Mom had pursue dad in their younger days. Their wedding was fully paid for by mom, from wedding ring, gowns & dinner.
Then us 3 kids comes along.
Then when dad was doing business in Malaysia, he encountered a singer from the lounges and fell in love. He then make her the manager of his company.
Mom heard of it and drag us 3 kids up to Malaysia to confront our dad. Dad declared that he cannot live w/o his love.
That is that...and he deserted the family then. That singer promptly dumped dad thereafter. Maybe when he lost support and went broke.
He then proceed to thailand to restart his business. Where he purchased a gal to function as his wife, his wife then struggled with him thru his difficult times as well as provided him a daughter.
From the family pics I see on this laptop and office pc. Can see that dad is really happy with his new daughter and this new family. Mothers of cos dotes on their only child and it wasnt surprising to see stepmother pampering my half sister.
What I was thinking of was, mom had pursued dad, and when he fell in love, he fell like a rock off a deep cliff.
So where does pursuing leads? To heartbreak? When one party arent totally into it?
And why do I still pursue bear? WIth that notion that bear is a nice catholic boy which I can never in my wildest dreams, have.
But its fun! 