Night Owl Chatterboxes - Part XLIV!
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nah.. i'm going to be good to Mrs Bear..
i don't know any other way
Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:I guess that's why so important to be not too bad and not too good
keep the balanceeee!!!! -
then u better find a Mrs Bear would would never take that for grantedOriginally posted by the Bear:nah.. i'm going to be good to Mrs Bear..
i don't know any other way
it's not easy, and usually someone like that comes with a lot of wear and tear cos well it takes a lot before people learn to cherish someone who's really good to them. -
one was because of the baby.Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:oh common, i give credit to the men that these psychotic behaviours did not start only AFTER marriage
the evidence were all there when paktor. SO WHY???
the other one was just plain stupidity.
the one with the gf, just enjoys the sex
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oh well,Originally posted by kopiosatu:one was because of the baby.
the other one was just plain stupidity.
the one with the gf, just enjoys the sex
at least 2 out of 3 got a very good reason
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noted. thanks..Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:can borrow this book from library. Its called Erotomania.
Psychosis due to 'love' -
and with people saying stuff like "its different after u get married"
makes me scared to commit or get married at all. -
well, i come with a lot of wear and tear too.. and i'm not just talking about my spineOriginally posted by ShrodingersCat:then u better find a Mrs Bear would would never take that for granted
it's not easy, and usually someone like that comes with a lot of wear and tear cos well it takes a lot before people learn to cherish someone who's really good to them. -
heheheh its ok la.. tts why cannot marry someone who is too perfect before marriage means hiding something...Originally posted by kopiosatu:and with people saying stuff like "its different after u get married"
makes me scared to commit or get married at all.
practise stuff like digging nose and farting in front of each other.. to see all true colours first~ -
Originally posted by the Bear:well, i come with a lot of wear and tear too.. and i'm not just talking about my spine
its ok. usually people's favourite bolster/pillow would be those that are worn out and soft. the new ones just aren't the same. -
now it's scaring me..Originally posted by kopiosatu:and with people saying stuff like "its different after u get married"
makes me scared to commit or get married at all. -
My friend had this problem tooOriginally posted by kopiosatu:but this other colleague doesn't have a psycho partner.
his father is really senile, his younger sis has down syndrome.
he has a 3 yr old kid.
his father and sis is living with them because in the past he decided his father wasn't sane enough to live alone.
so when he takes them out, his mother in law passes a comment like "why do u bring them out?" in a lose-face-seeing-me-in-public-with-them way.
best part is that he argued with his wife over this because his wife supports her mother's opinion.
he comes to work, he has cried over it. he doesn't know what else he can do to make everyone happy and all he does is blame himself.
Her husband expects her to look after his parents, be fillal to them etc etc but he doesn't even show an ouce of concern for her mother even though she was very sick before she died, and didn't even lift a finger to help to pay the medical bills etc ok!!! Or even bring her to the doctor and stuff like that!!!
It's not different.Originally posted by kopiosatu:and with people saying stuff like "its different after u get married"
makes me scared to commit or get married at all.
Like SC said, show your gross side first
I think MPB and I had it the same before and after marriage.
The only thing that changed was his waistline -
i met the hubby doing a lot of camping and trekking. After you've seen each other tired like siao, no fake 'nice' mask on, stinking after not bathing for 3 days - there's not much 'else' to hide.Originally posted by LOTUSfairy: now it's scaring me..
So don't worry. Make sure u spend enough time with the potential spouse doing all those ubin stuff - you'll see the true colours soon enough.
See him with his friends (or her), when VERY tired - i tell u, all the suay kuans come out. -
hahaha ...I will open my eyes big big and see who sayang me well...
and also i am very blur one....may not even see it...Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:i met the hubby doing a lot of camping and trekking. After you've seen each other tired like siao, no fake 'nice' mask on, stinking after not bathing for 3 days - there's not much 'else' to hide.
So don't worry. Make sure u spend enough time with the potential spouse doing all those ubin stuff - you'll see the true colours soon enough. -
Remember har, not sayang u well at start of tripOriginally posted by LOTUSfairy:hahaha ...I will open my eyes big big and see who sayang me well...
must sayang u well when he DAMN TIRED and you DAMN SMELLY. -
my idea of time together is lazing around.Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:i met the hubby doing a lot of camping and trekking. After you've seen each other tired like siao, no fake 'nice' mask on, stinking after not bathing for 3 days - there's not much 'else' to hide.
So don't worry. Make sure u spend enough time with the potential spouse doing all those ubin stuff - you'll see the true colours soon enough.
sloth is my true colour
i'm becoming amateurish when it comes to gluttony. -
hmmm...s
o far, i carry my own stuff and din ask for pple to sayang me even i have to walk for 3 hours in the vegetation/forest with about 13 kg of stuffs @ ubin...
means bor potential ones at ubin...
Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:Remember har, not sayang u well at start of trip
must sayang u well when he DAMN TIRED and you DAMN SMELLY. -
you gotta come makan with us again
can't let you lose your pro status
thinking when can go to a Churrascaria againOriginally posted by kopiosatu:my idea of time together is lazing around.
sloth is my true colour
i'm becoming amateurish when it comes to gluttony. -
I'm the sloth in my 'unit' the hubby is the non-stop worker ant.Originally posted by kopiosatu:my idea of time together is lazing around.
sloth is my true colour
i'm becoming amateurish when it comes to gluttony.
we go camping and i'd sleep all day in my hammock while he non stop do whatever like like cook green bean soup or what. I always ask him why he cannot just NUAH lah.... nuaaahhh...... -
nah my hubby hardly helps me carry my stuff or watever either. He says gotta be independent. unless i beri tired laaaaaaOriginally posted by LOTUSfairy:hmmm...s
o far, i carry my own stuff and din ask for pple to sayang me even i have to walk for 3 hours in the vegetation/forest with about 13 kg of stuffs @ ubin...
means bor potential ones at ubin... 
its the small things - like washing the mess tin after a damn tiring day. or walking to get water to cook to save you a walk. small stuff like this.
and you know u can tell especially if u go with a group. The guys who would do this quietly simply cos they know it needs to be done, and those who prefer to enjoy time sianing charbor. -
hmm...i think i am quite okay... i am the same usual me...
an open book and very chor-lor for a lady ....Originally posted by elindra:It's not different.
Like SC said, show your gross side first
I think MPB and I had it the same before and after marriage.
The only thing that changed was his waistline -
newton's first law of motion is what is at rest, remains at rest
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eh i was just thinking about that recently.Originally posted by the Bear:you gotta come makan with us again
can't let you lose your pro status
thinking when can go to a Churrascaria again
the thought of clearing the plate makes me salivate.
the downside is the green tea piss
if i ever get to talk to the 21 yr old again (that's if she isn't pissed with me already)
i'll ask her to come along. -
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Originally posted by elindra:
It's not different.
Like SC said, show your gross side first
I think MPB and I had it the same before and after marriage.
The only thing that changed was his waistline
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Aiya.. i think for us.. both our waistlines changed. Heng ah. -
okay.. you can go there and scare the hell out of her
we'll help tooOriginally posted by kopiosatu:eh i was just thinking about that recently.
the thought of clearing the plate makes me salivate.
the downside is the green tea piss
if i ever get to talk to the 21 yr old again (that's if she isn't pissed with me already)
i'll ask her to come along. -
hmm...oki..i will open my eyes even bigger when i go for the field trip...
must be observant...Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:nah my hubby hardly helps me carry my stuff or watever either. He says gotta be independent.
its the small things - like washing the mess tin after a damn tiring day. or walking to get water to cook to save you a walk. small stuff like this.
and you know u can tell especially if u go with a group. The guys who would do this quietly simply cos they know it needs to be done, and those who prefer to enjoy time sianing charbor.