Getting To Know Him Strategies

• browniebaobao

  30 Jan 07, 16:12

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  try this... "hey.. wanna go for lunch with me?"
  
  a bit blantant but hey!
  
  

  only if i see him at the lift and we are alone..
  
  usually lunch time everybody crowding at the lifts..
  
  and i usually have lunch kaki..
  
• stellazio

  30 Jan 07, 16:13

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  last time i used to climb up to get files from the compactors behind him..
  
  all he did was watch me...
  
  of course i was wearing pants then..

  if u had worn a skirt, maybe he might have offered help.
• browniebaobao

  30 Jan 07, 16:13

  Originally posted by stellazio:

  ok.. i guess due to bbb shyness, the email thing is stiill the best.. after that proceed to msn, den maybe dinner after that.

  i wish this dream will come true wor..
• the Bear

  30 Jan 07, 16:13

  instruct them to abandon you one day and you go make your move
  
  

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  only if i see him at the lift and we are alone..
  
  usually lunch time everybody crowding at the lifts..
  
  and i usually have lunch kaki..
  

• browniebaobao

  30 Jan 07, 16:14

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  lust, girl.. it's lust
  
  

  
  
  got somebody to lust for u, u muz be very proud hor?
• browniebaobao

  30 Jan 07, 16:15

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  instruct them to abandon you one day and you go make your move
  
  

  
• browniebaobao

  30 Jan 07, 16:16

  Originally posted by stellazio:

  if u had worn a skirt, maybe he might have offered help.

  i tot.. if i was wearing skirt.. any guy would have juz sit there longer and watch free show?
  
  i always climb up and down, never got once any man offered help..
  
  even if i asked for help, my colleague asked me to use the stool.
  
  !@#$%
• the Bear

  30 Jan 07, 16:17

  nope.. actually kinda scary
  
  

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  
  
  got somebody to lust for u, u muz be very proud hor?

• stellazio

  30 Jan 07, 16:18

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  i tot.. if i was wearing skirt.. any guy would have juz sit there longer and watch free show?
  
  i always climb up and down, never got once any man offered help..
  
  even if i asked for help, my colleague asked me to use the stool.
  
  !@#$%

  no la, u wear a skirt, u prepare to climb up, show abit of your legs, den u turn to him and say "aiyah erm if u dun mind, can help me take down those files, abit inconvenient for me la.. "
  
  then ur conversation start liao lohz..
  
  accomplish 2 things:
  1: getting him to notice you
  2: you have a chance to interact with him
• choco B

  30 Jan 07, 16:19

  Do not send too many forwarded greetings or emails They're terribly pointless; I auto-delete them.
  At least compose a greeting yourself or add something you've written to it....
  

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  since xmas till now been receiving those greeting emails ar..
  
  and i do forward them to other colleagues..
  
  can put in his email also ar..

• browniebaobao

  30 Jan 07, 16:21

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  nope.. actually kinda scary
  
  

  sure or not?
  
  if u two swop ur gender, of course u will be scared..
  
  but hey, u are a man leh!
  
  or is the viciouskitty really that vicious?
• the Bear

  30 Jan 07, 16:21

  heh heh heh..
  
  you're another one like me.. i don't even bother opening them anymore.. to me, they are just space wasted on my email allotment
  
  

  Originally posted by choco B:

  Do not send too many forwarded greetings or emails They're terribly pointless; I auto-delete them.
  At least compose a greeting yourself or add something you've written to it....
  

• browniebaobao

  30 Jan 07, 16:22

  Originally posted by stellazio:

  no la, u wear a skirt, u prepare to climb up, den u turn to him and say "aiyah erm if u dun mind, can help me take down those files, abit inconvenient for me la.. "
  
  then ur conversation start liao lohz..

  now no more chance liao lor...
  
  coz i wun go to his place de.. and he wun come to mine..
  
  the two possible areas we are likely to meet are the pantry and the lift area nia..
• browniebaobao

  30 Jan 07, 16:23

  Originally posted by choco B:

  Do not send too many forwarded greetings or emails They're terribly pointless; I auto-delete them.
  At least compose a greeting yourself or add something you've written to it....
  

  i only send those cute ones..
  
  will post them in HH if i have the time..
• the Bear

  30 Jan 07, 16:23

  in this day and age of emancipation, to be truthful it is kind of scary..
  
  anyway, there are things gentlebears don't talk about even upon pain of death
  
  

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  sure or not?
  
  if u two swop ur gender, of course u will be scared..
  
  but hey, u are a man leh!
  
  or is the viciouskitty really that vicious?

• browniebaobao

  30 Jan 07, 16:24

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  heh heh heh..
  
  you're another one like me.. i don't even bother opening them anymore.. to me, they are just space wasted on my email allotment
  
  

  like that ar?
  
  then i will remember not to send u any greeting on ur bday, xmas, chinese new yr etc.
• browniebaobao

  30 Jan 07, 16:24

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  in this day and age of emancipation, to be truthful it is kind of scary..
  
  anyway, there are things gentlebears don't talk about even upon pain of death
  
  

  
• tare

  30 Jan 07, 16:26

  ooh forgot to update u all on my "dinner appt" last nite.... hehee.. i've survived! no stroll after the dinner
• browniebaobao

  30 Jan 07, 16:29

  Originally posted by tare:

  ooh forgot to update u all on my "dinner appt" last nite.... hehee.. i've survived! no stroll after the dinner

  hiak hiak..
  
  long time no see u..
  
  u go dating har?
  
  husband not ard, u notti notti liao?
• the Bear

  30 Jan 07, 16:30

  yeah.. that's the way
  
  it's come to a stage at my organisation that people don't do such things anymore.. it just clogs up the emailer..
  
  and worse, during festive seasons, we used to get buried in stuff like that and real work is lost
  
  

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  like that ar?
  
  then i will remember not to send u any greeting on ur bday, xmas, chinese new yr etc.

• choco B

  30 Jan 07, 16:32

  I'd be so disappointed & repulsed if a guy I liked forwarded me one of those --
  "Treasure your loved ones today ! / Soppy predictable moralistic love story / Spread this email and have love returned ten-fold!!" -- emails
  
  Definite deal-breaker!
  

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  heh heh heh..
  
  you're another one like me.. i don't even bother opening them anymore.. to me, they are just space wasted on my email allotment
  

• av98m

  30 Jan 07, 16:32

  Unfortunately I've yet to figure out how to stop people from smsing me those very same holiday greetings
• the Bear

  30 Jan 07, 16:33

  what's your definition of "dirty" baby?
  what do you consider pornography?
  don't you know i love you till hurts me baby?
  don't you think it's time you......
  
  
  
  heh heh heh
• tare

  30 Jan 07, 16:33

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  hiak hiak..
  
  long time no see u..
  
  u go dating har?
  
  husband not ard, u notti notti liao?

  i regard it as an appointment not date....
  
  bbb u also outdated leh...
• browniebaobao

  30 Jan 07, 16:34

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  yeah.. that's the way
  
  it's come to a stage at my organisation that people don't do such things anymore.. it just clogs up the emailer..
  
  and worse, during festive seasons, we used to get buried in stuff like that and real work is lost
  
  

  
  u are really a workaholic leh..
  
  sometimes emails like that can make me smile..
  
  so i wun say it's a waste of time and storage space...