Club 30's "Kill the Boredom Demon" Jive Pad, 25th Edition

• shinta

  9 Jan 07, 17:26

  *daydreams about cks again*
• the Bear

  9 Jan 07, 17:27

  there are less freaky ways to do this right?
  
  

  Originally posted by av98m:

  And how are you getting any closer to achieving your goals by rejecting all those attempts to help?
  
  OK, I'm no better

• av98m

  9 Jan 07, 17:28

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  there are less freaky ways to do this right?
  
  

  1 was insane.
  
  But 2 and 3...ok lah...quite normal.
  
  4...also ok lah
• Wanda

  9 Jan 07, 17:29

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  goodness knows some people seem to try their damnest to help me
  
  1 - aunt and her insane "write to these girls" which i said no to.. i'd meet them if i go visit her but i'm not about to write to them just coz she says so
  
  2 - colleague who is dragging me out to dinners and then she drags some girl she knows along.. was like that last night... i think i scared her away again
  

  I think 1 & 2 aren't bad leh.... 1 seems to have the old-world charm and romance, but if it's to the wrong gal, she may think you're nuts.
• the Bear

  9 Jan 07, 17:31

  it doesn't help that i'm slightly insane
  
  btw, my radio in the office requires regular beatings
  
  seriously.. after a couple of hours, i get some static and i give it a bash and it's clear again
• the_don

  9 Jan 07, 17:32

  Originally posted by av98m:

  Simple goals are unfortunately often the most difficult to achieve

  i beg to differ...
  
  there was a time when heartache seem too much for us to take
  but we lived
  there was a time when someone seem too far for us to date
  but we believe
  
  we open our eyes, and our heart, reaching out together for love and happiness!
  
  We r cute & strong, We r cute & strong, We never give up, we will find our love"
• Wanda

  9 Jan 07, 17:32

  That's a new one - radio-beating fetish.
• av98m

  9 Jan 07, 17:32

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  it doesn't help that i'm slightly insane
  
  

  so mrs bear could be in some straightjacket somewhere?
• av98m

  9 Jan 07, 17:34

  Originally posted by the_don:

  i beg to differ...
  
  there was a time when heartache seem too much for us to take
  but we lived
  there was a time when someone seem too far for us to date
  but we believe
  
  we open our eyes, and our heart, reaching out together for love and happiness!
  
  We r cute & strong, We r cute & strong, We never give up, we will find our love"

  
  
  AAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHH
  
  
• hisoka

  9 Jan 07, 17:35

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  goodness knows some people seem to try their damnest to help me
  
  1 - aunt and her insane "write to these girls" which i said no to.. i'd meet them if i go visit her but i'm not about to write to them just coz she says so
  
  2 - colleague who is dragging me out to dinners and then she drags some girl she knows along.. was like that last night... i think i scared her away again
  
  3 - boss.. who dragged me away from my work yesterday to go "view the photography of things" by vendors.. and outright told the vendor "show him" and there was a wedding shoot portfolio and then outright told the vendor again "know anyone to introduce to him or not?"... i ran away
  
  4 - you know who you are
  
  

  
  
  well you wanted to achieve those goals and pple are help you
• the Bear

  9 Jan 07, 17:37

  could be... who knows?
  
  i'll not go into a few barking mad people i've seen and known
• ShrodingersCat

  9 Jan 07, 17:40

  its hard ba.. i find it hardest to 'assist' lady friends without making them feel that we are 'pushing' them or being 'busy bodies', sometimes it is simply unintentional! Its like I know this person is really nice and great, and another who is nice and great too, so... just go out together lohhhhhhhh
  
  Thing is, sometimes they are so shy and quiet and most guys, just simply dont take the time to get to know them when they are actually really nice and can be funny too.
• av98m

  9 Jan 07, 17:40

  *Wonders what mrs av will be like, assuming he ever finds one*
• the_don

  9 Jan 07, 17:42

  seriously bear & av & whoever still looking, dun give up or get cynical. let nature take its course. you will never know who you will bum into when u step out of that door.
  
  open your hearts and minds. let them be your guide to that someone special. if the signal not strong or no signal, dun be upset. the signal might just be a little far away or not ready yet.
  
  throw away that "Checklist". Look outside of your social circle. Make new friends. Who know wat u will find.
  
  there is someone for everyone
• hisoka

  9 Jan 07, 17:46

  Originally posted by the_don:

  seriously bear & av & whoever still looking, dun give up or get cynical. let nature take its course. you will never know who you will bum into when u step out of that door.
  
  open your hearts and minds. let them be your guide to that someone special. if the signal not strong or no signal, dun be upset. the signal might just be a little far away or not ready yet.
  
  throw away that "Checklist". Look outside of your social circle. Make new friends. Who know wat u will find.
  
  there is someone for everyone

  got appropriate material to intro?
• the Bear

  9 Jan 07, 17:47

  my friend who drags a lady she knows to the dinners?
  
  i think i've intimidated the ladies with my loud lunacy
  
  i found out that one taught, is very quiet, treats her car the same way i treat mine (never washes it and it's a dustbin), doesn't do much and the school actually gives her accomodation for free!
  
  the other, is a fitness nut and goes to the gym to do the classes a lot, has a mild allergy to beef, is mildly buddhist (i don't know what made her say that), doesn't have other hobbies, goes to work too early and leaves work too late and is in HR but does not know who Catbert is
  
  
  
  

  Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:

  its hard ba.. i find it hardest to 'assist' lady friends without making them feel that we are 'pushing' them or being 'busy bodies', sometimes it is simply unintentional! Its like I know this person is really nice and great, and another who is nice and great too, so... just go out together lohhhhhhhh
  
  Thing is, sometimes they are so shy and quiet and most guys, just simply dont take the time to get to know them when they are actually really nice and can be funny too.

• the_don

  9 Jan 07, 17:50

  Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:

  its hard ba.. i find it hardest to 'assist' lady friends without making them feel that we are 'pushing' them or being 'busy bodies', sometimes it is simply unintentional! Its like I know this person is really nice and great, and another who is nice and great too, so... just go out together lohhhhhhhh
  
  Thing is, sometimes they are so shy and quiet and most guys, just simply dont take the time to get to know them when they are actually really nice and can be funny too.

  ./nod
  
  i have this really nice close fren - gal. she tends to be introverted and not really proactive in terms of interacting with strangers.
  
  she is a very nice gal, slim, tall, well read, intelligent, holds a stable job, etc. i dun know if she pretty or not cos i look at her face since 12yrs old but my ex-colleague say quite pretty.
  
  she is still single while the rest of my galfrens r attached or married. we all tried to help by asking her wat she wants in a boy etc but so far no success.
  
  so wasted loh, so many guys complain no gf but here we know people who dun have bf
• the_don

  9 Jan 07, 17:51

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  got appropriate material to intro?

  see the next post
• the Bear

  9 Jan 07, 17:53

  well, see.. people like me will probably intimidate the heck out of her and scare her silly
  
  

  Originally posted by the_don:

  ./nod
  
  i have this really nice close fren - gal. she tends to be introverted and not really proactive in terms of interacting with strangers.
  
  she is a very nice gal, slim, tall, well read, intelligent, holds a stable job, etc. i dun know if she pretty or not cos i look at her face since 12yrs old but my ex-colleague say quite pretty.
  
  she is still single while the rest of my galfrens r attached or married. we all tried to help by asking her wat she wants in a boy etc but so far no success.
  
  so wasted loh, so many guys complain no gf but here we know people who dun have bf

• av98m

  9 Jan 07, 17:54

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  well, see.. people like me will probably intimidate the heck out of her and scare her silly
  
  

  while I will quite likely creep her out
• hisoka

  9 Jan 07, 17:54

  
  
  faster into to bear and av
• the Bear

  9 Jan 07, 17:55

  dondon, drag her to Muddy Murphy's this saturday and we'll ply her with alcohol
• hisoka

  9 Jan 07, 17:56

  see the bear's interested already
• the_don

  9 Jan 07, 17:58

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  well, see.. people like me will probably intimidate the heck out of her and scare her silly
  
  

  with a gal, u dun scare her. u try to NOT scare her plssssssss
  
  anyway, some gals r not so easily intimidated and may like the loudness and your unique ways. for example, i'm sure most of the ladies here r not intimidated by you (thinks of project black van)
  
  i guess the first step is to not reject someone so fast. cos first impressions may not be accurate. open your heart and be willing to accept the possiblity of someone being in your heart
• shinta

  9 Jan 07, 17:59

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  see the bear's interested already

  
  
  bye all