Club 30's "Kill the Boredom Demon" Jive Pad, 33rd Edition
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There was efforts made to discredit her.Originally posted by hisoka:so she didn't know if she was groped?
nvm sounds horribly confusing and can still lean towards both sides. though naturally pple tend to take the girl's side
and there was kinda lots of messages to and fro that result in DL making an apology with a BUT in the apology.
I would say it was: "I am sorry, BUT you were misleading me with your quietness and causualness."
I am still trying to decipher what 'casualness' means. About her casual comfy but not sexy outfit with push up bras? or She was casually modivating DL to grope her and send her those messages. -
Jason probably doesn't know,anyway i believed Jason gave him mod as he was one of the earlier few who registered.Originally posted by fudgester:*me mysteriously appears in a puff of smoke*
Here's my dua sen on the Devil's deeds...
Regardless of whether or not QS was coming on to him, it would still be morally wrong of him to to do what he did. And as it stands, that SMS he sent is pretty much evidence of harassment, which can be a separate charge in itself... I remember reading of people getting charged in court over sending lewd messages to women whom they thought were 'open-minded'.
Whatever the case, it is my opinion that he has abdicated his responsibilities as a moderator of the Aunt Agony forum. I would like to ask for, nay, demand that Jason removes him from the Aunt Agony panel of moderators.
Yunhaier who was a former mod, actually gave better advices then he did
Perhaps we should champion Bear for mod.
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The problem is that these guys deem these girls 'open minded' therefore it is ok to touch them
Just because you talk about it or discuss about it doesn't mean you want to be touched -
it really depends on the circumstances. take away the main characters and just put it as A(male) and B(female)Originally posted by fudgester:*me mysteriously appears in a puff of smoke*
Here's my dua sen on the Devil's deeds...
Regardless of whether or not QS was coming on to him, it would still be morally wrong of him to to do what he did. And as it stands, that SMS he sent is pretty much evidence of harassment, which can be a separate charge in itself... I remember reading of people getting charged in court over sending lewd messages to women whom they thought were 'open-minded'.
Whatever the case, it is my opinion that he has abdicated his responsibilities as a moderator of the Aunt Agony forum. I would like to ask for, nay, demand that Jason removes him from the Aunt Agony panel of moderators.
sending an sms about her body after what he perceived as the female agree to his groping and feeling about of said body, while maybe in bad taste doesn't sound far off in the scale of wrongness. of course it may be against the law, but i've often found many problems with our laws; actually i've found problems with the rape and molest laws cause while they protec, they also potentially discriminate. -
there is more cases of mature girls being preyed on.Originally posted by hisoka:hmmz lets all keep quiet about everything and convince him to come
and erm kitty that articles more about underaged girls beign preyed on though
just that the matured girls arent willing to step up to voice out the problems for fear of tarnishing their career, their family life or their names.
i would say the rape counselling folks we have at the SPF arent all that too few to really step up for this kinda work too. -
and quinsy is like 19, not some 12/13 yr old girls that doesn't know whats going on.Originally posted by elindra:The problem is that these guys deem these girls 'open minded' therefore it is ok to touch them
Just because you talk about it or discuss about it doesn't mean you want to be touched -
Whew.....so you know my frustrations.Originally posted by hisoka:it really depends on the circumstances. take away the main characters and just put it as A(male) and B(female)
sending an sms about her body after what he perceived as the female agree to his groping and feeling about of said body, while maybe in bad taste doesn't sound far off in the scale of wrongness. of course it may be against the law, but i've often found many problems with our laws; actually i've found problems with the rape and molest laws cause while they protec, they also potentially discriminate. -
*is now worried for whoever goes on date with hisoka*
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And devil is how old?Originally posted by stellazio:and quinsy is like 19, not some 12/13 yr old girls that doesn't know whats going on. -
Early 30s, I should think.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:And devil is how old? -
You won't believe how innocent some of the people are reallyOriginally posted by stellazio:and quinsy is like 19, not some 12/13 yr old girls that doesn't know whats going on. -
as i said it looks like it could have happened that way, taking away the main chars again.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:There was efforts made to discredit her.
and there was kinda lots of messages to and fro that result in DL making an apology with a BUT in the apology.
I would say it was: "I am sorry, BUT you were misleading me with your quietness and causualness."
I am still trying to decipher what 'casualness' means. About her casual comfy but not sexy outfit with push up bras? or She was casually modivating DL to grope her and send her those messages.
and its normally quite hard to actually figure who was telling the truth or what happened anyway. it was between the 2 of them and each's statement against the other's
maybe casualness means she was touchy-feely and readily discussed other women's bodys with him too complicated -
going by his nick, about 30 or older?Originally posted by viciouskitty74:And devil is how old? -
12 yrs older?Originally posted by viciouskitty74:And devil is how old? -
same here...Originally posted by hisoka:up to now i still dunno what happened. from what i read of quincy's posts, she/he doesn't sound trustable -
I am also very casual with you guys and even bear.Originally posted by hisoka:as i said it looks like it could have happened that way, taking away the main chars again.
and its normally quite hard to actually figure who was telling the truth or what happened anyway. it was between the 2 of them and each's statement against the other's
maybe casualness means she was touchy-feely and readily discussed other women's bodys with him too complicated
discussing with everyone here freely my women's body. are you guys invited to place your hands on my boobs?
did you guys place your hands on my boobs? -
I know of some super innocent girls of my age (24 this year) who have never even gone out on a date with a guy. Ever.Originally posted by elindra:You won't believe how innocent some of the people are really
I'm not implying that girls who have dated before are no longer innocent, of course, but you get my point....
And we all know about that 9-year old girl who got pregnant and gave birth.
Things have gone topsy-turvy these days. -
went away to teach new secretary [for our HEAD]... wish her luck!
anw, so quinsy kenna groped and keep quiet; devil apologise with a BUT; si gina gonna sit with him at vienna outing; av gonna show a side of him we've not seen?! av r u gonna GROPE him???!!!
btw he do appear in our outings mah.. last being sentosa outing. i walk ard in bikini also okie wat...
anw gals in club30 ain't tat "quiet" de.... -
i'll put it this way, if the "mature" girls willingly went on a date and consented to the sex and whtever, its not exactly preying anymore.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:there is more cases of mature girls being preyed on.
just that the matured girls arent willing to step up to voice out the problems for fear of tarnishing their career, their family life or their names.
i would say the rape counselling folks we have at the SPF arent all that too few to really step up for this kinda work too.
afterall there are plenty of girls who have sex and ONS willingly and/or enjoy it.
rape molest is another issue of course.
and erm those spin off cases just making thigns worse -
Originally posted by tare:av r u gonna GROPE him???!!! tare, you are EVIL!
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In all honesty, I keep my hands to my sides as much as I can when I'm with women. You'll never see me casually put an arm around a girl even if she's a close friend.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:I am also very casual with you guys and even bear.
discussing with everyone here freely my women's body. are you guys invited to place your hands on my boobs?
did you guys place your hands on my boobs?
Group photos are an exception, but I always make it a point to ask the girl first to make sure that she's okay with it. -
here, I invite you guys to go put your fingers on my boobs. -
I was planning for si gina to do the gropingOriginally posted by tare:went away to teach new secretary [for our HEAD]... wish her luck!
; si gina gonna sit with him at vienna outing; av gonna show a side of him we've not seen?! av r u gonna GROPE him???!!!
anw gals in club30 ain't tat "quiet" de.... -
oh come on, thats mean!!Originally posted by av98m:*is now worried for whoever goes on date with hisoka*
anyway kitty you may openly discuss but you never invited or were sensed to have invited pple to touch you.
anyway you got my point and prob tought of it so its good -
i dun think quinsy is that innocent...Originally posted by elindra:You won't believe how innocent some of the people are really