Getting To Know Him Strategies

• alexkusu

  3 Feb 07, 15:01

  Originally posted by viciouskitty74:

  I always believe.
  
  When trouble comes, it comes in cyclones.
  
  When you got one bf/gf...suddenly you have people wanting to be your bf/gf too.

  maybe thats why married men seems more attractive than single men
• browniebaobao

  3 Feb 07, 21:53

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  maybe thats why married men seems more attractive than single men

  the more u can't get something, the more attractive or desirable it seems to be.
• the Bear

  3 Feb 07, 22:03

  hmm.. but then, maybe i'm old-school.. or even just old
  
  even an attached lady is verboten
• viciouskitty74

  4 Feb 07, 05:46

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  maybe thats why married men seems more attractive than single men

  Thats one thing....
  
  Married men tend to be more relaxed, confident & more sure of themselves. And females are attracted to confident relaxed self assured men.
  
  Though......there is those that are just plain self centred......
  
  So married men do attract more attention.
  
  However, there is always the times when single men, just need to break their chain of luck with just one tiny single little relationship with anyone, and then they will be rolling in the females after that.
  
  Strange, but true.
• the Bear

  4 Feb 07, 19:06

  it didn't work for me
  
  oh well... maybe one day i'll overcome my dyslexic heart
• tare

  5 Feb 07, 12:03

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  maybe thats why married men seems more attractive than single men

  tis is prob why married women seems more attractive also lor?
  
  confident, experienced and prob not looking for commitment
• browniebaobao

  5 Feb 07, 20:50

  Originally posted by tare:

  tis is prob why married women seems more attractive also lor?
  
  confident, experienced and prob not looking for commitment

  not looking for commitment but might not be looking for flings also.
  
  so, a divorcee is more attractive.
• the Bear

  5 Feb 07, 22:01

  sometimes, i wonder what people look for.. or do they even know what they are looking for?
  
  i wonder about a lot of things
  
  and again, maybe i'm dumb as heck, in matters of the heart, we can't change who we are.. for if we did, we would not be true to ourselves.. and even if we do get our "goal", would it be worth the price?
  
  hey.. i guess my lack of sleep is causing me to prattle on
  
  
• browniebaobao

  5 Feb 07, 22:22

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  sometimes, i wonder what people look for.. or do they even know what they are looking for?
  
  i wonder about a lot of things
  
  and again, maybe i'm dumb as heck, in matters of the heart, we can't change who we are.. for if we did, we would not be true to ourselves.. and even if we do get our "goal", would it be worth the price?
  
  hey.. i guess my lack of sleep is causing me to prattle on
  
  

  just be yourself!
  
  and hopefully someone will truly appreciate and love you for what you are.
• the Bear

  5 Feb 07, 22:25

  yeah.. that's what i'm saying
  
  i learnt that the hard way myself
• hisoka

  5 Feb 07, 22:27

  no one appreciates me, only got pple call me sociopath and offer violence
• the Bear

  5 Feb 07, 22:28

  you may find a similarly sociopathic lady?
• hisoka

  5 Feb 07, 22:31

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  you may find a similarly sociopathic lady?

  
• stellazio

  5 Feb 07, 22:32

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  no one appreciates me, only got pple call me sociopath and offer violence

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• the Bear

  5 Feb 07, 22:33

  see? you can make moves on stella, the other sociopath
  
  
• hisoka

  5 Feb 07, 22:35

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  see? you can make moves on stella, the other sociopath
  
  

  sorry i'm straight.
  
  you can have him or some other pple who is inclined
• the Bear

  5 Feb 07, 22:40

  well, hey... maybe stella will make moves on you
• browniebaobao

  5 Feb 07, 23:18

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  sorry i'm straight.
  
  you can have him or some other pple who is inclined

  aiya too bad I also do QC.
  
  If not, I might chin chai and consider you.
  
  
• hisoka

  5 Feb 07, 23:24

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  aiya too bad I also do QC.
  
  If not, I might chin chai and consider you.
  
  

  
  
  we qc at the bb outing lor
• browniebaobao

  5 Feb 07, 23:58

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  
  
  we qc at the bb outing lor

  err...
  
  nah.. that's not a matchmaking session..
  
  and im not going there juz to meet u.
• the Bear

  6 Feb 07, 08:04

  .. and again, hisk's inner self emerges
• hisoka

  6 Feb 07, 08:39

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  err...
  
  nah.. that's not a matchmaking session..
  
  and im not going there juz to meet u.

  must learn to multi-task
• the Bear

  6 Feb 07, 08:45

  not content with potential wrath of many, hisk attempts to solicit more from bbb
• hisoka

  6 Feb 07, 08:54

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  not content with potential wrath of many, hisk attempts to solicit more from bbb

  must share the love
• tare

  6 Feb 07, 16:17

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  
  
  we qc at the bb outing lor

  got outing??!! why no one tell me de.... *sob*