Club 30's "Kill The Boredom Demon" Jive Pad, 44th Edition
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I just read her story....it seems the hubby has to take responsibility for much of the troubles too.Originally posted by choco B:It's sad. I think she needs professional help in real life.
And it's only her first year of marriage?
Lots of adjustments neccesary leh.... I remember my first year was quite frustrating even tho' it's just me and SO. -
Wait, are you saying you've never met him in real life?
He is super despo -
anyway, going to sleep.
but still, i told him like all the other fellas who are basically wasting my time with just talks.
he wants to date me. he has to learn dance.
if he cant blardy hell do basic salsa and can only flap his hands arms like chicken wings at a dance floor when we are out.
he can go dance himself while I goes into the arms of the sexy real dancers that can twirl and lead me on the dance floor.
I cant stand a relationship, where the men wants to lead, but seriously lacking the training how.
Partner dancing is actually a good training cos dances, males are required to lead. Its actually a pretty macho sport. A form of refined sporting event where a man are pitted against a female. -
Hey...he isnt the only one.Originally posted by av98m:Wait, are you saying you've never met him in real life?
He is super despo
I met some only once in real life....and look at how they demand that I must treat them like they are some kinda superior beings....
I frankly, dont borther with such males anymore.
They are despo....with no real substance to really attract my attentions.
got so jaded and disappointed with those lamers....I frankly just grumble and get on with life.
one of my young, nice young biker friend is doing tango dance soon.
and he invited this old auntie to dance with him. i am soo flattered.
and his eying of a gal who blew him off because he is small size. well.....that gal dont deserve him. -
Maybe I'm too old school...but I'm lost about the link betn "must know salsa dancing" and dating a person. But neh mind, since I don't have to play the dating game.
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Originally posted by Wanda:Maybe I'm too old school...but I'm lost about the link betn "must know salsa dancing" and dating a person. But neh mind, since I don't have to play the dating game.
personally I dun like all forms of dancing
well, other than the horizontal tango that is
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Mine was that he must know how to clean up after himselfOriginally posted by Wanda:Maybe I'm too old school...but I'm lost about the link betn "must know salsa dancing" and dating a person. But neh mind, since I don't have to play the dating game. -
Originally posted by the Bear:
[b]okay okay.. that being said, i've seen a few teens, around 16, who are remarkably mature.. and wise beyond their years..
b]
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Its okay wanda. you are thankfully out of the dating game.Originally posted by Wanda:Maybe I'm too old school...but I'm lost about the link betn "must know salsa dancing" and dating a person. But neh mind, since I don't have to play the dating game.
I liked dancing. And I plan to do it as long as I can dance.
Having my date knowing how to dance, means we share a common hobby which we can both do, together.
Instead of me, going dancing, waltzing around in another man's arms and developing emotions with another man, instead of my significant other.
Its like.....I have a date...that only date, go out movies, go shopping, go have sex.....have babies.
And someone else who can dance with me, go out movies, go shopping, go have sex...have babies.
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he wasn't referring to you lahOriginally posted by stellazio:
*sprays insecticide* -
She seems a genuine person so I'd hate to speak too harshly of her. I've observed her talking about her home problems for a long time I.e. it is not a recent occurance, if I recall the situation was bad even before marriage. And there have been many discussions online about it. At the end of it all, she always chooses the " let it be " route. Exactly why, I can't understand....
I think there are a lot of problematic factors involved, not only with her husband, her in-law family but also with her. Sometimes timing is everything, maybe solution is obvious but she is not ready to take it.
Bottomline to me is, it is a waste of such an intelligent person!Originally posted by Wanda:I just read her story....it seems the hubby has to take responsibility for much of the troubles too.
And it's only her first year of marriage? Lots of adjustments neccesary leh.... I remember my first year was quite frustrating even tho' it's just me and SO. -
especially with the lamers nowadays out there.
insisting that you, as a female: Commit to them, faithful to them, respect their families and respect their personal space and hobbies.
is that too much to ask, that he respect your own hobbies and does at least share some of your values and goals?
or is it....wham bam....have babies...thank you madam? -
is she looking to be a martyr?Originally posted by choco B:She seems a genuine person so I'd hate to speak too harshly of her. I've observed her talking about her home problems for a long time I.e. it is not a recent occurance, if I recall the situation was bad even before marriage. And there have been many discussions online about it. At the end of it all, she always chooses the " let it be " route. Exactly why, I can't understand....
I think there are a lot of problematic factors involved, not only with her husband, her in-law family but also with her. Sometimes timing is everything, maybe solution is obvious but she is not ready to take it.
Bottomline to me is, it is a waste of such an intelligent person! -
no ideaOriginally posted by viciouskitty74:is she looking to be a martyr?
she can be quite nasty too
had a head on argument with her in the past coz she blew at me for no apparent reason before
but then i'm not one who takes it personally and if i just happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time so be it especially if she is facing those issues -
Hmmm, talking bout fil and mil. I haven't thought bout this yet, but i think it should be fine, afterall, the girl i like should be the rebellious sort, so most probably the parents won't try anything funny.
In other news, i am beginning to like my job. Come in at 9.30, take 1.5 hours lunch break, and leave at 6.
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Hmm.....caveat emptor?Originally posted by choco B:She seems a genuine person so I'd hate to speak too harshly of her. I've observed her talking about her home problems for a long time I.e. it is not a recent occurance, if I recall the situation was bad even before marriage. And there have been many discussions online about it. At the end of it all, she always chooses the " let it be " route. Exactly why, I can't understand....
I think there are a lot of problematic factors involved, not only with her husband, her in-law family but also with her. Sometimes timing is everything, maybe solution is obvious but she is not ready to take it.
Bottomline to me is, it is a waste of such an intelligent person!
Look before you leap into marriage / LT commitment! -
WARNING: the girl might rebel against uOriginally posted by stellazio:Hmmm, talking bout fil and mil. I haven't thought bout this yet, but i think it should be fine, afterall, the girl i like should be the rebellious sort, so most probably the parents won't try anything funny.
In other news, i am beginning to like my job. Come in at 9.30, take 1.5 hours lunch break, and leave at 6. 
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errr....I ganna her before too.Originally posted by elindra:no idea
she can be quite nasty too
had a head on argument with her in the past coz she blew at me for no apparent reason before
but then i'm not one who takes it personally and if i just happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time so be it especially if she is facing those issues
she is the kind that tries so hard to be biatchy just because she is with the 'mean gals' kinda crowd.
Which is why....I am asking.....is she trying for martyr-dom.
the outside I am biatchy...inside I am suffering. -
Heheh the interesting thing is, she walked into it with eyes wide open and in acceptance. I guess we sleep in the bed we made for ourselves.Originally posted by Wanda:Hmm.....caveat emptor?
Look before you leap into marriage / LT commitment! -
choco like always.....very sharp and sweet.Originally posted by choco B:Heheh the interesting thing is, she walked into it with eyes wide open and in acceptance. I guess we sleep in the bed we made for ourselves.
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'mean gals' kinda crowd?Originally posted by viciouskitty74:errr....I ganna her before too.
she is the kind that tries so hard to be biatchy just because she is with the 'mean gals' kinda crowd.
Which is why....I am asking.....is she trying for martyr-dom.
the outside I am biatchy...inside I am suffering.
I dunno la
I'm not a mean person though I can be real biatchy but I sure ain't that self-sacrificing
All I know if that if someone steps all over me like that I would definately blow it up so huge that I don't even care about consequences
(N it's hard to make me angry) -
i meant those ppl that like to rebel against hierachy and structural rules.Originally posted by InnoHippo:WARNING: the girl might rebel against u
like me. -
Oh my!! Just realised our anniversary is next week! Totally forgot!
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i would like to put that theory to test.Originally posted by elindra:(N it's hard to make me angry)
*signs application form*.. -
I didn't know about the before marriage thingyOriginally posted by choco B:Heheh the interesting thing is, she walked into it with eyes wide open and in acceptance. I guess we sleep in the bed we made for ourselves.
Coz I didn't read her posts
But if that is the case I would ran away very fast