Club 30's"Kill the Boredom Demon" Jive Pad,100th Edition

• av98m

  29 Oct 08, 18:39

  Originally posted by kopiosatu:

  i think one of my friend has it good

  through previous relationships, he laid down the law for his current one

  he will only meet the gf ONCE a week

  for the rest of the 6 days, she can only call him... while he continues with his work, studies, playing guitar, drinking beer, hanging out with his friends.

  but he will surely meet her on that one day.

  and they've been together for... i think 2+ yrs?

  
  steady!

• elindra

  29 Oct 08, 18:40

  The thing is I always ask my brother how come your friend married her

  Because she was a mental bitch even when they were dating....

  His friend is a very  nice guy and handsome too

  I dunno maybe he loves her in his own way *shrugs*

   

  It's hard for an outsider to know how the things click for a couple

   

  I mean like Rhonda have always commented that I'm married but it seems like I'm single. Some of my friends think I give MPB too much freedom allowing him to go out alone with his female friend etc but I don't think there is anything wrong in trusting him.

  I always tell him that it's up to him to  break the trust and what not :P

  I don't think I'm flirting with danger because if he really wants to cheat, he can still do so without you knowing

• cassie

  29 Oct 08, 18:41

  Originally posted by kopiosatu:

  i think one of my friend has it good

  through previous relationships, he laid down the law for his current one

  he will only meet the gf ONCE a week

  for the rest of the 6 days, she can only call him... while he continues with his work, studies, playing guitar, drinking beer, hanging out with his friends.

  but he will surely meet her on that one day.

  and they've been together for... i think 2+ yrs?

  i think even after marriage, partners should still set aside a day to be together - only them, minus the kids, in-laws etc and zero discussion about kids, family. which is my thinking of why people should stay together for what they have/share. not the kids. if you're only yapping about the kids...means what??? nothing else in common?

   

• kopiosatu

  29 Oct 08, 18:41

  Originally posted by av98m:

  
  steady!

  sometimes he'll call me out to catch up on things and i ask him "no need to meet your gf?"

  "no need, she only can meet me once a week. tomorrow i'm meeting her"

• av98m

  29 Oct 08, 18:41

  actually pinky, I see you and mpb as an example of a good marriage and hope that I will be as fortunate one day.

• elindra

  29 Oct 08, 18:42

  Originally posted by cassie:

  i think even after marriage, partners should still set aside a day to be together - only them, minus the kids, in-laws etc and zero discussion about kids, family. which is my thinking of why people should stay together for what they have/share. not the kids. if you're only yapping about the kids...means what??? nothing else in common?

   

  
  When MPB and I talk, it's always about the fishes >.<"

• av98m

  29 Oct 08, 18:43

  Originally posted by cassie:

  i think even after marriage, partners should still set aside a day to be together - only them, minus the kids, in-laws etc and zero discussion about kids, family. which is my thinking of why people should stay together for what they have/share. not the kids. if you're only yapping about the kids...means what??? nothing else in common?

   

  
  this I agree.

   

  actually I don't even want kids. a dog and cat, maybe a few chinchillas will do.

• elindra

  29 Oct 08, 18:44

  Originally posted by av98m:

  actually pinky, I see you and mpb as an example of a good marriage and hope that I will be as fortunate one day.

  
  Haha we do play with each othereg. as in flipping his pillow when he is about to lie down to sleep (we use the support pillows so you can only have it 1 way)

  And other childish stuff which I shall not mention here

  But it does keep the marriage going because it is actually fun

• kopiosatu

  29 Oct 08, 18:44

  i just want a PS3 or PS4 by that time.

  and shoot beautiful people.

  my "wife" can help me hold my lenses so i no need to pay for assistants

• av98m

  29 Oct 08, 18:45

  Originally posted by elindra:

  
  Haha we do play with each othereg. as in flipping his pillow when he is about to lie down to sleep (we use the support pillows so you can only have it 1 way)

  And other childish stuff which I shall not mention here

  But it does keep the marriage going because it is actually fun

  
  I hope mrs av will kena pwned by me as often as you are by mpb.skarly I'm the one who always tio pwned.  

• elindra

  29 Oct 08, 18:48

  Originally posted by av98m:

  
  I hope mrs av will kena pwned by me as often as you are by mpb.skarly I'm the one who always tio pwned.  

  
  But it's the no hard feelings kind lor

  And the sickening thing is that I cannot stay angry at him for long because he always makes me laugh

• av98m

  29 Oct 08, 18:49

  Originally posted by elindra:

  
  But it's the no hard feelings kind lor

  And the sickening thing is that I cannot stay angry at him for long because he always makes me laugh

  
  given my record, somehow I have this premonition that I will be the one getting pwned all the time >.<"

• Rhonda

  29 Oct 08, 18:50

  Originally posted by av98m:

  
  I like the blondes with big boobs

  Plenty here!  My Singaporean friends who come here for the first time always have their eyes pop out and they'll comment that the women here flash their cleavage like nobody's business. 

• Rhonda

  29 Oct 08, 18:51

  Originally posted by cassie:

  
  i didn't mean to direct that at you. sorry!

  just my thoughts aloud.

  I know. 

• the Bear

  29 Oct 08, 18:52

  av tio pian by Mrs av like pinkybear tio pian by MPB aka The Comedian

• av98m

  29 Oct 08, 18:54

  holy shit, look at the time! I've got to go.

• Rhonda

  29 Oct 08, 18:54

  Originally posted by kopiosatu:

  i think one of my friend has it good

  through previous relationships, he laid down the law for his current one

  he will only meet the gf ONCE a week

  for the rest of the 6 days, she can only call him... while he continues with his work, studies, playing guitar, drinking beer, hanging out with his friends.

  but he will surely meet her on that one day.

  and they've been together for... i think 2+ yrs?

  I actually want a relationship where we can have our own separate bedrooms and study rooms. 

  I quite like what a few young couples have to do here... because their workplaces are far apart, they keep one house and rent one apartment so during workdays, they are separate but they come together on weekends and public holidays. 

  I really like arrangements like that.  I loved it best when my b/f's will go off once in a while for business or by themselves.  My ex had a job like MPB's except he had to travel a lot more and I was always very happy to have the house to myself.  (The cats were too cause Beng would tease them too much.  )

   

• Rhonda

  29 Oct 08, 18:57

  Originally posted by cassie:

  i think even after marriage, partners should still set aside a day to be together - only them, minus the kids, in-laws etc and zero discussion about kids, family. which is my thinking of why people should stay together for what they have/share. not the kids. if you're only yapping about the kids...means what??? nothing else in common?

   

  That's why I don't want kids... they kill the spontaneity and sizzle in a marriage and I marry a guy because I love him and not because I want to start a family.  Anyways, in sociology class, I was one of three who put up my hand when the lecturer ask, "A husband and wife with no kids, are they considered a family?"  To me, YES! 

  It's nice to have kiddos but I want to be in an 'er ren shi jie'.  I don't want to have to argue over how to discipline the kids, etc.  It can get pretty nasty and in a lot of couples, once they have kids, OMG... they let everything else fall by the wayside.

  I'll just have kittens and maybe a dog or two and my aquarium(s).

• Rhonda

  29 Oct 08, 18:58

  Originally posted by av98m:

  
  given my record, somehow I have this premonition that I will be the one getting pwned all the time >.<"

  What is 'pwned'??

• the Bear

  29 Oct 08, 18:59

  => your Aussie sausage may be roadkill, possum and dunno what other types of meat other than what's on the package

  

• Rhonda

  29 Oct 08, 19:02

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  => your Aussie sausage may be roadkill, possum and dunno what other types of meat other than what's on the package

  

  pthpthpth!!

• Rhonda

  29 Oct 08, 19:04

  Originally posted by elindra:

  
  But it's the no hard feelings kind lor

  And the sickening thing is that I cannot stay angry at him for long because he always makes me laugh

  Reminds me of Beng and I in happier times...  We'd have mock 'fights' and such.  Quite fun!  I haven't met another guy who brings out the cheeky side of me ever since.  Often, I try to be mischievous, but some men just don't geddit! 

  Actually, his name isn't Beng but I keep thinking of him as an Ah Beng! 

• Fatum

  29 Oct 08, 19:06

  back from walk ...

  *poof ! .... patches' turd stinks ! ....

  must stop giving her bananas ....

   

• Kuali Baba

  29 Oct 08, 19:46

  Suddenly all the stuff I've been reading in the last few pages seems scary in a daunting way.  

  "Pwned" = Owned, or a slang for outperforming or getting outperformed by someone else.

• viciouskitty74

  29 Oct 08, 23:34

  wrong timing, wrong thread.