Night Owls Chatterboxes - Part LXIX
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I think I can safely said. I give up on men.
Stepmother is shouting and screaming at my father behind me, in Phuket Thailand, on the laptop to my father who is in Singapore right now, on skype.
I see my father repeating his patterns. I see my step mom going hysterical.
Is about the same as when I went postal when I was doing my separation and then divorce.
And it still reminds me of how it was when I was 13 years old helpless when my mother and father started this pattern and later ruin all of our lives.
Damn sianz....I think its much more preferable to live a life of a nun.
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Don't worry, they're harmless.
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I see that you've had the haircut for CCF, VK. How does it feel now?
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Originally posted by Kuali Baba:
I see that you've had the haircut for CCF, VK. How does it feel now?
Very cooling....and I've been sweating and just run my hand thru the bristles and the sweat will all flick off easily.Its pretty prickly, but I would say its not that bad as when I did it few years ago.
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farked up.
my father, instead of telling me things direct, was threatening my stepmother with kicking me out.
and i am so ready to kick his ass for his threats.
He really think I am still 13 years old and not able to make sure he loses more then family if he really screw up this one more time.
Think what? I farked around with siblings at my costs is that easy to do and I cannot do anymore?
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*me mysteriously appears in a puff of smoke*
I finally got my first issue of Runner's World in the mail after subscribing to it.
They said it would arrive in 'the first week of July', but I only received it today.
Looking at the address, I think I know why.... they forgot to include the postal code.
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*unleashes the fire extinguisher at fudgie*
stop smoking this place!
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*me ketok ah lau's head with a baseball bat*
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I love this sign.....
If we see smoke, we assume you are on fire.
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home..
dad's asking me why someone converted his document to PDF and his cronies cannot open..
i said that his cronies are morons
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Ok another note. I am doing frantic packing at the moment.
While I was out, trying to chill down at Tesco Lotus Phuket Swensen's with a topless five set of ice cream. (I had green tea, macadamia nut, rum & raisin, berry yogurt & lime serbet.)
My stepmother calls me to tell me, that my father has suddenly decided to come back up to Phuket tomorrow night. My stepmother still is staying in Singapore till Sunday.
So I asked: 'Why did he need to be in Phuket?'
I already knew the answer as being:
1) He really has work he need to do only in Phuket. (Thats about as believable as my hair has grown 6 inches.)
2) He intend to leave my stepmother alone and worried in Singapore, while he returns to Phuket Thailand to give me a thrashing for 'intentionally trying to ruin his new family.
3) Knowing how my stepmother is reliant on me and is a great host, he wants to throw me out by the ear on the streets of Phuket and she cant do anything about it.
Which also tend to show his 'powers' as the head of the household. Its to demonstrate his heartlessness and his 'right' as a father.
4) He was only threatening my stepmother with the above scenerio. And chances are he wants the confrontation with me in private, where he will be most powerful since its not legally binding for him if he misbehave with me in Thailand, instead of being in Singapore. Also, whatever transpire between us, stepmother does not have to know and will thus fear him. ( I almost can hear how my father thinks.)
5) My stepmother is the more violent person, and she wont stand for him attempting to maul me infront of my half sister. And she being stuck in Singapore with no use-able english to bring herself home.......will garantee that he can make his points clear.
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Now I am trying to co-ordinate that I can return to Singapore. Preferably with my half sister. Where all of us can sit down with our father, lay down the cards on the table and deal with things instead of playing guessing game with each other.
Topics include: Does she really wants to go to Singapore to study. Who is going to be paying for what & why wasnt my sister made a Singapore citizen and he only wants a PR for her.
Does it really have to do with the property in her name? (Which I just found out from the lawyer next door to us......that she wasnt eligible.)
My estimation of how my father is doing things is that. He is keeping my sister a Singapore PR, so that eventually all properties to be passed to her, and he can retired with those properties under his control, because he is the father with or without the stepmother.
In the event that my sister has to give up her rights to properties because she is a singapore citizen. All properties will revert to my stepmother, which he cant touch or dump my stepmother when he wants to.
(Devious eh.........my imaginations.)
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And I suggest the talk to be in Singapore, preferably at a time slot, before my father flies to Phuket.
And I want whoever like my aunts to sit in and listen. And at least in Singapore, I can get a more understanding crowd that knows sg education & citizenship issues. (maybe I just want to rub my aunt's nose in her belief that her brother is not 90% at fault when he deserted the family.)
The neighbours has offered to keep me, even if I am thrown out by the ear in Phuket Thailand, but I rejected, saying I know my father, he will blame everyone else and accuse everyone else of attempting to control or interfere with his family issues.
And like my mother, I need some old legal fellas to sit in with me, to act as my adviser, mediator and whatever else. Might really enforce a point which for so long, always elude my parents.
Manz.....I didnt think I have to do this again for another parent....but it looks like I should.
And I need to urgently find a storage location and probably another room to rent till I get my own place, that will later serve as my legacy to my siblings when they have no way to turn.
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Sucks.....its only 2057 hours for you guys.....this must be too sucky a mind thoughts to be throwing at you guys.
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*me mysteriously reappears in a burst of flames*
Just got back from jogging.
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Originally posted by fudgester:
*me mysteriously reappears in a burst of flames*
Just got back from jogging.
*empties fire extinguisher onto fudgey* -
yay ! ......
just shat ......
and my shit's solid ! .....
first time since monday ! .....
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don't you love the Russians?
this is on their fire extinguishers
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SI FATUM!!! STOP SHARING SUCH DETAILS!! PLEASE!!!
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Originally posted by Fatum:
yay ! ......
just shat ......
and my shit's solid ! .....
first time since monday ! .....
TMI!!!!! -
Happiness is regular bowel movements .......
Happy Times ..... v
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Originally posted by the Bear:
don't you love the Russians?
this is on their fire extinguishers
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Originally posted by Fatum:
Happiness is regular bowel movements .......
Happy Times ..... v
WHISKEY TANGO FOXTROT......
We DO NOT want to know the details of your bowel movements!!!
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grrr... si fatum..
if you indulge in verbal diarrhoea about your physical diarrhoea again, we're going to kick you in your tadpole factory