Club 30's "Kill the Boredom Demon" Jive Pad, 29th Edition
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Not good at baking desserts Bear
I'm too lazy to perfect a dish
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You should make good used of your oven to bake cakes too!!!Originally posted by elindra:Not good at baking desserts Bear
I'm too lazy to perfect a dish 
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LOL. Reason why I dont want to add dad's name to my place.Originally posted by the Bear:can disown them?
sign the thing with your dad's name lah.. learn to use the face of quiet menace, silent intimidation and that slightly psychotic smile to put The Fear into people..
and tell them to bugger off...
My mother will kill me and blood wash the relatives place.
The thing about that email from my aunt, is that my brother instead of wanting to get a hdb flat with my mother, wants to get with my father.
And my mother called to threaten the relatives about it.
The best part is that, my sister dont seem to be able to break down the situation to actually what is going on.
All my brothers talk about housing, its primary is to say he wants to house mother. When its all bullshit lah. -
I use it for grilling most of the time and cookiesOriginally posted by honeymouse:You should make good used of your oven to bake cakes too!!!
The thing that stops me from baking desserts is that my SO will stuff his face like no tomorrow
He has a HUGE sweet tooth and god knows what goodies have he been sneaking on the sly and it's not like he is getting any younger and I'm worried about his health -
Oh just to update, for the potluck I'm providing Tiramisu dessert (I think one can never go wrong with that)
Will be making honey garlic wings too -
Sigh....my sister just thinks i am angry about my brother's insistence to go UK study, at the expense of my mother and us relatives.Originally posted by Fatum:jia jia you ben nan nian de jing .....
best thing to do is to see nothing, hear nothing, and say nothing, neh ....
Truthfully, I now realised I am more angry with how he was doing it, then what his ambitions are. Its mainipulating everyone to pity him and help him out. And then he turns around to nitpick at those who helped him and dump them. -
that's how the public views it..
there is efficiency in the way the management pushes work to us.. then, not empowered, they expect us to be quick with things.. which we have to keep getting approval for..
it's dumber than heck..Originally posted by tare:wat to do? and the gals say when i not ard, they not bz leh... i almost wanna faint...
nvr watch jack neo's movie? in civil svc, can push, push; cannot push, siam; cannot siam, hide; cannot hide, drag.... -
Ha ha... it sounds like my hubby. He has a big appetite in general not only dessert!!!Originally posted by elindra:I use it for grilling most of the time and cookies
The thing that stops me from baking desserts is that my SO will stuff his face like no tomorrow
He has a HUGE sweet tooth and god knows what goodies have he been sneaking on the sly and it's not like he is getting any younger and I'm worried about his health
He walks a lot every day (20 min to the train station, 10 min to work) so as long he keeps up with his exercise, that's fine with me. Ofcourse, it doesn't mean he can glutton though.
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good afternoon everyone!
wat a busy monday. i got 2 deadlines due in 3hours and i'm trying v v v hard not to panic.
okie back to work! -
a slow burning quiet threat scares the bejesus out of people.. especially if you let them rant on and on.. you do not break eye contact with them, show no emotion except maybe a slight smile which you see in psychotics... never break eye contact or look away...
they WILL falter...
do not say anything.. let them rant on...
they WILL become silent...
when they do, ask in very hushed tones, they can hear you but will need to strain their ears... "are you done?"
never break eye contact..
i've listened to you.. now listen to me..
and speak clearly, softly, without emotion, without breaking eye contact...
that emotionless menacing look, the soft voice which shows no fear, scares the crap out of people..
use that..Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Sigh....my sister just thinks i am angry about my brother's insistence to go UK study, at the expense of my mother and us relatives.
Truthfully, I now realised I am more angry with how he was doing it, then what his ambitions are. Its mainipulating everyone to pity him and help him out. And then he turns around to nitpick at those who helped him and dump them. -
bear, i know that method works.Originally posted by the Bear:a slow burning quiet threat scares the bejesus out of people.. especially if you let them rant on and on.. you do not break eye contact with them, show no emotion except maybe a slight smile which you see in psychotics... never break eye contact or look away...
they WILL falter...
do not say anything.. let them rant on...
they WILL become silent...
when they do, ask in very hushed tones, they can hear you but will need to strain their ears... "are you done?"
never break eye contact..
i've listened to you.. now listen to me..
and speak clearly, softly, without emotion, without breaking eye contact...
that emotionless menacing look, the soft voice which shows no fear, scares the crap out of people..
use that..
and i think you know i believe that method works.
believe me, that it will never work with my family members. especially when its administered by me.
I was frankly, going about the "I told you so thingy" with my sister. And frankly very smug with what I know of my mother, brother & sister's characteristic and temper.
now....starting to cry liao. because after all these, i am still the one holding the craps they leave behind. -
it's only 3pm and i oledi start eating my 1st dark chocolate [only when i stressed with work]... tis is BAD!!! *whines*
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unfortunately no everybody is able to pull off that approach, and you're talking about using it against familiy memebers somemore.Originally posted by the Bear:a slow burning quiet threat scares the bejesus out of people.. especially if you let them rant on and on.. you do not break eye contact with them, show no emotion except maybe a slight smile which you see in psychotics... never break eye contact or look away...
they WILL falter...
do not say anything.. let them rant on...
they WILL become silent...
when they do, ask in very hushed tones, they can hear you but will need to strain their ears... "are you done?"
never break eye contact..
i've listened to you.. now listen to me..
and speak clearly, softly, without emotion, without breaking eye contact...
that emotionless menacing look, the soft voice which shows no fear, scares the crap out of people..
use that..
And I'm getting the impression that the mother is stir fry crazy and a complete psychopath
One can avoid pesky relatives, but immediate family members are so much harder to avoid
Other than changing my contact numbers, selling my place and hiding somewhere, I really have no idea what one can do about this situation.
Good luck kitty. You're going to need it.
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i guess.. i hope things work out for you..
still hope you will be able to keep the place... -
wonder where kopi is.. got the OST of Swing Girls for him..
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damnit, half the day is gone..
i wanted to go out shopping for clothes today..
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thanks.Originally posted by av98m:Good luck kitty. You're going to need it.
i now must secure a wedding cert and a credible husband to bump my mother off.
If that dont work. Then I will resigned to my fate as the dumpster for stir fry crazy mother. -
breathing heavily out.
LET IT GO.....Let It Go....let it go....let it go....let it go.....
Turns around to re-examine the cosmetics & clothes on the bed. Smile.
i want to do more shopping. -
yeah... hmmm.. GUYS!! how come all stop haggling about the Phuket Getaway in Oct??
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I notice you like to splurge on cosmetics but not clothes huh.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Turns around to re-examine the cosmetics & clothes on the bed. Smile.
i want to do more shopping. -
Likely hood to be able to keep it. Cos now cannot sell it; my mother definitely wants it as her back up and no way she will allow sale. Not until my brother can come up with a better place for her...Originally posted by the Bear:i guess.. i hope things work out for you..
still hope you will be able to keep the place...
I am stuck, in every way possible.
Say want me to lose that place is her.
Say want me to keep that place is her.
But ultimately, is best for me to die so she can have the place to herself, for free. -
sounds like some kind of deranged vindictive dowager in a melodrama series based on some kind of extreme sociopathic psychosis
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I do splurge on clothes. Just that really cheap ones are hard to find.Originally posted by choco B:I notice you like to splurge on cosmetics but not clothes huh.
and those that can fit me. even harder to find.
I can only tailor shirts. Cos my body, arms & legs are shorter.
Pants needs alterations.
knitted materials usually clings at the spare tires and the buldges under the bras.
Shoes, very hard to find my size.
But cosmetics.....tolietries....everyone can use mah. -
i splurge on foodOriginally posted by choco B:I notice you like to splurge on cosmetics but not clothes huh.
my tummy is coming back le!!! aarrrggghhh............. -
Try finding a big sized, tattoed harley davidson riding guy, with a beard. Get married.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:thanks.
i now must secure a wedding cert and a credible husband to bump my mother off.
If that dont work. Then I will resigned to my fate as the dumpster for stir fry crazy mother.
And introduce him to your family members