Club 30's "Kill the Boredom Demon" Jive Pad, 97th Edition
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well ... I think I'd get very mad at any exes that attempts to contact my wifey as a hubster ....... even if it's just to say hi and LTNS .....
but that's just me .... -_-
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Originally posted by Fatum:
well ... I think I'd get very mad at any exes that attempts to contact my wifey as a hubster ....... even if it's just to say hi and LTNS .....
but that's just me .... -_-
You don't trust your wifey issitOr maybe I trust MPB too much
I allow him to go out drinking alone with his female friend that the pub owner thought that she was his wife. Haha
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But I think all my exs have memories of elephants
So many years liao he still remember my old pager number, where my dad worked etc -_-
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Originally posted by elindra:
You don't trust your wifey issitOr maybe I trust MPB too much
I allow him to go out drinking alone with his female friend that the pub owner thought that she was his wife. Haha
don't blame me for it ..... blame the wome who have cheated on me behind my back .......
to me, trust is something to be learnt, something that grows ... it's not total and implicit from day one .....
at least, not to me any longer .....
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Originally posted by Fatum:
don't blame me for it ..... blame the wome who have cheated on me behind my back .......
to me, trust is something to be learnt, something that grows ... it's not total and implicit from day one .....
at least, not to me any longer .....
But it doesn't mean that some cheat, all cheats on u, u know -
Originally posted by elindra:
But it doesn't mean that some cheat, all cheats on u, u knowof course not ..... the world would be a very sad place for me if they all do .......
but when do you start protecting yourself ? .... after once ? .... twice ? .... three times ? .....
I've gone beyond that number already .... to do otherwise would make me a fool, neh ? ...
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Originally posted by Fatum:
of course not ..... the world would be a very sad place for me if they all do .......
but when do you start protecting yourself ? .... after once ? .... twice ? .... three times ? .....
I've gone beyond that number already .... to do otherwise would make me a fool, neh ? ...
Actually come to think of itMe and my exs had a very open relationship
That is why when we decide to move on, it's usually a mutual agreement with no sore feelings except for 2 of them
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I think any relationships that's too open, would never last .....
if a man can tolerate his SO to be too close and chummy with other men outside of the relationship .... that means that she doesn't really mean that much to him in the first place, and vice versa ......
alarm bells should ring .....
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Originally posted by Fatum:
of course not ..... the world would be a very sad place for me if they all do .......
but when do you start protecting yourself ? .... after once ? .... twice ? .... three times ? .....
I've gone beyond that number already .... to do otherwise would make me a fool, neh ? ...
well....I can understand.Personally, I still prefer the approach of believing people are trustworthy until they prove themselves otherwise. As much as it is possible I try not to inflict my emotional baggage on others. But it is hard, definitely.
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morning ........
I see missy ....
*pounces ! ....
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it's wednesday...
and already looking forward to the weekend
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Originally posted by Fatum:
don't blame me for it ..... blame the wome who have cheated on me behind my back .......
to me, trust is something to be learnt, something that grows ... it's not total and implicit from day one .....
at least, not to me any longer .....
You know what, Fatum... sometimes, we ourselves get embroiled with certain people and end up facing the same kinda scenario again and again. If you can identify a pattern, it means that you're doing something wrong, like for instance, looking for the wrong kind of girl. Maybe, on a subconscious level, you keep on seeking the kind of girl who will inevitably cheat on you and dump you.
Ask Pinky Bear, who has been soooo patient with me, and so very wise... I'm a sucker for a certain type of man - the asshole types!
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Originally posted by elindra:
Actually come to think of itMe and my exs had a very open relationship
That is why when we decide to move on, it's usually a mutual agreement with no sore feelings except for 2 of them
Hmm... I'd gladly talk to all of my ex's except one. I'm actually really good friends with my college ex... and he's married with kids.
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good point.
ok, time to go to the clinic.
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maybe .... I am masochistic ? .......
dot dot dot .....
ah well ..... bad thing to think about on a morning ....
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Originally posted by Fatum:
I think any relationships that's too open, would never last .....
if a man can tolerate his SO to be too close and chummy with other men outside of the relationship .... that means that she doesn't really mean that much to him in the first place, and vice versa ......
alarm bells should ring .....
OMG Fatum... there is NO way that any ONE person can fulfill a woman's full spectrum of needs!! And vice versa too!!
It would be incredibly boring and restrictive if you can only communicate and go out with ONE man for the rest of your life!!
In fact, I used to advocate what you're advocating now - total and unquestionable exclusivity. BUT, over the years, I've grown up and come to understand that actually, I much wish that there could be multiple relationships - some men are good as lovers, others good to talk heart-to-heart with, and yet others make good providers, but no one man can be EVERYTHING!
Just like no one woman can be EVERYTHING either. Different people play different roles in our lives. And whilst one can remain faithful in a marriage, it's sheer folly to cut off communication and ties with ALL the other friends of the opposite sex in their lives! -
Originally posted by Fatum:
maybe .... I am masochistic ? .......
dot dot dot .....
ah well ..... bad thing to think about on a morning ....
You actually seem terribly terribly insecure. You seem to have a morbid, paralyzing fear that the one you love will leave you and thus you base all your thoughts using that reference point.
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Originally posted by av98m: good point.
ok, time to go to the clinic.
Clinic? Why ah?
I'm heading to the Sleep Disorders Clinic this afternoon. I chose a Dr who's very popular at work and I've seen her in action and love her wonderful bedside manners.
Finally!! I look forward to sleeping well again and having this heavy cloud of murkiness lift from my mind so I can think fast again!
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oh. heehee. hihi rhonda.
i have a question. if you don't mind...>.<
um...see. in Canada, they say you have to be 110 pounds to be able to donate blood. I'm about 100 pounds. will they still let me donate? why the 110 pounds? In Singapore all you need to be is 45kg. about 100 pounds.....
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Morning...
Perhaps I've become cynical, but I think relationships are overrated.
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posted this last night ..... I thought I saw a crazy ang moh ......
and yes ... it turned out to be another mad british .......
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_depth/7656537.stm
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i'm cynical about cynics...
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Originally posted by udontknowme:
oh. heehee. hihi rhonda.
i have a question. if you don't mind...>.<
um...see. in Canada, they say you have to be 110 pounds to be able to donate blood. I'm about 100 pounds. will they still let me donate? why the 110 pounds? In Singapore all you need to be is 45kg. about 100 pounds.....
I think they are referring to Caucasians, and Caucasians do use a different BMI and such.
I was just trying to convince a colleague that a Size 12 Caucasian is different from a Size 12 Asian because the Caucasian might look 'alright' and average, but the Asian of the same size would have more fat simply because the bone structure, build, muscles, etc would vary.
Go ask the nurses in Canada or the blood bank staff.
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I'm cynical about my cynicism ..... I have this feeling that I'm just waiting to be a sucker all over again ....
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hmm.....yeahh...hope they'll lemme donate. tsk.
fatum! did you ever donate blood while you were in school in Canada?? The blood bank is coming to my school on thursday....=P