Club 30's "Kill The Boredom Demon" Jive Pad, 76th Edition

• Fatum

  31 Mar 08, 11:56

  that's in the USA .. it's in Singapore ... I don't agree with single parent hood by choice at all ....

  to me ... if you knock a girl up ... you jolly be a man about it and take responsibilities, including marrying her ....

   

• laurence82

  31 Mar 08, 11:56

  i am expecting

• Rhonda

  31 Mar 08, 11:57

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  *tries not to say anything about cult leader and PRC*

  anyway, who the hell is this "maia" person?

  You'd better not dare!!! 

• Fatum

  31 Mar 08, 11:57

  Originally posted by elindra:

  Btw those professional PRC men who worked overseas for many years have this certain aversion for their own girls .

  The most common comment is good to look, maybe good to fark but they have no inner beauty

  I was like

  hohoho .. you should see PRC guys try to go after white chicks ... it's so funny it's embaressing and tragic ... and it makes me want to slink away and hide my chinese face .....

   

• Fatum

  31 Mar 08, 11:58

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  i am expecting

  you're just bloated

• the Bear

  31 Mar 08, 11:58

  Originally posted by elindra:

  
  She was the 1st season Singapore Idol contestant

  This heavily tattooed girl who was a single mum with a son

  Now she is a single mum with a son and pregnant

  
  okay.. uhhh... so?

  her stupidity or inability to use contraceptives is a matter for discussion?

  or derision?

  or maybe just general disinterest...

  i vote disinterest.. because i don't know who she is, and care even less

• elindra

  31 Mar 08, 11:58

  Originally posted by Fatum:

  that's in the USA .. it's in Singapore ... I don't agree with single parent hood by choice at all ....

  to me ... if you knock a girl up ... you jolly be a man about it and take responsibilities, including marrying her ....

   

  
  How many guys is that responsible?

  Most guys just wanna fark and have fun

  And if their gf gets pregnant they give the girl money for abortion

  Some just disappear and don't even do that

   

• the Bear

  31 Mar 08, 11:59

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  i am expecting

  
  hmmm... an anal pregnancy..

  how quaint... 

• Rhonda

  31 Mar 08, 11:59

  Originally posted by fudgester:

  All I have to say about Maia is this....

  I hope she realises that 'friends with benefits' is not a good way to conceive and raise a child.

  Call me traditional, call me old-fashioned..... but the way I see it, the best way to raise a child is in a nuclear family.... with a mommy and daddy who are married together.

  If mom and dad are constantly fighting and arguing and calling each other names, then it's best for both to go their separate ways rather than let the kids grow up in such a nasty environment. 

  The traditional scenario you described, is idealistic and sadly, in this day and age, is becoming harder and harder to find.

• elindra

  31 Mar 08, 12:00

  Originally posted by Fatum:

  hohoho .. you should see PRC guys try to go after white chicks ... it's so funny it's embaressing and tragic ... and it makes me want to slink away and hide my chinese face .....

   

  
  I think they just want a ticket to a green card :P

  And Bear I'm not interested in the discussion too because we can talk about values to death and what is best for children but ultimately it is her own personoal choice and values and seriously it is not up to anyone to say if she is right or wrong

• Rhonda

  31 Mar 08, 12:01

  Originally posted by Fatum:

  that's in the USA .. it's in Singapore ... I don't agree with single parent hood by choice at all ....

  to me ... if you knock a girl up ... you jolly be a man about it and take responsibilities, including marrying her ....

   

  There aren't a lot of responsible men out there anymore.    Besides, what makes you think that a marriage on that basis would work out well in the end? 

  Anyways, I found it funny when a Singaporean friend who's lived in Australia for several years tell me to forget about friendships with Aussie men because they don't quite understand friendships with the opposite sex and they just want one thing. 

• Fatum

  31 Mar 08, 12:05

  Originally posted by Rhonda:

  There aren't a lot of responsible men out there anymore.    Besides, what makes you think that a marriage on that basis would work out well in the end? 

  Anyways, I found it funny when a Singaporean friend who's lived in Australia for several years tell me to forget about friendships with Aussie men because they don't quite understand friendships with the opposite sex and they just want one thing. 

  marriage is not just a union of two persons alone ... in this case, it's about bringing up the kid in a two parent environment ...

  I think it's important to remember that when a woman gets pregnant, it's no longer about her life anymore ... it's another another newly created life too .... that's why parenthood is sacred ...

  that the prick farker came out and said it he doesn't want to be in a relationship and wouldn't come to Singapore because Thailand is where the money is, and he wants to concentrate on his career ....

  it's not fair of course ... that after both have farked, only one has to deal with the consequences ... but I think both had it coming ...

• Ferret

  31 Mar 08, 12:08

  Originally posted by Fatum:

  that's in the USA .. it's in Singapore ... I don't agree with single parent hood by choice at all ....

  to me ... if you knock a girl up ... you jolly be a man about it and take responsibilities, including marrying her ....

   

  Even if guy wants, girl may not want leh...

• the Bear

  31 Mar 08, 12:09

  aiyah.. like i said, the SPCA will ensure that you are responsible enough to look after a pet before they let you adopt one, but any irresponsible maladjusted braindeath has to right to bear a child...

• elindra

  31 Mar 08, 12:09

  Marriage is a union of 2 families :P

  If not in the past why is it such a big deal if the 2 families are not of an equal footing

• the Bear

  31 Mar 08, 12:10

  Originally posted by elindra:

  Marriage is a union of 2 families :P

  If not in the past why is it such a big deal if the 2 families are not of an equal footing

  
  families?

  hmmm.. isn't that why Lau Lee made his son marry a man?

• elindra

  31 Mar 08, 12:11

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  
  families?

  hmmm.. isn't that why Lau Lee made his son marry a man?

  
  Ya la that too :P

• elindra

  31 Mar 08, 12:12

  I'm so tired I wanna sleep

• Ferret

  31 Mar 08, 12:13

  baccccoooonnnn

• the Bear

  31 Mar 08, 12:14

  how come Lau Lee and his clan remind me so much of the Borgias?

• elindra

  31 Mar 08, 12:16

  Bacon my boss not in yet~~~

  Yeah I know Bear you said that before.

• Rhonda

  31 Mar 08, 12:17

  Heading off to my ECG Interpretation course now!    I hope I can pay attention... 

• the Bear

  31 Mar 08, 12:19

  Originally posted by Rhonda:

  Heading off to my ECG Interpretation course now!    I hope I can pay attention... 

  
  if it looks like waves = patient alive

  if it looks like staight line = patient dead

  

• Fatum

  31 Mar 08, 12:37

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  
  if it looks like waves = patient alive

  if it looks like staight line = patient dead

  

  that's what I told her on msn before ...

• the Bear

  31 Mar 08, 13:58

  attempted to stop my heart during lunchtime..

  ate $3 char kway teow + $1 cockles.. asked the dude to use the bloody water in the noodles..

  yum