Club 30's "Kill The Boredom Demon" Jive Pad, 57th Edition
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maybe hope that he fades away...
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If it's of any comfort, I don't believe in being friends after a break-up, although my ex- refused to give up. He said he'll wait for me even if he has to wait 20 yrs.Originally posted by Fatum:why do women always hope to be friends after they break somebody's heart and trampled it to the ground ? .....
people move on by forgetting .....
by keeping in contact .... by being friends .... you're just prolonging that person's agony, no ? ....
and let's face it ... it's all going to go down hill from there, no ? ... the chap will just fade away slowly ....
if that's the case ... just "euthanize" him ... neh ? ....
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no guys waited that long one lah.....
they tend to "hookup" something along the way one lah.. -
He said he'll wait 20 yrs until I agree to continue to be his friend woh...
As if so drama drama...
I dun care lah...even if he die liao. -
women are so callous ............ -
way to go gal..!Originally posted by Wanda:He said he'll wait 20 yrs until I agree to continue to be his friend woh...
As if so drama drama...
I dun care lah...even if he die liao. -
not really, try kana "haunting" for 10 years!Originally posted by Fatum:women are so callous ............
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make up your mind...
you want a clean break and you want them to sit around??
sheesh!!
what is not on is when they tell you one thing and they go do another.. that's callous..Originally posted by Fatum:women are so callous ............ -
erm.... sometimes we just ain't good to be a couple but better as friends mah... i do have some ex-es tat are friendsOriginally posted by Wanda:If it's of any comfort, I don't believe in being friends after a break-up, although my ex- refused to give up. He said he'll wait for me even if he has to wait 20 yrs. 
heck i was on the entourage of one of their wedding! -
To add to what bear said, one shd also look at the reason for the break up, before you say the woman are callous. Some scum just don't deserve any sympathy.Originally posted by Fatum:women are so callous ............
Ok..off to fill my tummy. Have a good lunch! -
no ... I just want them to sever all ties, throw away the pictures, erase the numbers, forget the memories, and forget that the other person ever existed .....Originally posted by the Bear:make up your mind...
you want a clean break and you want them to sit around??
sheesh!!
what is not on is when they tell you one thing and they go do another.. that's callous.. -
anyway, I am sure that he will be sianz when I ignore him totally
...at least for this period of time...
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friendship forged over so many years are not easily let go....Originally posted by Fatum:why do women always hope to be friends after they break somebody's heart and trampled it to the ground ? .....
people move on by forgetting .....
by keeping in contact .... by being friends .... you're just prolonging that person's agony, no ? ....
and let's face it ... it's all going to go down hill from there, no ? ... the chap will just fade away slowly ....
if that's the case ... just "euthanize" him ... neh ? ....
by keeping in contact, it may be awkward for a while... but once they finished grieving over failed r/s, at least the friendship will remain...if not even stronger... -
well, i'll say get it right...
say what you mean and mean what you say.. and do it..
not say something, do another, keeping the other hanging on...
that's callous... -
if they do tat, u'll say "woman are so heartless"....Originally posted by Fatum:no ... I just want them to sever all ties, throw away the pictures, erase the numbers, forget the memories, and forget that the other person ever existed .....
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when you've shared something intimate ... something friends don't do ... something special with a person ... you don't just let go so easily too .....Originally posted by Ferret:friendship forged over so many years are not easily let go....
by keeping in contact, it may be awkward for a while... but once they finished grieving over failed r/s, at least the friendship will remain...if not even stronger...
somethings, once shared ... changes certain things forever .... there's no going back .... -
There's never been a "CLEAN BREAK" cos it's never together lah...Originally posted by the Bear:make up your mind...
you want a clean break and you want them to sit around??
sheesh!!
what is not on is when they tell you one thing and they go do another.. that's callous..
choi choi...
I oso cannot ask the guy to Go Away just because I cannot accept the guy as the "special" guy during all these years...and I want to be just Friends..
...cannot be cruel leh..
Unless he starts stalking, he gets HELL FROM ME! -
Originally posted by Fatum:no ... I just want them to sever all ties, throw away the pictures, erase the numbers, forget the memories, and forget that the other person ever existed .....
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i think someone's just going through some heartbreak?Originally posted by tare:if they do tat, u'll say "woman are so heartless"....
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I ask for a quick bullet always .......Originally posted by tare:if they do tat, u'll say "woman are so heartless"....
and I always give a quick bullet to others too .....
it's okay that they hate me and curse my name ..... if by hating me they'll find it easier to move on, I'd gladly be the bad guy ....
sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind ..... -
Originally posted by Fatum:when you've shared something intimate ... something friends don't do ... something special with a person ... you don't just let go so easily too .....
somethings, once shared ... changes certain things forever .... there's no going back ....
todae very gloomy.
-cannot cope-
I think i go back work awhile first. -
btw bear .... I got "careless" .....
at least that's some succor to me now .... -
I think that i used the old method lah..
just ignore him if possible, dun go out even if it is a group outing, tell him that I met someone.... let him die of a heartbreak... then he FADES away..
EASY...Deal.!
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*pat pat*Originally posted by Fatum:I ask for a quick bullet always .......
and I always give a quick bullet to others too .....
it's okay that they hate me and curse my name ..... if by hating me they'll find it easier to move on, I'd gladly be the bad guy ....
sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind .....
well i talking abt being friends after breakup which very much depends on the type of breakup and type of personality...
not sprinkling salt on fresh wounds...
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omfg what the fuck is this
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Twxf2LraoEE
anyway....seems like the season for heartbreak here