Club 30's "Kill the Boredom Demon" Jive Pad, 32nd Edition
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Poor av.
Cheer up! You havnt lived in mine, and I wouldnt even wished it on my enemies. -
well using divorce just to get her way ain't a good idea.... one day she might just get wat she "wanted"....Originally posted by viciouskitty74:well, the situation was temporary averted.
My sister will be doing househunting. She really didnt like the this home so finally she is getting her way to find a new house. -
She might....but you guys forget, this is USA not Singapore. The maintenance rules are stricter and more strongly enforced then in Singapore.Originally posted by tare:well using divorce just to get her way ain't a good idea.... one day she might just get wat she "wanted".... -
And it isnt divorced.
Its taking the children away. -
No no. Poor you! I was imagining having to live with your sister and brother in law, screaming kids, arguments et al A home should be where you feel safe from all the stresses and worries of the outside world, not not a battlefield in itself. T_T!!!Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Poor av.
Cheer up! You havnt lived in mine, and I wouldnt even wished it on my enemies. -
Trust me....this is chicken feet to our living with our mother.Originally posted by av98m:No no. Poor you! I was imagining having to live with your sister and brother in law, screaming kids, arguments et al A home should be where you feel safe from all the stresses and worries of the outside world, not not a battlefield in itself. T_T!!! -
Even so that is not the way to settle a disagreement
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Okies...back to shopping, kids & getting laid topics.
Soooooo.......who's horni?
the selections of vibrators here looks very conservative. -
I think one of my friends if he does marry the girl will be facing the divorce threat every other day.Originally posted by elindra:VK I guess they can somehow come to a compromise
Seriously bad idea to use divorce as a tool for argument
the girl is threatening to break up every day and time shes unhappy. and shes unhappy for weird, stupid and unknown reasons. like shes busy and can't hang out with him so he goes out with us and shes mad -
Well, who knows, maybe theirs will work out.
Couples who fight, maybe do stay together.
I know mine didnt work out, maybe it was too peaceful. -
I dunno.
fighting all the time but staying together doesn't really sound like a good example of marriage.
occasional arguments is fine and unavoidable but this seems more serious leh
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simple solution: dump the gal now!!Originally posted by hisoka:I think one of my friends if he does marry the girl will be facing the divorce threat every other day.
the girl is threatening to break up every day and time shes unhappy. and shes unhappy for weird, stupid and unknown reasons. like shes busy and can't hang out with him so he goes out with us and shes mad
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my head hurts..
if my boss gets struck by lightning, i'm buying everyone... i mean EVERYONE in Muddy's multiple rounds...
my head hurts...
i'll go type out the changes needed in the video.. -
well, no marriages are fool proof.Originally posted by av98m:I dunno.
fighting all the time but staying together doesn't really sound like a good example of marriage.
occasional arguments is fine and unavoidable but this seems more serious leh
I basically gave my brother in law some pointers and assured him that its unlikely for her to pack up and goes with me.
Its like dealing with my mother. Have to use the same tactics.
Cos I know my sister. She hates my small 3 room flat too. So she wont be doing as she threatened, especially when she dont have better quality back up then me and my ole little place. -
Like that my marriage must be super boring coz we hardly argue
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i told him point blank that the gal was unreasonable, childish and erratic. That i would dump her if i was him and i was in awe of him being able to take it.Originally posted by tare:simple solution: dump the gal now!!
its up to him now -
I was reading Rhonda's talk about getting married is like a contract.
And I strongly agrees.
Been communicating with some old female friends.
I think we are now at that sort of stage that we want to skip the mind games, temper tantrums and is offering ourselves to the Men that can support us comfortably in a simple bimbotic wiffey roles.
Like...find someone financially stable enough to keep us at home, to cook, wash, take care of house or even have babies w/o worrying about whether there is going to be milk powder money later.
And we only need to focus on him and the kids. And when the kids are older, we could possibly re-enter the work force and keep ourselves from starving in old age. Best that, we can cut the children loose and we enjoy our existence instead of relying on them.
I sort of was even prepared to put in a clause, that if I cannot produce children...that the man is welcomed to let us know, and I let him go to father some kids with younger able females. -
tat may not be a bad thing u noe.... unless u have cold wars all the time lah...Originally posted by elindra:Like that my marriage must be super boring coz we hardly argue
mine is NOT boring, in fact it'll prob win a viewer's choice for best drama series... tat doesn't mean i have a good one -
maybe he's hanging on because the sex is good and she's damned chio?Originally posted by hisoka:i told him point blank that the gal was unreasonable, childish and erratic. That i would dump her if i was him and i was in awe of him being able to take it.
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I miss my ex hub. He was so much more comfortable living partner then my mother.Originally posted by tare:tat may not be a bad thing u noe.... unless u have cold wars all the time lah...
mine is NOT boring, in fact it'll prob win a viewer's choice for best drama series... tat doesn't mean i have a good one
I always says....I dont regret the divorce, I regret only my inability to keep the marriage. -
Nope we don't have cold wars eitherOriginally posted by tare:tat may not be a bad thing u noe.... unless u have cold wars all the time lah...
mine is NOT boring, in fact it'll prob win a viewer's choice for best drama series... tat doesn't mean i have a good one
I think coz both of us don't really have tempers and I'm the bad-tempered one -
or because, he really felt that the gal is not bad. That she was there for him and believe that she will still be there for him...despite her tantrums.Originally posted by av98m:maybe he's hanging on because the sex is good and she's damned chio? -
or could be just human nature. we get used to something, and become resistant to change.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:or because, he really felt that the gal is not bad. That she was there for him and believe that she will still be there for him...despite her tantrums. -
shes not that chio.Originally posted by av98m:maybe he's hanging on because the sex is good and she's damned chio?
don't know about the sex part. i'm close with the guy but don't wanna ask in case embarass the girl -
Yes. I agree thats a huge portion logic too.Originally posted by av98m:or could be just human nature. we get used to something, and become resistant to change.
We grew accustomed, and is comfortable to a way of life.