babies are nice ....
I didn't make more money at the blackjack table cos I was busy playing with my small nieces and nephews ... ![]()
Originally posted by the Bear:i'm reduced to using the bullshit bingo website to get bullshit words to write an intro which i've been struggling with since yesterday..
i'm doomed..
but sometimes..just sometimes, it's kinda fun to create works of fiction. ![]()
Originally posted by the Bear:i'm reduced to using the bullshit bingo website to get bullshit words to write an intro which i've been struggling with since yesterday..
i'm doomed..
welcome to the club!
All gainfully employed adults are full of angst with regards to work.
So, tell me why people have children, knowing that sooner or later, their children will be subject to the stress and frustrations of the workplace? And things only get worse over the years, never better.
Maybe, people love the joy kids bring into their own lives but they don't really think about the struggles the children will have to go through as they grow older...
Maybe, some people think that having children cements their marriage together...
Or, there are folks who want to ensure that they leave a mark on planet earth by ensuring they have descendants to carry on their family line and perpetuate their genes generation after generation.
So, which of these reasons are not selfish? ![]()
Originally posted by Rhonda:All gainfully employed adults are full of angst with regards to work.
So, tell me why people have children, knowing that sooner or later, their children will be subject to the stress and frustrations of the workplace? And things only get worse over the years, never better.
Maybe, people love the joy kids bring into their own lives but they don't really think about the struggles the children will have to go through as they grow older...
Maybe, some people think that having children cements their marriage together...
Or, there are folks who want to ensure that they leave a mark on planet earth by ensuring they have descendants to carry on their family line and perpetuate their genes generation after generation.
So, which of these reasons are not selfish?
because children are the embodiment of hope for the future .... the genesis of the union of two spirits .... you have lived your life to the best of your abilities ..... your children may do it better ...... ![]()
Originally posted by Rhonda:All gainfully employed adults are full of angst with regards to work.
So, tell me why people have children, knowing that sooner or later, their children will be subject to the stress and frustrations of the workplace? And things only get worse over the years, never better.
Maybe, people love the joy kids bring into their own lives but they don't really think about the struggles the children will have to go through as they grow older...
Maybe, some people think that having children cements their marriage together...
Or, there are folks who want to ensure that they leave a mark on planet earth by ensuring they have descendants to carry on their family line and perpetuate their genes generation after generation.
So, which of these reasons are not selfish?
Long time ago, I had this theory that people who choose to have kids probably have a more optimistic worldview than those who don't. However, time has since totally debunked that ![]()
There are those who feel it is a sort of social responsibility (I'm not kidding. I know some of these people)
Originally posted by Fatum:because children are the embodiment of hope for the future .... the genesis of the union of two spirits .... you have lived your life to the best of your abilities ..... your children may do it better ......
man, the last time I was so positive, I still had hair. ![]()
but good for you!
Originally posted by Fatum:because children are the embodiment of hope for the future .... the genesis of the union of two spirits .... you have lived your life to the best of your abilities ..... your children may do it better ......
High and lofty-sounding. Fatum, it's hot enough here already, please don't blast more of your hot air into my direction! ![]()
Machiam "embodiment of hope for the future"... hope for what? More people to leave their carbon footprint on the world? Hopefully the children will increase the overall world population so that by virtue of sheer numbers, the %age of drunks and addicts would 'appear' to have decreased? Hope that when you are elderly and retired, you will have backup plans and moral and social support?
And, what if your children do not do it better?
One of the distinguishing features of homo sapiens is that unlike animals, we actually can have sex for pleasure, sex as an emotional crutch, sex due to sex addiction, etc. whereas animals experience union mainly for the purpose of genesis.
Originally posted by av98m:
man, the last time I was so positive, I still had hair.but good for you!
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I think it's a good thing my parents have my brother. He's the model Singaporean son, blah blah.
Me, they must look at me and think, "What the hell happened?!"
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Originally posted by Rhonda:
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I think it's a good thing my parents have my brother. He's the model Singaporean son, blah blah.
Me, they must look at me and think, "What the hell happened?!"
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I still hold the view that as long as the kids are gainfully employed, not on drugs, or in jail, they should be happy liao. ![]()
Originally posted by Fatum:because children are the embodiment of hope for the future .... the genesis of the union of two spirits .... you have lived your life to the best of your abilities ..... your children may do it better ......
despite the flowery lies, the truth is tat u just regard it as a proof of ur tadpoles.... *siam*
Originally posted by tare:
despite the flowery lies, the truth is tat u just regard it as a proof of ur tadpoles.... *siam*
don't firestone people until liddat lah, we do need people with optimism on this planet ![]()
hi fatum. missing giving away ang bao? ![]()
hi rhonda, why is it so hot in oz? it's summer? any water rationing again?
Originally posted by av98m:
don't firestone people until liddat lah, we do need people with optimism on this planet
okie okie...
well, IF i EVER managed to squeeze out 1 baby... it would be i want someone to take care of and accompany
when i die
Originally posted by SevenEleven:hi fatum. missing giving away ang bao?
I've started already ..... just not to the smaller nieces and nephews, that'll come after I'm married ... ![]()
but kids are nice neh ? ....
there'll be 16 small nieces and nephews of assorted ages coming to my house on saturday .... patches would go nuts again .... she plays very well with kids ....
Originally posted by av98m:
I still hold the view that as long as the kids are gainfully employed, not on drugs, or in jail, they should be happy liao.
Tell that to my parents.
I don't think the typical Singaporean parents will be that easily contented.
I grew up with dad constantly comparing me to his friends' daughters, so me being obstinate, I'd compare him with my friends' fathers.
Of course, it didn't go down well with him. ![]()
Originally posted by tare:
despite the flowery lies, the truth is tat u just regard it as a proof of ur tadpoles.... *siam*
Aaaaah harharharharhar!! The fact of the matter is, Fatum, as we all already know (more than we want to, really), is obsessed with everything to do with his gonads, his manhood, and his posterior orifices. Everything to do with the groin region, he's obsessed with.
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Originally posted by Fatum:I've started already ..... just not to the smaller nieces and nephews, that'll come after I'm married ...
but kids are nice neh ? ....
there'll be 16 small nieces and nephews of assorted ages coming to my house on saturday .... patches would go nuts again .... she plays very well with kids ....
it nice you are so positive. yes, kids are nice to play with but the responsibilities that comes with them. when they are sick, if they got into bad companies, when they don't do well academicially...........
the list is long ![]()
Originally posted by Rhonda:Aaaaah harharharharhar!! The fact of the matter is, Fatum, as we all already know (more than we want to, really), is obsessed with everything to do with his gonads, his manhood, and his posterior orifices. Everything to do with the groin region, he's obsessed with.
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that's fine but the current impediment is mrs fatum (or the lack of it)
Originally posted by SevenEleven:hi rhonda, why is it so hot in oz? it's summer? any water rationing again?
Har? You ask me why it's so hot in summer?
That's a question I wanna ask God myself! ![]()
No water rationing, just some soft sell attempt to encourage people not to waste water, which isn't really working cause sadly, a lot of people here don't really care.
The drought has brought prices of food up and up.
My bro's FIL commented yesterday, "Why is bread, milk, eggs, etc so expensive here?" ![]()
Originally posted by cassie:
that's fine but the current impediment is mrs fatum (or the lack of it)
I find Fatum amusing sometimes... that's like nursing leg cramps from running marathons before you have even started running the marathon! ![]()
Originally posted by cassie:
that's fine but the current impediment is mrs fatum (or the lack of it)
that will come soon ....
this year I think ....
I can feel it in my bones .....
Wait a minute... Fatum... distributing ang pows?! Haaaar?!!! ![]()
Originally posted by cassie:
that's fine but the current impediment is mrs fatum (or the lack of it)
wanna help?