I rather raise little chinchillas
the biggest gamble anyone can take is having a kid. LOL~
u lose the most money and u never know if its a gain or loss until 20-30 yrs later.
its worse than insurance!
Originally posted by fudgester:*me drops by*
At Suntec now.
They provided free internet terminals at this water conference I'm at.
Oh, and thanks for the suit, Fatum. Wearing it right now as we speak.
Oh, my sister is working there too. Can't remember what the booth is called, except that it has popcorn. ![]()
I recently watched a TV program about these kids with too much skin. I feel so sorry for them.
People just take it for granted for having normal and healthy baby all the time.... Some people simply don't know how to appreciate like the parents of the 18 month old twins in Brisbane who starved to death in their bedroom. So sad!
Originally posted by elindra:
Coz most guys want a son and not a daughterBut I do know quite a number of guys who would prefer to have a little girl because they feel that girls are more obedient and have the parents in the heart more than a son and girls come out into the workforce earlier than boys if you wanna look at the monetary side of things
i doubt i'll ever have a kid. it's a gut feel kinda thingy that i've had since i was a kid
Originally posted by elindra:
That suxYa it will be the full works
And seriously I don't have the energy even now to run after a screaming kid
And the horror of going home to a screaming kid @@
One morning, when I crossed the road to 7-Eleven's to buy the papers, this mom parked her car, abruptly opened the car door behind her, and yelled at the three kids strapped into car seats, "YOU GUYS BETTER STOP THE COMMOTION BY THE TIME I GET OUT OF THERE! YOU GET IT? STOP!! JUST STOP!!"
Then she slammed the door on three open-mouthed shocked kids and apologised to me for shouting. ![]()
Originally posted by kopiosatu:the biggest gamble anyone can take is having a kid. LOL~
u lose the most money and u never know if its a gain or loss until 20-30 yrs later.
its worse than insurance!
If you look at it this way the stakes are raised higher and higher with every passing day
Originally posted by elindra:
That suxYa it will be the full works
And seriously I don't have the energy even now to run after a screaming kid
And the horror of going home to a screaming kid @@
I'm curious. How come you always focus on the negative and not the positive? Not a criticism, just an observation.
My kids weren't the screaming type. They are still super mellow and even tempered. Yours could be the same or better?
Originally posted by Rhonda:One morning, when I crossed the road to 7-Eleven's to buy the papers, this mom parked her car, abruptly opened the car door behind her, and yelled at the three kids strapped into car seats, "YOU GUYS BETTER STOP THE COMMOTION BY THE TIME I GET OUT OF THERE! YOU GET IT? STOP!! JUST STOP!!"
Then she slammed the door on three open-mouthed shocked kids and apologised to me for shouting.
Sounds like something I'll do
LOL
Originally posted by Ferret: Let me try making myself clearer here...If it was someone else saying that he think sg girls are all cmi, i wouldnt bother. After all, why the hell would i care abt a stranger ? However, as it were, I know you.
Yes, you may " do it in front of Fifi, i do it in front of churra, audlenelee and everyone who knows me in forums"
I do not know whether they get offended or not. Or is it that they chose not to tell it to your face. Like I said before, I find it more.."correct" to say things to you if i do know you. So when I am telling you that I am offended that you keep dissing the majority of sg girls, thats a personal opinion.
No, I am not gonna try to convince you that sg girls are not cmi. Some are, some are not. Unfortunately as it is for you, you seem to have encountered most of the wrong kind.
Once again, let me repeat, when you say "most", although you had specifically excluded those you know, does not exclude those I know. And thats what made me extremely uncomfortable. And its with this that I chose to inform you of it.
i don't need to explain myself anymore.
i am this close to "middle finger, f- off"
Originally posted by jetta:But your kid will be soooo cute!!!
imagine a little elindra .... endless fun .... ![]()
Originally posted by elindra:
If you look at it this way the stakes are raised higher and higher with every passing day
i wonder who's monitoring the odds? God?
Originally posted by kopiosatu:the biggest gamble anyone can take is having a kid. LOL~
u lose the most money and u never know if its a gain or loss until 20-30 yrs later.
its worse than insurance!
Hanor! I look at myself and I feel kinda sorry and feel I've let mom and dad down. ![]()
But then ah, given a choice, I either wouldn't want to be born in the first place, or I'd rather be born rich. ![]()
Originally posted by jetta:I'm curious. How come you always focus on the negative and not the positive? Not a criticism, just an observation.
My kids weren't the screaming type. They are still super mellow and even tempered. Yours could be the same or better?
Because I know what kind of kid I was and what kind of kid MPB was
And usually they take after their parents
And also because I'm always surrounded by really awful children which I feel like killing along with their parents
So my idea of a child is nothing less than a monster and super icky too
Originally posted by av98m:I rather raise little chinchillas
that sounds...
wrong.
more wrong than fatums... little fatums
Originally posted by Rhonda:Hanor! I look at myself and I feel kinda sorry and feel I've let mom and dad down.
But then ah, given a choice, I either wouldn't want to be born in the first place, or I'd rather be born rich.
born rich? is that an option? LOL! ![]()
Originally posted by InnoHippo:imagine a little elindra .... endless fun ....
No that is not endless fun
That's an endless nightmare
Originally posted by jetta:I'm curious. How come you always focus on the negative and not the positive? Not a criticism, just an observation.
My kids weren't the screaming type. They are still super mellow and even tempered. Yours could be the same or better?
because she was a horror as a kid ![]()
Originally posted by elindra:
Sounds like something I'll doLOL
She was a tad freaky too! She seems to use my kinda strategy ... the intimidate with helluva lotta noise and fury strategy because she apologised to me in such a muted, toned-down manner immediately after shouting at the top of her voice! ![]()
Like how I disciplined my cats... psychological warfare. ![]()
Now if children came out along as teenagers or adults
I don't have any issues with that
Originally posted by jetta:I'm curious. How come you always focus on the negative and not the positive? Not a criticism, just an observation.
My kids weren't the screaming type. They are still super mellow and even tempered. Yours could be the same or better?
its a genetic thing...
that's why i rather not have kids. i wouldn't be able to handle myself as a child.
Originally posted by Rhonda:She was a tad freaky too! She seems to use my kinda strategy ... the intimidate with helluva lotta noise and fury strategy because she apologised to me in such a muted, toned-down manner immediately after shouting at the top of her voice!
Like how I disciplined my cats... psychological warfare.
I do that to my dog also la
It's really psychological warfare and I stick with my punishments
When I say I'm throwing away that toy if you don't keep it, I mean it
Originally posted by kopiosatu:born rich? is that an option? LOL!
Nope. Therefore, whenever I start feeling sorry, I think, was it an option to be born? ![]()
Originally posted by elindra:Now if children came out along as teenagers or adults
I don't have any issues with that
and where would the cuteness go?
people like puppies more than doggies.
kittens more than cats. ![]()
babies over... teenagers who get pregnant.
Originally posted by kopiosatu:its a genetic thing...
that's why i rather not have kids. i wouldn't be able to handle myself as a child.
SAME
I tell you I will seriously commit child abuse if my child goes around drawing on walls and flooding the toliet and taking things apart!!!
I dunno how my mummy put up with me ><