Club 30's "Kill The Boredom Demon" Jive Pad, 43rd Edition
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I did once! And then the guy started this "Did I upset you? What have I done? You have to tell me! Why? What did I do? Let me make it right. You have to talk to me! How else would I know!" yada-yada-yada-yada and I was trying to smile as best as I can and quickly siam and make a quick exit but he kept getting near me and closing off my exit points and ... he just made me claustrophobic, so much so that I wanted to just kick his shin and run away!Originally posted by Wanda:If it gets too much, I probably ask them to keep quiet to give me some peace.
After that, whenever I see that guy from a distance, I plan my quick and stealthy exit! -
Before their marriage, mom and dad and I were driving to Tampines to eat one day and I listened quietly to their conversation.Originally posted by elindra:Is he the kind that is henpecked
It started with mom saying my bro was 'never like that', he used to have more humble preferances yada-yada... must be his g/f's influence!
Then dad piped in and agreed, cause their son is faultless mah!
Then mom said, "What can we do? Your son is stupid, choose to fall for this woman so how? Kena henpecked by her the rest of his life lor! His choice mah!" -
Originally posted by Rhonda:Before their marriage, mom and dad and I were driving to Tampines to eat one day and I listened quietly to their conversation.
It started with mom saying my bro was 'never like that', he used to have more humble preferances yada-yada... must be his g/f's influence!
Then dad piped in and agreed, cause their son is faultless mah!
Then mom said, "What can we do? Your son is stupid, choose to fall for this woman so how? Kena henpecked by her the rest of his life lor! His choice mah!"
Actually, his becoming more atas may have something to do with the PAP? -
You also can yak alot right, depending on who you're with?Originally posted by av98m:people tell me I'm a good listener because i can sit down for hours and listen to people yakk while nodding at intervals and adding a line or two here and there -
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becos u were too bz eating issit? *presses av's laugh button*Originally posted by av98m:people tell me I'm a good listener because i can sit down for hours and listen to people yakk while nodding at intervals and adding a line or two here and there -
Yeah, and also how the conversation is going. You just cannot have more than 1 person dominating a conversation sometimesOriginally posted by Wanda:You also can yak alot right, depending on who you're with? -
Ha ha ha!Originally posted by Rhonda:I did once! And then the guy started this "Did I upset you? What have I done? You have to tell me! Why? What did I do? Let me make it right. You have to talk to me! How else would I know!" yada-yada-yada-yada and I was trying to smile as best as I can and quickly siam and make a quick exit but he kept getting near me and closing off my exit points and ... he just made me claustrophobic, so much so that I wanted to just kick his shin and run away!
After that, whenever I see that guy from a distance, I plan my quick and stealthy exit!
Reminds me of a guy...after one date, he called me again and I told him I'm not going out with him again, and he went: " Why?, what have I done? Tell me what have I done wrong?" . Some guys just can't accept a no.
After that, I decided to install caller-ID on my fixed line phone (in those days). -
Originally posted by tare:becos u were too bz eating issit? *presses av's laugh button*
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erm... i'll not hang out with my elder bro...Originally posted by Wanda:There's nothing wrong...unless your bro is like my bros...my eldest one fought with me on everything that I have as a kid, and I din have much bec I was a gal... I had to fight the more privilege sons for whatever little rights I have...
only started to be close with my kid bro when we discover our common interested -- alcholol -
SSSSshhhhhhh!!!!Originally posted by av98m:
Actually, his becoming more atas may have something to do with the PAP?
BTW, what's 'atas'?
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well on the bright side, maybe he just wants comments and criticism so he can improve the next time.feedback yeah"?Originally posted by Wanda:Ha ha ha!
Reminds me of a guy...after one date, he called me again and I told him I'm not going out with him again, and he went: " Why?, what have I done? Tell me what have I done wrong?" . Some guys just can't accept a no.
After that, I decided to install caller-ID on my fixed line phone (in those days). -
Well if you tell them you talk too much and irritate the hell out of me, it doesn't work and they take it personally
They cannot accept the brutal truth that they really need to STFU -
ATASOriginally posted by Rhonda:SSSSshhhhhhh!!!!
BTW, what's 'atas'?
(ah-tahs)
Malay for "upstairs", it describes someone as snobbish, hoity-toity, affected or arrogant.
"Wah, you nowsaday do'wan to eat ikan bilis, only eat caviar. Become damn atas oreddy." -
Oh no, I'm not falling for that! After being rejected, I don't think the guy's gonna take too kindly to being told or criticised about why the gal din like him after one date...oh no!Originally posted by hisoka:well on the bright side, maybe he just wants comments and criticism so he can improve the next time.feedback yeah"? -
true i guess. but maybe 1 or 2 will learn and benefit them and othersOriginally posted by elindra:Well if you tell them you talk too much and irritate the hell out of me, it doesn't work and they take it personally
They cannot accept the brutal truth that they really need to STFU -
you weigh intelligence with age?Originally posted by stellazio:some o or n level kid. -
Yeah! With some folks, you just have a good conversation going like a tennis match or ping-pong game.Originally posted by av98m:Yeah, and also how the conversation is going. You just cannot have more than 1 person dominating a conversation sometimes 
With others, they kinda just hog the balls and that's it, game over!
And then, there are the guys who give you a sweet feeling each time you go out with them. They are the simple, non-flashy guys who make you feel kinda special and give you that glowing, warm feeling in your heart. -
Sometimes it's not about change but finding a person who has a compatible level of hyperness with you.
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Wanda really niceOriginally posted by Wanda:Oh no, I'm not falling for that! After being rejected, I don't think the guy's gonna take too kindly to being told or criticised about why the gal din like him after one date...oh no!
But I think I got irritated by the non-stop yakking that I told him "Can you PLEASE STFU"
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Orh... he's not really ATAS but he's too... erm... politically correct, too... 'white'.Originally posted by av98m:ATAS
(ah-tahs)
Malay for "upstairs", it describes someone as snobbish, hoity-toity, affected or arrogant.
"Wah, you nowsaday do'wan to eat ikan bilis, only eat caviar. Become damn atas oreddy."
I've lost a dear brother.
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i doubt hes more pleased withh jsut being told by the girl that she will never go out with him againOriginally posted by Wanda:Oh no, I'm not falling for that! After being rejected, I don't think the guy's gonna take too kindly to being told or criticised about why the gal din like him after one date...oh no! -
Yeah! Like poodles should only breed with poodles and not taint all other breeds!Originally posted by choco B:Sometimes it's not about change but finding a person who has a compatible level of hyperness with you. -
I was just telling elindra that recent experiences have taught me that a true gentleman makes you feel good about yourself. He doesn't make you feel like he's ashamed to be seen out with you, nor does he make you feel like you're the butt-ugliest, clumsiest, fattest girl in town and that he's darned ashamed to be seen out with you.
Some men just have that extra dash of 'class'.
And I'm not talking glitzy either. They can be simple guys-next-door, but they respect you enough to treat you well and accord you with good treatment and they are such unassuming, humble gentlemen. -
Sometimes there's just no chemistry, or both just don't click, or just not the gal's type lor. Just accept and move on. If I fancy a guy, but it's unreciprocated, I'm not going to ask him "why won't you like me, why, why? What's wrong with me?"Originally posted by hisoka:i doubt hes more pleased withh jsut being told by the girl that she will never go out with him again