Originally posted by the Bear:
that's the misconception...
smiling greeting everyone?? no.. being courteous will do.. and courtesy means more than just smiling and all that.. much much MUCH more...
as for the last one, if you think so, sheesh.. you've been hoodwinked

the fact that the gentleman will be beyond reproach so much so that anyone will feel safe in that person's presence.. and so much so that others will not hesitate to entrust the care of their wives or girlfriends in the care of the gentleman, knowing full well that their other halves will be safe from harm and that he will not even think of anything but the welfare of the lady entrusted to him..
Like I said, a gentleman can be coined differently and understood differently.
Let's get back on track. Well, I could say objectively that the guy in question had always considered himself a miscreant and deviant, and it's not really that hard to scent that he's that.
So the question now is, why can't the women in question understand that the person they are with, had obviously display such traits, take precautions?
Didn't mommy say "Be careful with strangers?" I believe a six year old can tell you that.
The point now, if you read on the package of cigarettes and it says "Smoking kills". And hell yeah, you know its effect. Why smoke?
Now the second question, you're already wasting the money on smoking, and hell yeah, you know you are killing your organs effectively, why not quit?
I'm not siding either. Both are adults. They both play a similar game. Dangerous? I donno. Entertain yourself with the thought of being alone with another guy if you're female.
And for guys, it's up to your imagination since you had the call to decide the place.. Do you think wars fought in familiar terrain easier?
Your call.
