Poor elindra. *hug hug from honeymouseOriginally posted by elindra:Actually it's work stress coupled with pms![]()
By the wayOriginally posted by the Bear:yeah.. when i do hear of those who went against the grain, my heart is lifted
there is a story about a daughter of one of mom's friends.. she's an accountant.. she's going out with a fishmonger.. of course, stupid parents and all the others around are aghast..
i'm thinking.. huh? he's a hardworking man who is engaged in an honest trade, making an honest day's wage.. wtf is wrong with those idiots who are not happy with them? they're happy with each other and in this world, happiness is in short supply so why are they making things difficult for them??
i've always figured an honest man who is not materially well-off, but works hard for his family to provide for them and loves them, is better than a billionaire looter tycoon who cheats on his wife and doesn't know the names of his children...
Seriously not girls are like that la.Originally posted by av98m:stable career is another way of saying dead end job
I think I'm just put off by all the requirements. It feels like a damned job interview
Hugs honeymouse backOriginally posted by honeymouse:Poor elindra. *hug hug from honeymouse*
Thanks for warning me to run away fast...Originally posted by av98m:I'm glad honeymouse managed to avoid getting eaten by the ferret![]()
Originally posted by elindra:Hugs honeymouse back
Originally posted by elindra:By the way
Dun pray pray ah
In University, I had a classmate who is a fishmonger and he was helping his dad
They have 3 large bungalows![]()
Yep, totally agree. Not all girls are like that.... if material things are the only things they are looking for, just forget about it. It's not worth going after them at all.Originally posted by elindra:Seriously not girls are like that la.
I mean if I went by those standards
I would not have married Mr Pinky bear
Since he has lower education then me and is not rich and can be pretty anti-social at times
They are bothOriginally posted by the Bear:fishmonger as in those fellas at the market, renting that one stall from the URA or whoever, or fish wholesaler?
anyway, point being... i guess some are still not evolved from their animal instincts
one word: meritocracy. in the Singapore context.Originally posted by the Bear:some children have a lot to teach their parents...
some parents, should have taught their children...
some parents, should never have had the right to bear children..
i'm still wondering, where did all this cynicism came from?
Have you found mine yet? My earlier ones was errrr.....my sister dont approve.Originally posted by av98m:remember I mentioned trawling around the online dating sites
Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Bear....we need more bear cubs.
Since Elindra is supplying as yet. Can you supply soon?
i agreed.... my ex is older than me in age and maturity, had a stable job, now venturing into his own biz, dun smoke dun drink dun gamble... end up?Originally posted by honeymouse:Yep, totally agree. Not all girls are like that.... if material things are the only things they are looking for, just forget about it. It's not worth going after them at all.
I think having good personality is the most important of all, oh well to me anyway.![]()
shades of Brave New World, no?Originally posted by the Bear:we do not need a population increase no matter what the stupid politicians say...
the economists got it wrong too.. they have not factored in a limit to the resources we can rip out of the planet...
the politicians just want the economy to go on, damn everything else... in that, the only way is to increase the population so that there are more consumers... however, with increased productivity, who is going to consume the product.. therefore they have to artificially increase consumption.. we're going on a death spiral.. but they don't give a flying about it...
no.. we don't NEED...
Originally posted by av98m:shades of Brave New World, no?![]()
how do they survive and buy osh gosh clothesOriginally posted by viciouskitty74:strange that you guys are discussing about that thread though...
i was telling my sister about it in the afternoon.
Her first reaction was: What do you mean by poor?!! Love can conquer all kinda talk.
But after a while, when she thinks back to her relationships....she admitted. In the end, it all boils down to money.
Told her why I do believe that some kinda love do prevails...
Got a g/f, my age, another 'o' level gal married a totally un-educated Lorry Driver and has 2 kids with him.
Its the one, with family income below $2k per month wan. the one that wants to buy osh gosh clothes for her kids.
though life is tough, she is at home, looking after the kids not working, while her husband is also helping to support her own aged parents.
The same with Oz...Originally posted by viciouskitty74:And that brought us back to the discussions of how many kids to support the parents issue. Where USA dont have the culture of children sustaining the parents blah blah blah.