Playing with cylindrical object a sign of arousal/attraction
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I read Allan Pease's book "Body Language" and he described a sign of women's arousal/ attraction is her subconsious fondling of cylindrical object she could get in the presence of the guy(s). The object could be anything cylindrical like a cocktail glass, a drinking straw etc.
At first I thought nothing of it. Until I saw my friend doing it and I was stunned.
Anyway, I witnessed this for myself during a group outing and I was wondering what that gal was thinking at that time. I don't think the rest of the other guys noticed it (since they've not read the book?) but that gal was twisting and turning the bottleneck of the drink bottle she was holding while engrossed in her conversation.
So I wonder how true or reliable this "fondling cylindrical object" theory is and if any of you guys/gals notice this phenomenon, perhaps with friends or your bf/gf. Luckily she was not looking at me as she played with her bottle or else I would have to make an excuse not to sit next to her.
More information on Allan Pease's theory can be found at http://www.bodylanguagetraining.com/nathealtharticle.htm -
me like to fondle my SIGG water bottle.....
or fondle my cigg....
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must be careful when i use chopsticks liao... later ppl say i horny...
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Problem is..wats she thinking of doing with that cylinder....
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what about guys' sign of arousal? he start digging his nostrils?Originally posted by m.c.king:I read Allan Pease's book "Body Language" and he described a sign of women's arousal/ attraction is her subconsious fondling of cylindrical object she could get in the presence of the guy(s). The object could be anything cylindrical like a cocktail glass, a drinking straw etc.
At first I thought nothing of it. Until I saw my friend doing it and I was stunned.
Anyway, I witnessed this for myself during a group outing and I was wondering what that gal was thinking at that time. I don't think the rest of the other guys noticed it (since they've not read the book?) but that gal was twisting and turning the bottleneck of the drink bottle she was holding while engrossed in her conversation.
So I wonder how true or reliable this "fondling cylindrical object" theory is and if any of you guys/gals notice this phenomenon, perhaps with friends or your bf/gf. Luckily she was not looking at me as she played with her bottle or else I would have to make an excuse not to sit next to her.
More information on Allan Pease's theory can be found at http://www.bodylanguagetraining.com/nathealtharticle.htm -
or the crotch
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Fondling objects is not a sure sign, because not every girl does it.Originally posted by m.c.king:I read Allan Pease's book "Body Language" and he described a sign of women's arousal/ attraction is her subconsious fondling of cylindrical object she could get in the presence of the guy(s). The object could be anything cylindrical like a cocktail glass, a drinking straw etc.
At first I thought nothing of it. Until I saw my friend doing it and I was stunned.
Anyway, I witnessed this for myself during a group outing and I was wondering what that gal was thinking at that time. I don't think the rest of the other guys noticed it (since they've not read the book?) but that gal was twisting and turning the bottleneck of the drink bottle she was holding while engrossed in her conversation.
So I wonder how true or reliable this "fondling cylindrical object" theory is and if any of you guys/gals notice this phenomenon, perhaps with friends or your bf/gf. Luckily she was not looking at me as she played with her bottle or else I would have to make an excuse not to sit next to her.
More information on Allan Pease's theory can be found at http://www.bodylanguagetraining.com/nathealtharticle.htm
But yah, it's true
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you have to see the context in which she is doing that...
context is most important.. not the real action of doing it..
also u need to look out for the overall body language to see if there are any conflicting body languages
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ok this is interesting. anymore? Wad about guys?
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what if the girl is studying calculus? she has to fondle cylindrical objects in her mind all the time
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Eh? Hmm...I see gals fondling cylindrical objects all the time.