Getting To Know Him Strategies

• the Bear

  1 Feb 07, 08:58

  *wonders if bbb will make a move on the object of her observation soon? *
• av98m

  1 Feb 07, 09:16

  *wonders if bbb's target will somehow wander into this forum and discover he's being stalked*
• the Bear

  1 Feb 07, 09:56

  so.. i wonder if she's going to do anything after all the ideas we've put into her head
  
  as for those who are still single and clueless, i wish cupid gets you quickly
• viciouskitty74

  1 Feb 07, 11:11

  Never shit in your own backyard.
  
  Thats not necessary true. Unless you are not confident in handling any situations in your own backyard.
  
  Me, I just am tired with dealing with folks in my own backyard. It does sometimes means its easier cos your partner is in similiar line of work you do.
  
  There are pros and cons lah.
  
  But office romance, when not handled properly with lots of discipline and control, are the stuffs for nightmares.
• choco B

  1 Feb 07, 11:13

  Check his status first, skali before you can even make first move, the game already over.
• tare

  1 Feb 07, 12:17

  office romance can be tough... but hey at least it gives u motivation to go work everyday! no scare monday blues
  
  seriously i think u should ask abt his name.... since u find it really cute...
  
  btw if u cant talk when u see him... just look at him, smile.... look downwards briefly [NOT at his *ahem* area hor] then look back into his eyes... [this would be a good chance to blush]
  
  if he still no talk to you AFTER tat.... bang his head on the wall!!!
• the Bear

  1 Feb 07, 13:00

  reminds me of the movie "Electric Dreams"
  
  where neighbours become friends then lovers..
  
  "what if it works out?"
  
  "one of us will have to move"
  
  "what if it doesn't work out?"
  
  "one of us will have to move"
• tare

  1 Feb 07, 14:38

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  reminds me of the movie "Electric Dreams"
  
  where neighbours become friends then lovers..
  
  "what if it works out?"
  
  "one of us will have to move"
  
  "what if it doesn't work out?"
  
  "one of us will have to move"

  so the dumper or dumpee have to find a new job?
• the_don

  1 Feb 07, 16:42

  Love Him
  
  Club Him
  
  Take Him Home
  
  Keep it Short and Simple
• the Bear

  1 Feb 07, 16:49

  yeah.. but then, in the movie, Edgar the computer wished the happy couple love
  
  i really enjoyed that cheesy movie
  
  

  Originally posted by tare:

  so the dumper or dumpee have to find a new job?

• ShrodingersCat

  1 Feb 07, 16:50

  Originally posted by choco B:

  Check his status first, skali before you can even make first move, the game already over.

  Status includes sexual orientation.
  
  We should come up with a check list.
• browniebaobao

  1 Feb 07, 19:30

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  *wonders if bbb will make a move on the object of her observation soon? *

  
  nah.. dun think so..
  
  din see him today also..
  
  

  Originally posted by av98m:

  *wonders if bbb's target will somehow wander into this forum and discover he's being stalked*

  i wish~~
  
  then at least i will have the courage to chat with him here..
• browniebaobao

  1 Feb 07, 19:32

  Originally posted by choco B:

  Check his status first, skali before you can even make first move, the game already over.

  sometimes i think..
  
  it's better not to know ba..
  
  then i can carry on daydreaming..
  
  if i know he's married or attached le, immediately will erase him off my mind.
  
  anyway, it's juz a little crush.
• browniebaobao

  1 Feb 07, 19:35

  Originally posted by tare:

  office romance can be tough... but hey at least it gives u motivation to go work everyday! no scare monday blues
  
  seriously i think u should ask abt his name.... since u find it really cute...
  
  btw if u cant talk when u see him... just look at him, smile.... look downwards briefly [NOT at his *ahem* area hor] then look back into his eyes... [this would be a good chance to blush]
  
  if he still no talk to you AFTER tat.... bang his head on the wall!!!

  
  
  i always look at his back view..
  
  see how he walk..
  
  i always observe how ple walk.. coz i believe everyone has a different style.
  
  juz looking at how he walk, can tell he's a confident person already..
  
  there was once he walked past my desk, and i was walking to his direction to my desk.. he suddenly straightened his back and walk confidently, like trying to impress.. hahaha.. i giggled.. nice try.
• browniebaobao

  1 Feb 07, 19:36

  Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:

  Status includes sexual orientation.
  
  We should come up with a check list.

  
  
  i doubt he's a gay.
  
  he's so man leh..
• the Bear

  1 Feb 07, 19:52

  go ask him out lah..
  
  we're going to have a churrascaria makan session soon.. bring him along
• browniebaobao

  1 Feb 07, 19:59

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  go ask him out lah..
  
  we're going to have a churrascaria makan session soon.. bring him along

  wahlew..
  
  machiam he's my bf like that..
  
  say bring jiu bring meh?
• the Bear

  1 Feb 07, 20:03

  why not?
  
  just ask lah.. or have a goal.. go talk to him first then get him ready to be asked out
  
  

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  wahlew..
  
  machiam he's my bf like that..
  
  say bring jiu bring meh?

• browniebaobao

  1 Feb 07, 20:06

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  why not?
  
  just ask lah.. or have a goal.. go talk to him first then get him ready to be asked out
  
  

  dream la..
  
  who will want to ask me out?
• ShrodingersCat

  1 Feb 07, 20:07

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  
  
  i doubt he's a gay.
  
  he's so man leh..

  Eh.. most of the gays I know are the very MAN type lohhhhh
  
  
• ShrodingersCat

  1 Feb 07, 20:09

  I very rarely have crushes like this
  in the sense that.. Hmmm.. cute guys don't attract me as much as funny guys
  Anyway it gets boring, just LOOKING cannot touch
  
  So change the status quo laaa we all need a bit of excitement in our life
  Risk free investment usually don't earn much one.
  
  
• the Bear

  1 Feb 07, 20:10

  go talk to him lah!!!
  
  wah.. don't so shy lah!
• ShrodingersCat

  1 Feb 07, 20:17

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  go talk to him lah!!!
  
  wah.. don't so shy lah!

  hurhur yalohhhh....
  
  ok if u dont talk at least start with SMILING at him.
  
  that wouldn't kill.....regardless of how devastatingly he can smile back
  
  HOHOHO
  
  damn i miss the chase.
• the Bear

  1 Feb 07, 20:19

  sounds like Mr Shro-cat was chased by shro-cat
• ShrodingersCat

  1 Feb 07, 20:35

  HoHo~... ~giggle~
  The Shrocats started as buddies that did a paradigm shift over one beautiful sunrise. It was interesting cos we both agreed on the exact moment we started thinking about 'possibilities'.
  
  But when I was younger, Hmmm, if i liked someone usually I will just let the person know eventually once I am sure. it was fun I guess the feeling of 'wondering' is he doing this because? Is he saying this because? and the warm happy feeling when something special happens.
  
  For good or for bad, I always find it better to just let it out. There's nothing embarassing or bad about liking someone (though a couple of guys HAVE made me feel awful about it) and if he doesn't like me back, i can just move on instead of harbouring illicit thoughts over the unattainable.
  
  Pragmatist I know. HoHo. But life is too short to pine over someone who isn't THAT SomeOne.
  
  Oh and for the longest time, I thought SO was SomeOne.