Night Owl Chatterboxes - Part XLIV!
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well, hey.. like i said, your call
i think there would be many out there who would give their right arms to be in your position
Originally posted by kopiosatu:i think my payscale doesn't allow me to make that kind of decision -
i rather be a bachelor...Originally posted by Lin Yu:hey kopi.....read this "for kopi eyes only"
at least for now -
actually i think that would be so convenientOriginally posted by kopiosatu:that's super dangerous
anyway remember to invite us to the wedding. probably sometime next month?
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i'm not that cruel either... though my payscale allows me to make that moveOriginally posted by ShrodingersCat:i wouldnt know
but as far as I see it
if the infatuation is really seen as something undesirable
then i think got to 'cut losses'
and stop the cycle of her trying too hard, and you pushing away
and only way to do tt is to stop contact
until either one change their minds -
bloody hell.. these things also can think in terms of convenience?
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between having to guess what the person thinks and feel and the person telling you what she/he thinks and feels. sounds like the 2nd is more convenient?Originally posted by the Bear:bloody hell.. these things also can think in terms of convenience? -
she's like... 21
and i asked her if she has any feelings for him. even during the lunch while talking to him.
she said "still neutral, but happy that someone gave me chocolates. i like chocolates"
that is... cold -
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I think I'm fighting a losing battle with MPB's weight loss program
I came home to find him eating Ayam Penyet today
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can't find this albumOriginally posted by the Bear:
but I love kill the poor. its almost like a PAP anthem -
ahahahahahaha!
unless he really wants to lose weight, you will fail dismallyOriginally posted by elindra:I think I'm fighting a losing battle with MPB's weight loss program
I came home to find him eating Ayam Penyet today -
i don't find it cruel cos I think it allows her to grow up and give upOriginally posted by kopiosatu:i'm not that cruel either... though my payscale allows me to make that move
i find it more cruel actually if you 'egg' her on to someone else
its a loss of dignity for her
and it just becomes a reinforcement for her to try harder with you
cos.. its going to end up "how much do I have to try to tempt him to TRY being in a rship with me?"
make it clear the reason why you are doing it
explain to her and then be firm
you don't have to close the door for friendship somewhere down the road
(in case u change ur mind about SYT) -
u will think otherwise in different stages of life..
maybe u need some time to settle down and sort out your priorites..
and you will eventually understand what you want during that point of time.
but never just "shove" love away just because you have "burdens"..
lovely things/opportunities dun pass u by twice..
you may regret later..Originally posted by kopiosatu:because the last thing i want now is love.
i'm prepared to have no love.
i want my life and money!
i will be overseas, i'll be a broke student.
i'm a super heavy baggage! -
The one at the army market is good.Originally posted by elindra:I think I'm fighting a losing battle with MPB's weight loss program
I came home to find him eating Ayam Penyet today 
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logically convenient.Originally posted by the Bear:bloody hell.. these things also can think in terms of convenience?
emotionally... wrong -
PB not strict enough ar?Originally posted by elindra:I think I'm fighting a losing battle with MPB's weight loss program
I came home to find him eating Ayam Penyet today -
i've got it on CD.... somewhere...
it's a collection of their best stuff like Police Truck, Too Drunk To Fuck, California Uber Allies and Holiday In CambodiaOriginally posted by av98m:can't find this album
but I love kill the poor. its almost like a PAP anthem -
that's the crueliest thing to doOriginally posted by LOTUSfairy:u will think otherwise in different stages of life..
maybe u need some time to settle down and sort out are your priorites..
you will eventually understand what you want during that point of time.
but never just "shove" love away just because you have "burdens"..
lovely things/opportunities dun pass u by twice..
you may regret later.. -
shifting your problems to otherOriginally posted by Lin Yu:that's the crueliest thing to do -
huh? whats wrong with being neutral to some one and being happy she got free chocolates?Originally posted by kopiosatu:she's like... 21
and i asked her if she has any feelings for him. even during the lunch while talking to him.
she said "still neutral, but happy that someone gave me chocolates. i like chocolates"
that is... cold -
there are 2 there... back to back.. i like them both
the one with the purple sign is the branch of the original.. the other one is also good.. and on fridays, they give you a free dessertOriginally posted by fudgester:The one at the army market is good. -
actually when it comes to love
i dont really believe in contingency plans
simply cos.. i would HATE to be someone else's contingency plans
life works out the way it does
give each other a decent amount of time to get to know each other and
I like, I go ahead, we give a fair chance at loving
I don't, then don't waste each other's time - don't have to be nasty about it of course... but don't lead the person on, like you wouldn't want to be led on, I guess
whatever what might happen in future - would just unfold in the future -
again, there is no way we can explain if you do not get it immediately...Originally posted by hisoka:huh? whats wrong with being neutral to some one and being happy she got free chocolates?
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Originally posted by the Bear:again, there is no way we can explain if you do not get it immediately...
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He said I'm trying to kill him with fish soup and healthy salads and steamed chicken -_-"