Originally posted by tare:
watever comparison u r making, doesn't make any god-damn sense!!!!!
*pats .....
it's really like what mousie put it I guess ... relationships are a gamble ... you'd never know what kind of hand you'd get ...
marriage is a crapshoot.
Originally posted by kopiosatu:shit, why NSFs keep adding me in facbook
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Originally posted by ä¸�如就æ»:my good friend's husband is like that. She was pregnant.. while he had affair. She din know until she gave birth then went to stay at her parents place for confinement. One day, the husband's father or her dad (i forgot) went to their place to get something then found the husband in bed with another woman!!!
After that, very nasty divorce. The husband came over to drive off the car in the middle of the night to sell it nxt day. And he even wanted the custody of the kid. When he never even paid a single cent for the kid and never even seen the kid!!!
bastard he is!
Wah liao eh
How is yr friend now
What a bastard!
*decides to wear a cap for jog ....... ![]()
shucks, how am I going to go out with a loopsided haircut ... ![]()
Originally posted by Fatum:well .... I'm not sure if adultery is considered "love" ... or lust .....
but I think more importantly, relationship is a two way street .... people in couplehood often lose the "magic" in their relationships ..... and (I'm not saying that it's right to cheat !) .. looking at some of the nagging, complaining, screeching fishwives around, you know that the men's been suffering for the longest time too ... have you seen those kopitiam unker types meekly following a loud, screeching, sqawking aunty ? ....
treat your man like a dog to be kicked around, then don't be surprised when he strays ....
treat your wifey like a doormat-cum-maid-cum-warm-body-in-bed, don't be surprised when she runs away with her personal trainer too ..... it's a two way street, I think ...
this is just very extreme cases...
most of the times.. its not just treating the spouses bad then they have affair...
Originally posted by elindra:
Wah liao ehHow is yr friend now
What a bastard!
he was really bad..
my friend went up to his place to take back her stuff, they started quarrelling.. his whole family scold her.. then he threw a glass of water/tea at her..
!!!!!
lots of other examples and cases.. mostly i forgot already.. but he is one big jerk..
Originally posted by ä¸�如就æ»:he was really bad..
my friend went up to his place to take back her stuff, they started quarrelling.. his whole family scold her.. then he threw a glass of water/tea at her..
!!!!!
lots of other examples and cases.. mostly i forgot already.. but he is one big jerk..
so the whole family is made up of assholes? or has he been badmouthing her behind her back to his family all this while and painting himself as a victim?
Originally posted by ä¸�如就æ»:this is just very extreme cases...
most of the times.. its not just treating the spouses bad then they have affair...
Especially nowadays most people spend more time at work more than at home.... so they are more likely to whinge about their work issues with their colleagues. This is how office affair started most of the times.
i shall remain single
hmm I guess maybe I should be happy and content with my sheep and my chinchilla. both will never abandon me ![]()
Originally posted by av98m:
so the whole family is made up of assholes? or has he been badmouthing her behind her back to his family all this while and painting himself as a victim?
MIL of coz side with the son..
the father-in-law is a bit better... but diam diam because the MIL ask him to keep quiet.
But he did want to pass some $ to my friend to raise her daughter.. but my friend refused..
Originally posted by kopiosatu:i shall remain single
*quote for future blackmail opportunities*
Originally posted by honeymouse:Especially nowadays most people spend more time at work more than at home.... so they are more likely to whinge about their work issues with their colleagues. This is how office affair started most of the times.
yup.. imagine.. we spend most of our waking hours in the office..
we probably see our colleagues a lot more than our family!!
Originally posted by ä¸�如就æ»:MIL of coz side with the son..
the father-in-law is a bit better... but diam diam because the MIL ask him to keep quiet.
But he did want to pass some $ to my friend to raise her daughter.. but my friend refused..
Must be some ball-less man spoilt rotten by the mum
Originally posted by elindra:
Must be some ball-less man spoilt rotten by the mum
yah!!!
Originally posted by elindra:
Must be some ball-less man spoilt rotten by the mum
INDEED
Originally posted by ä¸�如就æ»:yah!!!
Usually la
KNS in the wrong still quarrel
Must be hiding behind mummy's skirt
Originally posted by ä¸�如就æ»:yup.. imagine.. we spend most of our waking hours in the office..
we probably see our colleagues a lot more than our family!!
ok. now I really feel depressed.
Originally posted by av98m:
ok. now I really feel depressed.
what's wrong?
woah...don't paint all those gloomy pictures
Originally posted by av98m:
ok. now I really feel depressed.
That is why a lot of ppl divorce when both of them reitre coz they cannot live with each other :x
Originally posted by av98m:
*quote for future blackmail opportunities*
shotgun no count
wah lao~ half a bowl of rice and i'm full already!
that's also probably one reason not to get hitched - ie don't do it just becasue of the kid(s) coz the kid(s) stay with you only maybe 20 years. you've got another 30 years with each other when the kid(s) leave the house - you better like one another coz you'll probably spend more time together than with the kid(s).