guys are weird creatures
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why is it that some guys never give in? like if both of you argue and become at loggerheads for a few weeks he still doesnt give in. always expecting you to call him first.
is it some ego thing? -
Yes... it is definitely the EGO thingy they keep talking about...and also the FACE thingy...its like if they say sorry first the word will be written all over their face and they cant go out and face other people...
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hey..... cannot like that say lah..Originally posted by most_inner_thoughts:Yes... it is definitely the EGO thingy they keep talking about...and also the FACE thingy...its like if they say sorry first the word will be written all over their face and they cant go out and face other people...
sometime it is the gal wrongs....so cant blame them what.
i have a ex whom always piss me off.but i had too say sorry till i cannot take it anymore.it depend on what u quarrel too.
guy seldom get piss off till like that,maybe it is the gal whom make major mistake like going out wif opposite sex for..... -
then it doesn't apply to guys if you're not giving either.
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why is it that some gals never give in? like if both of you argue and become at loggerheads for a few weeks she still doesnt give in. always expecting you to call her first. is it some ego thing?Originally posted by cutepixie:why is it that some guys never give in? like if both of you argue and become at loggerheads for a few weeks he still doesnt give in. always expecting you to call him first. is it some ego thing? -
Woohoo..u have exactly the same problem as I face. I choose to break lorOriginally posted by tomage00:hey..... cannot like that say lah..
sometime it is the gal wrongs....so cant blame them what.
i have a ex whom always piss me off.but i had too say sorry till i cannot take it anymore.it depend on what u quarrel too.
guy seldom get piss off till like that,maybe it is the gal whom make major mistake like going out wif opposite sex for..... -
Very high chance your bf wanna break off with u.Originally posted by cutepixie:why is it that some guys never give in? like if both of you argue and become at loggerheads for a few weeks he still doesnt give in. always expecting you to call him first. is it some ego thing? -
Originally posted by Demolition:Woohoo..u have exactly the same problem as I face. I choose to break lor
these days,gals r complaining too much.n yet,they cried for equal statues when they still belived in them having the right to cry foul when it them whom in the wrong.
if he dont call u,u call him lah.think what is the problem.if these type of thing happen so often,get a new bf lor.
Fire + water = boiling water.
fire + ice =???
christmas coming......any plan?
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Be the better person. Call him first ... and break up and .. stop all this biching.Originally posted by cutepixie:why is it that some guys never give in? like if both of you argue and become at loggerheads for a few weeks he still doesnt give in. always expecting you to call him first. is it some ego thing? -
x2Originally posted by Fuqua:Be the better person. Call him first ... and break up and .. stop all this biching.
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agree...Originally posted by tomage00:hey..... cannot like that say lah..
sometime it is the gal wrongs....so cant blame them what.
i have a ex whom always piss me off.but i had too say sorry till i cannot take it anymore.it depend on what u quarrel too.
guy seldom get piss off till like that,maybe it is the gal whom make major mistake like going out wif opposite sex for.....
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hmm....okok...maybe i forgot to include some words in my reply...not ALL GUYS ARE LIKE TAT...only a minority are facing EGO problems... sometimes even when the gal actually pulls her face down and say SORRY first...they still do not seem to forgive and forget...Originally posted by tomage00:hey..... cannot like that say lah..
sometime it is the gal wrongs....so cant blame them what.
i have a ex whom always piss me off.but i had too say sorry till i cannot take it anymore.it depend on what u quarrel too.
guy seldom get piss off till like that,maybe it is the gal whom make major mistake like going out wif opposite sex for.....
and of course i agree that gals also have their Pride and EGO lah...I dont know about other gals okie...but the few i noe have tried to change themselves to suit their bfs and i tink that is no good leh....like become another person lor....
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but lets say the girl gives in many times. in becomes a habit and he expects you to always give it frm then on.
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Put it this way, some guys really do take for granted when the gals give in and they kick up a fuss even if they are in the wrong and expect you to give in again as well. They just have to be right.
What I did?
You can be right.
But I will just leave
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I think its both... guys and girls... there are some guys who always want their other half to give in... and same goes for girls...
But the more mature ones should know whether they're in the right or wrong and admit to it.
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i dun want to give in all the time.
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i guess its a balance...sometimes must say sorry,sometimes must be angry..if not the girl will climb over ur head,or smt...that's what my friends told me
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Yes the ego thing u see. Though u as a girl may not know it yet.. being.. well em a girl that u are,, imagine urself as USSR and ur guy is USA. If ur guy gives into you, you will think he is weak and not manly, and in not manly he will be less attractive to you, since you as a girl are attracted to power, authority, manliness and testerone etc etc.Originally posted by cutepixie:why is it that some guys never give in? like if both of you argue and become at loggerheads for a few weeks he still doesnt give in. always expecting you to call him first. is it some ego thing?
Thus he does not give in to preserve his toughness, and you actually enjoy/like that even though u do not know you do. -
then we girls too will seem weak if we keep giving in
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I agree with this statement. not that we will seem weak...just tat guys will take us for granted after awhile...tinking that no matter how 'xiong' we quarrel...gals will still say sorry and then things will nv end...and there will come one day when the guy is sianz of hearing the gal say sorry and leave her...reason being that she has no BACKBONE...pple wan her apologize she apologize...wah lau...wat stupid excuse is that??Originally posted by cutepixie:then we girls too will seem weak if we keep giving in -
exactly. like doormats. they think we'll always be there for them
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yah lor...den when the doormats gets dirty or they tired of looking at the design on them....they change a new one...haiz...Originally posted by cutepixie:exactly. like doormats. they think we'll always be there for them -
ladies.....u need not always say sorry if u think you are right.IT YOU choose it.no one force u,as for the guy getting bored wif ur sorry.think u meet the wrong person,or should i say,the guy think that thing are not improving.Originally posted by most_inner_thoughts:I agree with this statement. not that we will seem weak...just tat guys will take us for granted after awhile...tinking that no matter how 'xiong' we quarrel...gals will still say sorry and then things will nv end...and there will come one day when the guy is sianz of hearing the gal say sorry and leave her...reason being that she has no BACKBONE...pple wan her apologize she apologize...wah lau...wat stupid excuse is that??
people wanna be happy everyday,it the same for relationship.if it always quarrel, well.......break up is the most possible way.
have u ever heard of the nailling of the wall.where u nail a nail in the wall and take out when u cool down.the effect is there. -
i think you two need to talk things out.Originally posted by cutepixie:then we girls too will seem weak if we keep giving in -
give n take?Originally posted by cutepixie:then we girls too will seem weak if we keep giving in
ayah humans in general all damn ego one. its plain stupid. both sides wanting each other badly but both sides not giving in. morons.