updates:
sis is feeding me info thru messenger.
Brother was hoping to make use of father. Mother is still trying to make use of me. I need to find a hubby soon, or lose that flat.
I was replying: Well, stop worrying about me. I will act on issues as and when its needed. If I lose my place, so be it. I am prepared, either in one way or another.
Sis will be abandoning her Singapore citizenship. I see it as a good positive step for her. Am teasing her to leave me her SG savings. Quite a substantial amount.

Whatever happens. We all goes back to dust.....Lets it be.