hey..... cannot like that say lah..Originally posted by most_inner_thoughts:Yes... it is definitely the EGO thingy they keep talking about...and also the FACE thingy...its like if they say sorry first the word will be written all over their face and they cant go out and face other people...![]()
why is it that some gals never give in? like if both of you argue and become at loggerheads for a few weeks she still doesnt give in. always expecting you to call her first. is it some ego thing?Originally posted by cutepixie:why is it that some guys never give in? like if both of you argue and become at loggerheads for a few weeks he still doesnt give in. always expecting you to call him first.is it some ego thing?
Woohoo..u have exactly the same problem as I face. I choose to break lorOriginally posted by tomage00:hey..... cannot like that say lah..
sometime it is the gal wrongs....so cant blame them what.
i have a ex whom always piss me off.but i had too say sorry till i cannot take it anymore.it depend on what u quarrel too.
guy seldom get piss off till like that,maybe it is the gal whom make major mistake like going out wif opposite sex for.....
Very high chance your bf wanna break off with u.Originally posted by cutepixie:why is it that some guys never give in? like if both of you argue and become at loggerheads for a few weeks he still doesnt give in. always expecting you to call him first.is it some ego thing?
Originally posted by Demolition:Woohoo..u have exactly the same problem as I face. I choose to break lor
Be the better person. Call him first ... and break up and .. stop all this biching.Originally posted by cutepixie:why is it that some guys never give in? like if both of you argue and become at loggerheads for a few weeks he still doesnt give in. always expecting you to call him first.is it some ego thing?
x2Originally posted by Fuqua:Be the better person. Call him first ... and break up and .. stop all this biching.
agree...Originally posted by tomage00:hey..... cannot like that say lah..
sometime it is the gal wrongs....so cant blame them what.
i have a ex whom always piss me off.but i had too say sorry till i cannot take it anymore.it depend on what u quarrel too.
guy seldom get piss off till like that,maybe it is the gal whom make major mistake like going out wif opposite sex for.....
hmm....okok...maybe i forgot to include some words in my reply...not ALL GUYS ARE LIKE TAT...only a minority are facing EGO problems... sometimes even when the gal actually pulls her face down and say SORRY first...they still do not seem to forgive and forget...Originally posted by tomage00:hey..... cannot like that say lah..
sometime it is the gal wrongs....so cant blame them what.
i have a ex whom always piss me off.but i had too say sorry till i cannot take it anymore.it depend on what u quarrel too.
guy seldom get piss off till like that,maybe it is the gal whom make major mistake like going out wif opposite sex for.....
Yes the ego thing u see. Though u as a girl may not know it yet.. being.. well em a girl that u are,, imagine urself as USSR and ur guy is USA. If ur guy gives into you, you will think he is weak and not manly, and in not manly he will be less attractive to you, since you as a girl are attracted to power, authority, manliness and testerone etc etc.Originally posted by cutepixie:why is it that some guys never give in? like if both of you argue and become at loggerheads for a few weeks he still doesnt give in. always expecting you to call him first.is it some ego thing?
I agree with this statement. not that we will seem weak...just tat guys will take us for granted after awhile...tinking that no matter how 'xiong' we quarrel...gals will still say sorry and then things will nv end...and there will come one day when the guy is sianz of hearing the gal say sorry and leave her...reason being that she has no BACKBONE...pple wan her apologize she apologize...wah lau...wat stupid excuse is that??Originally posted by cutepixie:then we girls too will seem weak if we keep giving in
yah lor...den when the doormats gets dirty or they tired of looking at the design on them....they change a new one...haiz...Originally posted by cutepixie:exactly. like doormats. they think we'll always be there for them
ladies.....u need not always say sorry if u think you are right.IT YOU choose it.no one force u,as for the guy getting bored wif ur sorry.think u meet the wrong person,or should i say,the guy think that thing are not improving.Originally posted by most_inner_thoughts:I agree with this statement. not that we will seem weak...just tat guys will take us for granted after awhile...tinking that no matter how 'xiong' we quarrel...gals will still say sorry and then things will nv end...and there will come one day when the guy is sianz of hearing the gal say sorry and leave her...reason being that she has no BACKBONE...pple wan her apologize she apologize...wah lau...wat stupid excuse is that??
i think you two need to talk things out.Originally posted by cutepixie:then we girls too will seem weak if we keep giving in
give n take?Originally posted by cutepixie:then we girls too will seem weak if we keep giving in