Club 30's "Kill The Boredom Demon" Jive Pad, 57th Edition
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wtf is that?
Originally posted by av98m:omfg what the fuck is this
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Twxf2LraoEE
anyway....seems like the season for heartbreak here
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av too?? avchus?Originally posted by av98m:omfg what the fuck is this
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Twxf2LraoEE
anyway....seems like the season for heartbreak here 
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Geisha (japan), China wine? bor link leh..
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I'm speechless -_-"Originally posted by the Bear:wtf is that?
I'm sure the city harvest folks are proud of her -_-"
But its popular with the ang mohs so I guess they know what they're doing. -
Originally posted by tare:av too?? avchus?
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u have this kind of dance in the church???? i must go to church one day and see...
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it's just the "cho cho san" factor perhaps ....Originally posted by av98m:I'm speechless -_-"
I'm sure the city harvest folks are proud of her -_-"
But its popular with the ang mohs so I guess they know what they're doing. -
i understand this hint too liao leh..Originally posted by tare:av too?? avchus? -
Hmm for me I like a clean break
As in we don't even keep in contact and have no forms of friendship
That is why I never contact any of my exs
But they still wanna be friends
I think it depends on the individual on what they prefer? -
CK you have to be very firm with your friend
One of my ex turned stalker when we broke up
Me being firm and mean didn't help so I got my friends to talk to him
At least he listened to reason from a 3rd party and stopped his nonsense.
Anyway in the end hor my dad kinda pity him coz he said i was so callous and mean to him.
I told my dad why be nice to him after I dumped him and I dun want to give him any false hopes.
I don't think I did anything wrong
Anyway it was damn stressful being stalked that I fell really ill
Imagine hor your doorbell rings at 7am in the morning coz he buys you breakfast, then your phone rings at 3am in the morning and when he pick up the phone he dun talk etc -
Originally posted by elindra:CK you have to be very firm with your friend
One of my ex turned stalker when we broke up
Me being firm and mean didn't help so I got my friends to talk to him
At least he listened to reason from a 3rd party and stopped his nonsense.
Anyway in the end hor my dad kinda pity him coz he said i was so callous and mean to him.
I told my dad why be nice to him after I dumped him and I dun want to give him any false hopes.
I don't think I did anything wrong
Anyway it was damn stressful being stalked that I fell really ill
Imagine hor your doorbell rings at 7am in the morning coz he buys you breakfast, then your phone rings at 3am in the morning and when he pick up the phone he dun talk etc -
Sometimes, when we are firm, pple think that we are heartless..
wah laoo..
now I have to find someone to tell him....quite duh... -
speaking from the point of a regular rejectee, I do prefer firm rejection with no ambiguityOriginally posted by Celtic Knot:Sometimes, when we are firm, pple think that we are heartless..
wah laoo.. 
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No la tell him directOriginally posted by Celtic Knot:Sometimes, when we are firm, pple think that we are heartless..
wah laoo..
now I have to find someone to tell him....quite duh...
I only involved others coz telling direct didn't work and he turned stalker -
do not be afraid of being hated .....Originally posted by Celtic Knot:Sometimes, when we are firm, pple think that we are heartless..
wah laoo..
now I have to find someone to tell him....quite duh...
think of it this way ..... you can't make the whole world like you, no ? .... -
maybe all these years, i am giving in too much...talk and sms ...chat, eat together...these may be giving him nabey false hopes... my fault my fault ...
I will be firm...sure make the right move this time! -
DunOriginally posted by av98m: leh
It's no fun being stalked ok -
I amOriginally posted by elindra:Dun leh
It's no fun being stalked ok at your stalker 
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Aiya I tell you la guys are really sensitive creatures (sorry guys)Originally posted by Celtic Knot:maybe all these years, i am giving in too much...talk and sms ...chat, eat together...these may be giving him nabey false hopes... my fault my fault ...
I will be firm...sure make the right move this time!
I have this friend too...I think some in Club 30's will known about it.
Good friends, treated him like a brother and we do stupid things together
And I had NO INKLING THAT HE LIKED ME since he is nice to EVERYONE
Plus all the time we were friends I had a BF
Then hor after I broke up with my BF and introduced MPB to him, he lost it coz he went on about how he thought he have a chance now blah blah blah
Then we lost contact for 3 yrs as he went to Melbourne and had his gf etc then he came back to SG and we were normal friends again or so I though
KNS when I told him I was going to get married he went ballistic -_-"
Anyway to cut things short, we are no longer friends
We don't talk to each other or anything although we have mutual friends and our cousins know each other and vs versa.
We still bump into each other online at times coz we are both pretty hardcore gamers and yes he plays WoW too and as chance will have it we play on the same server
Anyway, my point is that guys always say that girls are unfathomable and hard to read but I think likewise.
Like the book says,"Men is from Mars, Women from Venus' -
agreed.....
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that's why so many people say if you like a girl, never ever ever be good friends with her. if not, when your attempted courtship goes awry, there is a friendship at stake as well.
I speak from very painful personal experience.
However, I've never had feelings for someone without being friends first. So I guess that means I'm royally fucked in the ass -
Well, girls start liking a guy when they are friends tooOriginally posted by av98m:that's why so many people say if you like a girl, never ever ever be good friends with her. if not, when your attempted courtship goes awry, there is a friendship at stake as well.
I speak from very painful personal experience.
However, I've never had feelings for someone without being friends first. So I guess that means I'm royally fucked in the ass
The thing is that there are those we think we will fall of them, the brother material, friend material etc -
Never seek to tell thy love ...
love that never can be told ...
for the gentle wind does move ...
silently ... invisibly ....
I told my love, I told my love,
I tole her all my heart ...
Trembling, cold, in ghastly fears ...
Ah ! .. she did depart ...
Soon, she was gone away from me ...
a traveller came by ...
Silenty ... invisibly ...
He took her with a sigh ........................
William Blake .... -
like that die lah... i cannot have guys as very good frineds meh...Originally posted by av98m:that's why so many people say if you like a girl, never ever ever be good friends with her. if not, when your attempted courtship goes awry, there is a friendship at stake as well.
I speak from very painful personal experience.
However, I've never had feelings for someone without being friends first. So I guess that means I'm royally fucked in the ass
then then then...
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Originally posted by Fatum:Never seek to tell thy love ...
love that never can be told ...
for the gentle wind does move ...
silently ... invisibly ....
I told my love, I told my love,
I tole her all my heart ...
Trembling, cold, in ghastly fears ...
Ah ! .. she did depart ...
Soon, she was gone away from me ...
a traveller came by ...
Silenty ... invisibly ...
He took her with a sigh ........................
William Blake ....