Originally posted by elindra:Fatum your thinking is kinda old-fashioned I think
Virginity is over-rated
i'm no prude when it comes to such things ..... it's not even really about virginity here ....
but the fact remains that the ladies are at the loosing end of such a "relationship" if things goes shower ...
men are the butterflies ... we squirt and go ... pardon the description ....
women are the flowers .... they do bear the consequences, like it or not ....
Originally posted by Fatum:i'm no prude when it comes to such things ..... it's not even really about virginity here ....
but the fact remains that the ladies are at the loosing end of such a "relationship" if things goes shower ...
men are the butterflies ... we squirt and go ... pardon the description ....
women are the flowers .... they do bear the consequences, like it or not ....
That depends if the lady is the rose or a venus fly trap ![]()
So what can a woman do except protect herself and know her cards
However the problem with a lot of girls is that they let emotion rule their head
I see that Pinky's added her say to the thread about the Chinese girl started by a moron. ![]()
Originally posted by Kuali Baba:I see that Pinky's added her say to the thread about the Chinese girl started by a moron.
Seriously if they don't have the balls to recognize competition in it's face
I think they deserve to die and rot in poverty -_-"
Originally posted by Fatum:i'm no prude when it comes to such things ..... it's not even really about virginity here ....
but the fact remains that the ladies are at the loosing end of such a "relationship" if things goes shower ...
men are the butterflies ... we squirt and go ... pardon the description ....
women are the flowers .... they do bear the consequences, like it or not ....
u nvr seen man used as roberts and sex toys and get dumped thereafter by gal har? for reference pls go to AA... hahahahahahaha
Originally posted by tare:u nvr seen man used as roberts and sex toys and get dumped thereafter by gal har? for reference pls go to AA... hahahahahahaha
That is why I said it depends if the girl is a rose or venus fly trap ma
Hahahahhaha :P
In the same post that girl posted, a guy was lamenting he kenna robert and cheated of his life savings by this girl
that's why I say, men can only be cheated of their hearts and their money .... and that's about it ...
trust me .... when the chap's drowning his sorrows at the bar with the boys .... he'll be saying "well boys .... at least I bonked her .... i gave it to her good " ......
I ate three bananas, and orange, and a cup of carrot juice for breakfast this morning ....
but I'm nearly fainting with hunger now .. >.< !
fruit are not as filling as animal protein eh .....
just woke up.. gong to camp soon.![]()
Originally posted by Fatum:that's why I say, men can only be cheated of their hearts and their money .... and that's about it ...
trust me .... when the chap's drowning his sorrows at the bar with the boys .... he'll be saying "well boys .... at least I bonked her .... i gave it to her good " ......
Trust me whatever u said doesn't work on the Venus Fly Trap
Most prob the guy is being used for sex as well and most prob she will be drinking champage with the girls saying "You know, I'm so glad I finally dumped him. He sux in bed and it's called Mr Teenie for a reason"
And guess what? The guy is the one nursing a broken heart & an empty wallet.
Do you think a girl who played a guy will be upset because she lost her 'virginity' to him???
sounds like experience.![]()
Originally posted by elindra:
Trust me whatever u said doesn't work on the Venus Fly TrapMost prob the guy is being used for sex as well and most prob she will be drinking champage with the girls saying "You know, I'm so glad I finally dumped him. He sux in bed and it's called Mr Teenie for a reason"
And guess what? The guy is the one nursing a broken heart & an empty wallet.
Do you think a girl who played a guy will be upset because she lost her 'virginity' to him???
certainly not ... but my point is simply that the guy certainly wouldn't feel that he's been "cheated" sexually ....
he would never feel that he's been "cheated" in the sexual sense ... ![]()
Originally posted by stellazio:sounds like experience.
If you have a few friends who are man-eaters
Yeah
And I hate to say this too but these days there are more sexually aggressive females around who don't even think twice about making use of a man for sex ![]()
Originally posted by Fatum:certainly not ... but my point is simply that the guy certainly wouldn't feel that he's been "cheated" sexually ....
he would never feel that he's been "cheated" in the sexual sense ...
I wouldn't say that seriously
There are times too that a man feels 'used'
Depends on how the girl dumps him too
Of course maybe if all guys think that free sex = better than no sex than maybe
But not all think that way
Originally posted by Fatum:certainly not ... but my point is simply that the guy certainly wouldn't feel that he's been "cheated" sexually ....
he would never feel that he's been "cheated" in the sexual sense ...
thr are gals tat just want sex from a guy.. and when she doesn't get it how she wants it, she can just walk out leaving the guy hanging (literally)... and if she doesn't like it, she won't be using it again...
but but what if the girl gives the guy her virginity because she's truely in love with him.. ahhh that must hurt..
Originally posted by stellazio:but but what if the girl gives the guy her virginity because she's truely in love with him.. ahhh that must hurt..
it'll hurt even if the role is reverse... gender doesn't make it less painful if true love is involved lah...
Originally posted by tare:
it'll hurt even if the role is reverse... gender doesn't make it less painful if true love is involved lah...
yah i know, but i mean guys don't really treasure virginity as much ma..
but this pilot once told me, its not good to be a SAM (sex after marriage) cause what if you find out that you're incompatible in bed..![]()
Originally posted by stellazio:yah i know, but i mean guys don't really treasure virginity as much ma..
but this pilot once told me, its not good to be a SAM (sex after marriage) cause what if you find out that you're incompatible in bed..
*coughs*
Actually as a female, I agree with what that pilot told you too
The saving for marriage bit with the man you love is very sweet and naive
But being incompatible in bed is a nightmare
Originally posted by tare:
it'll hurt even if the role is reverse... gender doesn't make it less painful if true love is involved lah...
you know what really hurts for a guy .... what can really make a man go blind with a killing rage .... or make him throw himself off a building ? ....
it's the mental image of the woman that they love bonking another man ....
it's okay to use us for sex .... but what will set us men off the edge of reason .... is the knowledge that you're doing it with everyone else too ....
Originally posted by elindra:
*coughs*Actually as a female, I agree with what that pilot told you too
The saving for marriage bit with the man you love is very sweet and naive
But being incompatible in bed is a nightmare
damn, all my aspirations to be a SAM goes out of the window..
Originally posted by stellazio:damn, all my aspirations to be a SAM goes out of the window..
You better make sure your wife is a SAM too man
If not ar -_-"
Comparisons tend to arise
Originally posted by Fatum:you know what really hurts for a guy .... what can really make a man go blind with a killing rage .... or make him throw himself off a building ? ....
it's the mental image of the woman that they love bonking another man ....
it's okay to use us for sex .... but what will set us men off the edge of reason .... is the knowledge that you're doing it with everyone else too ....
if u chose to love a woman who u know is using u for sex, u should have the mental preparation of it... if not, stay away... if u can't play by the rules, dun start the game...
plus if she can use u for sex, wat's stopping her to do the same to others? dun be too egoistic abt ur *ahem*
the same applies for the opposite gender too...
In the end how you well or badly you come away depends on your self-worth and what you base it on, be it your ability to make your partner happy or your own satisfaction.
alright guys, off to camp now for my first ever solo ops manning mission.. ![]()