me talking
and i do know the pain of being left too... but still looking..
fly... fly!!
I felt like flying back to sg, go give you a couple of pats with my claws
Cat molest bear. Can make it up to front page of straits times? -
You have a Ultraman dildo to spare me?Originally posted by av98m:I hope you can get everything you wish for...............and hopefully better company than the dildo -
I think more like The New PaperOriginally posted by viciouskitty74:Cat molest bear. Can make it up to front page of straits times? -
Hmmm.....I am wanking that dildo issue a bit too hard.....
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Originally posted by viciouskitty74:You have a Ultraman dildo to spare me?
I don't own any dildos (fat lot of good they're going to do)
I might get a realdoll